|TheComfortCorner| v.3

[shim]

Someone pm me? thinking of leaving cs....

[apollo.]

I wish i would just die or get really hurt so that i wouldn't have to feel like crap everyday.
Because of school. And everything.

Primshay, I'm sorry, this sucks.
Things will get better, school doesn't last forever, and when you go off to college/ high school, you'll get a fresh start to become whoever you want, and who you truly are.
Some people are just jerks, or insecure, and fighting to keep the only thing that matters in their life, popularity. But one day that will be all over for them, and since you didn't get caught up in all that, you'll be prepared for the real world.
You are tough enough to make it through. Maybe talk to some friends about this? Or make an effort to make some new ones, that will help a lot, especially if you get bullied, if you surround yourself with people who will stand up for you, you're a lot less likely to get bullied.

*Gives cookies*
If you ever need anything, or just want to talk about anything, I'm here for you.






Also need to ask you guys a question about the comfort corner. So I was talking with my friend, and she said that I post too much, and never give anyone else a chance, I don't mean to, I just hate leaving posts unanswered. You don't need to lie or sugar coat it for me, do I post too much?

[Thalassic]

Also need to ask you guys a question about the comfort corner. So I was talking with my friend, and she said that I post too much, and never give anyone else a chance, I don't mean to, I just hate leaving posts unanswered. You don't need to lie or sugar coat it for me, do I post too much?

██★██ I actually think what you're doing is great. Hardly anyone comes here to help others, most come here to vent or rant or ask for help (which is exactly what this is for, so that is completely fine), but without people like you, this place would just kinda.. die down.

[condition terminal]

I feel like Im being left out. I can feel it. I'm slowly drifting away from my family. It's been so hard. I can now stay in my room on the Internet the whole day. I never share stuff with my mom. My sister and I were close. It's breaking I know. I'm getting less active and less talkative. I don't know. I'm eating less. I am very sad. I don't know. Why is this? I can't even open to my family anymore! My mom is getting mad at everything I do! I feel worthless. I do everything wrong. Seriously what's the point...

[strawbewwy.]

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I feel like Im being left out. I can feel it. I'm slowly drifting away from my family. It's been so hard. I can now stay in my room on the Internet the whole day. I never share stuff with my mom. My sister and I were close. It's breaking I know. I'm getting less active and less talkative. I don't know. I'm eating less. I am very sad. I don't know. Why is this? I can't even open to my family anymore! My mom is getting mad at everything I do! I feel worthless. I do everything wrong. Seriously what's the point...

I'm sorry love. I know this will be hard, you should talk to a counselor at school about how you feel. From what your describing, it sounds like you might have depression. I know it hurts, and it's scary, but you need to open up and tell your mom how you're feeling. She can't read your mind (and I know that remark sounds snotty, but it's true x3) and maybe she doesn't realize how the way she's acting is upsetting you. Parents can be oblivious to obvious things (such as how upset their child is) because their own stress is heavy. You should try to sit down with her when you can (just between her and you, of course) and try to explain how you feel. If anything, she'll notice something's wrong and may try to help change things for the better. c:

About your sister: try doing things with her again, like asking her to play a game with you, go for a walk, or something just with you two. Even just ask if you two can study together or work on homework together; just something that can get you two together and doing something, even if it's small. Offer to buy ice cream for the two of you or go to the park and do something. It may help boost your relationship again, and it might help boost your own mood a little as well! <3

All the luck (and love) to ya!

[xXFoxfaceToastXx]

Lately I've felt like a time of change is coming. My welcome at home is starting to expire as my mom feels I don't appreciate her and she goes and sets up things like community inclusion, joining a job agency service and other annoying services from her work yet after a while she says it's nothing and I need to do more. Do this, do that. She even made me get into talking in conferences in front of government (I am pretty good at it, it's not a matter of being intimidated but feeling like I'm being used and lack of choice), whenever there is one she tells me last minute and I have to do it. She thinks I don't appreciate her but all I do is what she wants. So in my spare time I just want to have time to myself but mom thinks I'm avoiding her.

Also a little rule which I usually have no qualms with. No eating in your room. However when it's just me and my brother at home he becomes spiteful and mean and hounding. I will mind my own business and he'll bug me, call me downy or retard and other more derogatory words.. I don't have down syndrome but he uses the insult. It is rude to them and rude to me.. He has a obsession with narrating my eating with a piggish or shaming slant to it.

I want to eat in my room to avoid him but he does the whole you break a rule tangent. Recently I was having a movie date with my as of yesterday ex on skype and went in my room to eat but he walked in to bug me and saw the food then went to unplug the internet cord and I kept going back to fix it. He even tied it in knots around a stool, that's how mental and devious and spiteful he is. I'm a peaceful person who keeps to myself yet he has no regard for any human suffering but his own. My dad is a sociopath and I strongly believe my brother is since he is rude to even in front of adults we know like my horseback riding instructor.

