UnicornDoingDressage wrote:I'm upset! Today was a field trip, but I got laryngitis and cant even talk, and I'm constantly coughing up icky stuff. I am disappointed :c But I get to eat popsicles all day, so that's nice.
*Hugs* That sucks a lot. It's a lot better that you aren't around other kids so you can rest and get better. If anything, you have bragging rights for eating a bunch of popsicles all day. x3 Seriously though, there'll be a bunch of other field trips and stuff in the future so don't stress yourself out. Feel better sooooon. <3
robinflight. wrote:{{Finally confessed my sexuality after seven months of being taunted about it. My female friends are supportive (except the twins) but my male friends are straying away from me. I can understand my exs' being mad because I told'em straight up 'I'd rather be with a girl than any of you' (because they were being rather rude), any advice? Real advice? I hate getting the same response over and over again: 'They obviously arnt your real friends if they don't support you' and 'Tell them off'...
Good for you for coming out of the closet! That's a big scary thing to do, especially with pressure coming at you. Maybe if you try to ask them why they are acting the way they are. Religeon? Just plain uncomfortableness? Sometimes boys can feel a bit antsy around these type of topics, so trying to sit down with them (either one by one or in a group or whatever feels more comfortable to them, and you) and encourage them to ask questions and answer them as honestly as you know how. Don't rush to end a bunch of relationships just yet, as they probably have a bunch of emotions running through them. Anything from confusion, to fear (that your going to be teased by others, etc), to even anger at the fact you hadn't told them sooner. Just try to talk things out. They probably will hve a better understanding, and will be better equiped to know how to handle these situations. If all fails and they still drift away from you, don't worry about it, not all people understand/tolerate different sexualities and if it bothers them enough that they don't want to be your friend, then let it be, because it'll be THEIR loss, not yours.
Hope this helped any~ <3 *Hugs*