|TheComfortCorner| v.3

[Rockito]

Life just wants me to die.

[SoundAndVision]

Life just wants me to die.

I know how you feel. *hugs*

[angst]

Chin up, guys. At least there's always internet access.

[vaska]

Well, lets take things in order. Friend's boyfriend.
You're a bit jealous, and that's OK. I've been jealous too! It's human nature. Maybe try telling her subtly that you're jealous.
Or straight up.
I'm sure she'd understand, and try explaining, you're happy for her, and you wish nothing upon this couple, but you're just a bit jealous they have that. That feeling. Warm and fuzzy. Tell your friend. *Double nod* Every thing will be OK. I promise. Telling her will make it better, or you could ask her to dial it down a bit too. If you don't mind listening to how... happy she is about her new lover. *Hug*

--Had to snip the rest since it was so large ^^;

Thanks for the advice! I'm just worried since she's the only friend I have and I don't want to loose her.
She tends to over react over the littlest of things and she gets angry and upset easily. Shes the type of person who if I say i'm jealous of what she has, she will jump to the conclusion that i'm madly in love with her boyfriend. Am I? No. Number one, hes totally not my type. Number two, hes a guy. And number three, I would never, ever do that to her.

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As for the predictions, yes, I've had them many times before. Its quite hard to explain, but usually I only get one small detail, lately however I've been getting more and more and later on when these events actually occur I've been right about nearly every detail. I believe it might be a spirit as well, I've thought my house was haunted since I was a young child. I've always been able to see things other people can't, shadow figures, balls of light and I've seen at least two spirits who didn't look like spirits at all. They looked like they were real, like I could reach out and touch them. One was a young child, one who I felt was extremely hostile and angry, and one was a solider, dressed in an old uniform. He felt sad, like he was grieving over the loss of someone special to him.

While I have had them come to me in the form of dreams, I haven't had a dream prediction in a while. The predictions usually come to me as some sort of a thought, like a voice in my mind that sounds like me, but isn't me. Its hard to explain, and writing it down like this probably doesn't make it sound any better. Basically it doesn't matter where I am, or what i'm doing, a thought/voice will randomly pop into my head, telling me whats going to happen. They also don't pertain to the town where I live, they do however tend to stay close to where I live. As for telling someone, I've tried telling my parents but they don't believe in being psychic or spirits or anything like that.

I think i'll try talking first, then if that doesn't work i'll try the banishing ritual. Thanks for your help!!

Dogs do need the bond with their owners.. <3 Does the nursing home allow pets? Because I bet you the dog will help him recover!
I remember, I went to a sleep over, and my dog just sat on my bed. They need that bond. What does your grandpa want? He should be able to choose where he recovers.

*Big Hug*

Good luck with everything, I hope I helped a little bit? c:

I'm not sure, but i'll ask my dad and see if he can find out! I'm sure he'd love to see him again, he asks us about how hes doing every time we visit him.
According to my father, grandpa wants to go there, my dad also said that it could be anywhere from two weeks, to two months! I can't bare the thought of poor Spike, which is his dogs name by the way, being away from him for so long! I wish he was small enough to sneak inside, haha. Hes a chihuahua, but hes like fifteen pounds xP

Thank you! And yes, you did help me! <3 =)

Well, try telling her, that you wont. And if she doesn't trust you, then its her problem, because you seem like such a great person, I don't know as to why you'd have such a friend.. </3
My inbox is still and forever open!



Well, Does the voice sound familiar? If so I wonder if a loved one is trying to communicate...
If not its probably an 'evil' spirit who doesn't really like people >.> Try talking back to it if you're alone when it does this. Tell it something like 'could you stop? I'm not comfortable with this and I can't help you.'
Or some kind of thing.
But I think a spirits trying to get your attention.
I'll do some research.
I can tell you're rather... 'spooked' about this.

And if your parents don't believe you, try telling them one of the predictions and then when it happens, find the article and explain it to them?