[farewell]

{ My PM is open for anyone who needs to speak privately. Don't hesitate to message me if you need anything, dearies. xoxo

[apollo.]

^Thanks zanjux

I feel like Im being left out. I can feel it. I'm slowly drifting away from my family. It's been so hard. I can now stay in my room on the Internet the whole day. I never share stuff with my mom. My sister and I were close. It's breaking I know. I'm getting less active and less talkative. I don't know. I'm eating less. I am very sad. I don't know. Why is this? I can't even open to my family anymore! My mom is getting mad at everything I do! I feel worthless. I do everything wrong. Seriously what's the point...

Aw, this sucks. Try not to go on the computer so much, do whatever else your family is doing, and make sure to come out of your room a lot during the day. Make an effort to share stuff, especially to your sister since you were so close.

I'm sure your mom is just stressed out, about things that are going on in her life, and maybe without even knowing it, the fact that your family's drifting apart, that can take a huge toll on mothers, cause usually they feel like their the ones who have to keep the whole family together, and that's not always an easy task.
if you talk to her, and tell her basically everything you just posted, you guys might get closer again.

*Hugs*
It'll be ok, you guys can work things out.

Lately I've felt like a time of change is coming. My welcome at home is starting to expire as my mom feels I don't appreciate her and she goes and sets up things like community inclusion, joining a job agency service and other annoying services from her work yet after a while she says it's nothing and I need to do more. Do this, do that. She even made me get into talking in conferences in front of government (I am pretty good at it, it's not a matter of being intimidated but feeling like I'm being used and lack of choice), whenever there is one she tells me last minute and I have to do it. She thinks I don't appreciate her but all I do is what she wants. So in my spare time I just want to have time to myself but mom thinks I'm avoiding her.

Also a little rule which I usually have no qualms with. No eating in your room. However when it's just me and my brother at home he becomes spiteful and mean and hounding. I will mind my own business and he'll bug me, call me downy or retard and other more derogatory words.. I don't have down syndrome but he uses the insult. It is rude to them and rude to me.. He has a obsession with narrating my eating with a piggish or shaming slant to it.

I want to eat in my room to avoid him but he does the whole you break a rule tangent. Recently I was having a movie date with my as of yesterday ex on skype and went in my room to eat but he walked in to bug me and saw the food then went to unplug the internet cord and I kept going back to fix it. He even tied it in knots around a stool, that's how mental and devious and spiteful he is. I'm a peaceful person who keeps to myself yet he has no regard for any human suffering but his own. My dad is a sociopath and I strongly believe my brother is since he is rude to even in front of adults we know like my horseback riding instructor.

This sucks, but maybe you can talk to your mom? Next time she springs a conference on you, remind her that you need time to know, and that it annoys you when she springs it on you last minute. Just remind her all the time around the house you appreciate her, what I do for my mom is say ''I love you'', but you can say pretty much anything along those lines. Just talking honestly will work out most of these issues, so I really recommend you do so.


I know that feeling, my brother does all that to me, except instead of all those deragatory terms, he basically calls me a loaf (Which means fat) and swears at me all the time. He's rude, and such a jerk. That might just be a boy thing, and not a sociopath thing, but if you're serious about that, then you might want to talk top your mom, or a councilor or something. Just try to ignore him when you're eating, that's what I do, and although it's still beyond annoying, it might help.

[foreverthesickestsam]

Okay, so I am trying to help a friend through self-harm... and it's just not working. I can't be too descriptive due to CS law, and my respect to keep her anonymous. so please, someone shoot me a PM and help me figure out what I'm doing wrong.

[Sathalina]

The emptiness is slowly setting in now... She really is gone-- I wish her the best of luck with her no good boyfriend.. But I know she will be here again in three months, me and my mother have already guessed she won't last very long with her sister, the two could never live together properly. -sighs- I wish she would just listen to me and let that man go, he is no good for her and she is far too good for him.. She could do better. But-- then again... No one ever listens to Satha.

I'm just not ready.. To be alone like this again-- stuck with only my thoughts, they can get pretty dangerous and sometimes I have a hard time controlling them... They scare me and I'm afraid of hurting someone, even if the person I hate is the reason I am how I am now.. It's still not right.

I just hope she lasts longer than three months, I would really hate to have my plans ruined again because she needs a place to stay-- The first time was understandable-- but this time it shouldn't have to happen, I have a life I am trying to live as well.. I want to live it myself-