TheMiniApocalypse wrote:Hello comfort corner. Thank you if you took the time to read what I am about to say, and if you didn't thank you for acknowledging it. So here's the problem, lets call this person cupcake. Cupcake is a very close person to me, they are my sibling. Me and Cupcake both share a friend who we will call Brownie. The problem is, Cupcake dies not want me to be friends with Brownie under no circumstances, here is how I decided to solve this problem which only caused me to get very hurt to the point where I just might have fallen into depression.
I decided to quit being Brownie's friend so Cupcake would love me and stop venting and crying. But the thing is, I no longer have friends that aren't totally anonymous. What sucks even more than not having friends, my sister still hates my guts. So now I am hated and have no friends I can talk to when I am sad, which is why I am here. The other problem is Brownie refuses to talk to Cupcake and I until we both befriend her and talk to her at the same time and whatnot. BUT I just can't see my sister cry and hurt anymore so not only this is hurting me but it's hurting both Cupcake and Brownie to. Again, thanks for advice and acknowledgement! ):
- Shhh, maybe you should try to talk to Cupcake about how you feel that you care enough to "befriend" Brownie, it is sometimes a good idea on persuading Cupcake to understand why you are freind with Briwnie.
Talk to Brownie 1x1 were Cupcake isn't in present to bring up the past. Maybe brownie will understand that you care for cupcake advice have reasons for your decisions. You love them both equally so try to talk to them both at the same time to acknowledge that.
Hope this helps a little but y'know.