Hmmm... I'd definitely ask.
I'd be your ol' grandpa would like to have his dog. ;w;
Could you set up you take the dog to the outside of the nursing home and have your grandpa meet him if you find out they don't allow dogs? :)



I'm here for you! <3






My problems
VVVVVVVVVVVVV
Great. >.>
I went to the doctor and I can't play Tennis so we need a refund on the money for the lessons.
But I'll be able to do them next month..
But My friend wont be there.
And its harder without a friend. ;w;
Its not 100% I've gotta decide myself. But I have a feeling my mom won't let me go. O.>
And I bought new tennis shoes too! <.>

[<sandfeather>]

Im just stressed, were moveing my moms pregent with my 4th sibling. Mom is working overtime she works 7 days a week and takes care of us, I take care of my younger brothers best i can but sometimes i feel like they hate me... My brother all ready has freinds there are no girls my age that I know of. When I try to play soccer with the other boys and my brother he says go home, my mother wants me to hang out outside but i cant really do anything but sit and watch my brother who dousnt even want me there. I know his freind dousnt want me around but at least hes nice about it... I cant go for long walks inless one of my freinds is over at least i think she just says no but im pretty sure thats why. I sometimes just feel like crying but i keep it to myself, i just need a hug please.

[angst]

Im just stressed, were moveing my moms pregent with my 4th sibling. Mom is working overtime she works 7 days a week and takes care of us, I take care of my younger brothers best i can but sometimes i feel like they hate me... My brother all ready has freinds there are no girls my age that I know of. When I try to play soccer with the other boys and my brother he says go home, my mother wants me to hang out outside but i cant really do anything but sit and watch my brother who dousnt even want me there. I know his freind dousnt want me around but at least hes nice about it... I cant go for long walks inless one of my freinds is over at least i think she just says no but im pretty sure thats why. I sometimes just feel like crying but i keep it to myself, i just need a hug please.

*tight hug*

Geez, that's rough. I'm sorry. If there's any activities that are around where you live - that's a really good way to meet people. Don't be afraid to cry. Crying is a sign you're really open to admitting to your feelings, not giving in to them.

[puddssoul]

This is a really little thing, feel free to ignore it. ;-;

I really want to ask my parents for cosplay things for my birthday, but I'm afraid of how they'll react. I've attended two anime conventions - although one of them was only a day activity, and the other took weeks of convincing to allow them to go and the only reason I got to go (they say it's not but I know better) is because they're going through a divorce and neither of them wanted to be the one to say no - and loved it. I feel ten times more confident than I usually do when I'm in one of my cosplays, and I always adore the people I meet. It's so much fun, it makes me sad I didn't find out about this stuff years ago. owo

But my parents are really disapproving. My mom insists that doing things like this will only attract creepy guys who will kidnap me or something, and while my dad isn't outwardly negative about it, he tends to ignore things I say about it as a way with dealing with it. They always talk weirdly about me when I cosplay, and my father almost refused to take me out in public the last time I did it (it was 4/13 and as Jade Harley I didn't look like that weird of a person either owo). I know the only reason they really allow this is because they don't want to turn me down and be the 'bad guy' right now, and I don't want to take advantage of this right now.

However, the convention I attended last year (very close to home and convenient, I could even stay with family) is happening again this year and is being extended into a three day thing. My parents told me a while back I could go - but I know they'll probably go back on that when I bring it up again. A bunch of my good friends want to go with me, because they all think this stuff is cool too. There are a few new characters I want to cosplay, and I found some good stuff online that is reasonably priced that I really want to help me accomplish that. I know that my dad would probably buy it if I asked him for it, but my mom would probably get mad at me, and I'm honestly afraid to bring it up in the first place. ;-;

The confidence that I get from cosplaying honestly isn't nearly as great when my parents are being this disapproving about it and making me feel less confident for no good reason. *sigh* It already takes a lot of willpower to convince myself that I'm good enough to wear things like this and go out in public because I know people are going to look at me and stuff. ;-;

