Black Veiled Bride wrote: >.< friend problems.
So my friend has some difficulties... restraining her thoughts. She can be REALLY offensive and doesn't realize the weight of words.
Incident I ) I pretty much always feel ugly and bad about myself. I can't not compare my looks to others and no matter how much I've been told by family and such I always feel fat. I can't help it. I also have problems with my sister sometimes. For those frequent days that make me want to break down and cry, I write inspiring things on the bottom of my feet so noone sees them and I can almost anytime make myself feel better. I told my friend about this habit. She laughed and said, "[insert RL name here], that's really weird. Why do you do that?" That really sucked. My way of cheering me up had turned into my friend's way of making me feel bad.
Incident II ) The following week, at school, she walked into school and said, "Why are you wearing cowboy boots? Cowboy boots are ugly." That sucked as well. So I went to change into my other shoes, some Teva flip flops. I thought they were just shoes. Nope, apparently that gave her the need to say, "Oh god, those are even worse. Go change again!" that SUCKED. I mean. they're just shoes, but seriously? She needs to learn thought control.
Incident III ) Me and another friend had sort of an agreement the next day in which I would wear these really really bright pink shorts and the friend that I'm not ranting about would wear shorts. Now, my friend with thought control issues had to say, "No offense, but I don't think shorts look that good on you." Thanks, bro. Thanks.
Okay, I'm done ranting. I really need a hug now, whether it be physical or virtual.
*smothers in virtual bear hug* I'm so sorry, that's really rude of her. I have a friend who's always judging how I dress and what I do, because I'm kind of an out cast at my school XD I used to get so offended until one day, she was telling me that my sweater dress was ugly, and I said, "M, no offense, but I don't really give a crap" It was really simple, but she never acted rude to me again. Of course, I was way more rude than I should have been, but the point is that you should just tell your friend to stop; plain and simple as that.