|TheComfortCorner| v.4

[sagittarius.]

Literally had one of the the worst days ever.
Yesterday was great, one of the best days I've had in years but God knows I can't have good things.
First of all I get a stupid detention for moving my safety specs up in Chemistry so that I could put my glasses on because I couldn't see. My first ever detention. Seriously? For that?
I got so stressed about turning up on time and was literally trembling like you don't understand.
And I found out that in my absence last week I missed a heck of a lot of English coursework and now owe my teacher two three page essays for Friday.
Then I had a two hour lecture after school with that same teacher.
Great. Couldn't get better.

[amaoretto]

*sigh*
And I was having such a great day too...
My friends that I used to talk to all the time had forgotten about me.
I know it might not seem as bad as I say it is, but trust me.
My biggest fear is being forgotten and if my friends forget/leave me I get sad and won't talk for awhile...
Hanji just needs a hug...

[Nefelibata]

Slowly over the past year or less I've been learning more about myself, and there's more things wrong with me than I actually thought.
I'm not just extremely shy and introverted, I have major trust issues and I've been told to tell someone I trust about my problems. But who? Who do I tell when I'm even scared of talking to my closest friend who I'm almost certain would help?
I know I really need help but I don't know how to get help or what to do.
I hate this so much
What's wrong with me? Why am I like this? I really, really hate it.
I'm just hoping everything will be alright soon.

This might have something to do with your past. For instance, I had pretty bad relationships, even friendships with guys in the past, and now it is hard for me to have trust in one of my best friends, who is a guy. I know exactly how you feel, but once in a while, even though everything inside you tells you not do so, take risks. I took risks. I spoke openly with my best friends and she was forgiving, and helped me emotionally deal with the problem.

This problem will persist, until you will get used to having trust in people. Believe me, I'm very shy and introverted too, but we'll both go over it <3 *pats back and gives cookies*

This isn't really important..
but I'm feeling a big regret right now and I'm very mad at myself.

We always have to focus on the present and the future as we live. Some actions we did in the past might affect our present, but it is totally useless to think about the ones who didn't change anything at all. You shouldn't be mad at yourself for something you did. I'd be rather thankful. The great intellectuals didn't learn everything from books. They did from experiences, even the most embarrasing ones.

I feel as if something is wrong with me physically,
but I'm too afraid to go see a doctor about it. Not
only am I afraid of confirming my fears, I am also
afraid of finding out that it was just my anxiety
acting up and that nothing at all is wrong. I don't
want to feel like I am over-reacting, either. But
something has to be wrong, right? My pain
had me in tears earlier.

I know how hard it must be for you to deal with these kinds of things. But I don't see why you would be afraid of your anxiety. Psychological problems can cause pain too, and if the issue isn't pshysical, then, the doctor could direct you to a therapist. Could you tell me more in a pm, probably?

[MoonStone00]

Really just in the mood to shove my face in the ground like an ostrich. All my friends around me are getting engaged and having kids and I'm just like "yeah still waiting for him to make it official..." I've expressed it to him and I don't wanna rush anything but we have been together for 3 years and known each other for about 6. It's about time ya make it official you goof.
I'm sitting here lonely and waiting.

[luxray;]

nevermind

[Guest]

Could somebody PM me, please?

[my sweet piano]

Apparently, if people not well known or good as the others at drawing, they get ignored.

[.m i n y o o n g i]

Please help me ;-; could someone maybe PM me...?

[hollyglow]

Ugh. I'm really hurting for my friend right now. I'm a girl, and he's a guy, but we're still friends. Actually, we've been friends since preschool, so I'm very loyal to him. So, the problem is, he thinks all his work is horrible. Math project: horrible
Essay: horrible
Claim: horrible.
Yeah, that last one needs to be explained. We were doing something in CA, and he was sharing his claim, and when he finished he said, "yeah, I know, it's horrible, " and I realized he's done this a lot, mostly with smaller stuff. Then my friend said I should just tell him that his work is really good.

The only problem? I have a crush on him, and if I tell him that, I'm worried that it'll sound super obvious and fake. But I feel horrible for him. What should I do?

[luxray;]

So my best friend's boyfriend is harassing me. He doesn't make any attempt to tolerate me, and he always mocks me and calls me a "good for nothing rat". I've gotten mad at him and called him some names before, but that's because I'm a really defensive person, and he's honestly really hurting me. She says that she'll talk to him, but I know she's biased, so she'll probably be on his side. I really hate him, and for good reason. He lies and he's overall not a great person. It doesn't help that I'm grappling with depression and I just lost my boyfriend of almost 2 years.