[vaska]

This is a really little thing, feel free to ignore it. ;-;

I really want to ask my parents for cosplay things for my birthday, but I'm afraid of how they'll react. I've attended two anime conventions - although one of them was only a day activity, and the other took weeks of convincing to allow them to go and the only reason I got to go (they say it's not but I know better) is because they're going through a divorce and neither of them wanted to be the one to say no - and loved it. I feel ten times more confident than I usually do when I'm in one of my cosplays, and I always adore the people I meet. It's so much fun, it makes me sad I didn't find out about this stuff years ago. owo

But my parents are really disapproving. My mom insists that doing things like this will only attract creepy guys who will kidnap me or something, and while my dad isn't outwardly negative about it, he tends to ignore things I say about it as a way with dealing with it. They always talk weirdly about me when I cosplay, and my father almost refused to take me out in public the last time I did it (it was 4/13 and as Jade Harley I didn't look like that weird of a person either owo). I know the only reason they really allow this is because they don't want to turn me down and be the 'bad guy' right now, and I don't want to take advantage of this right now.

However, the convention I attended last year (very close to home and convenient, I could even stay with family) is happening again this year and is being extended into a three day thing. My parents told me a while back I could go - but I know they'll probably go back on that when I bring it up again. A bunch of my good friends want to go with me, because they all think this stuff is cool too. There are a few new characters I want to cosplay, and I found some good stuff online that is reasonably priced that I really want to help me accomplish that. I know that my dad would probably buy it if I asked him for it, but my mom would probably get mad at me, and I'm honestly afraid to bring it up in the first place. ;-;

The confidence that I get from cosplaying honestly isn't nearly as great when my parents are being this disapproving about it and making me feel less confident for no good reason. *sigh* It already takes a lot of willpower to convince myself that I'm good enough to wear things like this and go out in public because I know people are going to look at me and stuff. ;-;

Try to explain its a love of yours! Tell them that you're just a different person and that they can't control that you like to do cosplay!
I'd love to do cosplay, it'd be so much fun!
You'll do great!

Try telling them in their happiest mood. I;e after something your mom loves, and then right after something your dad loves?
Like pretend your dad LOVES... camping, Tell him during or on the ride home kind of thing.

And say your mom LOVES Going out to coffee, after or during, you can tell her!

You can do it! I know you can! :)

Although it may not seem a big deal, its a big deal to you.
You can do it!

*Hug*

Good luck! :3
xxxxx

[apollo.]

Life just wants me to die.

I know how you feel. *hugs*

Come on guys life doesn't want you to die.
Wait it out, and everything will be alright in the end. If everything is not alright, it is not the end.
Smile, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself your worth it, you're worthy of happiness, friends and love. And you're going to find that eventually, I know you will. Wait and you'll find your place in life, you'll find exactly what you're meant to do and become exactly who you're meant to be. Home is the place where you feel safe, loved, and above all else you can be yourself. You just have to find that perfect place that can be your new home.

[puddssoul]

Try to explain its a love of yours! Tell them that you're just a different person and that they can't control that you like to do cosplay!
I'd love to do cosplay, it'd be so much fun!
You'll do great!

Try telling them in their happiest mood. I;e after something your mom loves, and then right after something your dad loves?
Like pretend your dad LOVES... camping, Tell him during or on the ride home kind of thing.

And say your mom LOVES Going out to coffee, after or during, you can tell her!

You can do it! I know you can!

Although it may not seem a big deal, its a big deal to you.
You can do it!

*Hug*

Good luck! :3
xxxxx

Thank you! <3 I've tried a few times but they seem to either settle on 'it's a phase' or insisting it's something I do to act out because of stress. But I'm going to try again to explain to them that it's really something I like - it gives me something to do when I'm bored, and it's something all of my friends and I can have fun doing together - honestly it's not nearly as unsafe as they think it is when we're travelling in such large groups!