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Postby Wanheda » Sun May 05, 2013 10:04 am

I'm not a great comforter, but I'm going to send you all gifts to let you know I read your posts and that I care. Check your trades, anyone who posted recently. ♥

I'm trying to make people feel better because the truth is, I feel pretty vulnerable myself tonight. I need routine and I hate the unpredictability of my job- they can call me to work at any time, usually with less than half a day's notice. I feel powerless. I feel like I lack direction and like I'll never get out of the rut I'm in. I can't just "go out and meet people" because my AS and social anxiety makes it impossible for me to even make eye contact with the cashier at the shop checkouts most days. I don't quite feel alone in that nobody understands, but I feel alone in that I can't tell anyone about it because they'll all think I'm just being melodramatic. I need my fictional characters to comfort me on a night like tonight and I want to just curl up under a blanket and read X-Men comics 'til 3am but I think they're going to call me into work tomorrow so I have to get proper sleep. They might not even call me. I hate not knowing. It really puts me on edge like nothing else can.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby seep5 » Sun May 05, 2013 10:13 am

Naoimh wrote:I'm not a great comforter, but I'm going to send you all gifts to let you know I read your posts and that I care. Check your trades, anyone who posted recently. ♥

I'm trying to make people feel better because the truth is, I feel pretty vulnerable myself tonight. I need routine and I hate the unpredictability of my job- they can call me to work at any time, usually with less than half a day's notice. I feel powerless. I feel like I lack direction and like I'll never get out of the rut I'm in. I can't just "go out and meet people" because my AS and social anxiety makes it impossible for me to even make eye contact with the cashier at the shop checkouts most days. I don't quite feel alone in that nobody understands, but I feel alone in that I can't tell anyone about it because they'll all think I'm just being melodramatic. I need my fictional characters to comfort me on a night like tonight and I want to just curl up under a blanket and read X-Men comics 'til 3am but I think they're going to call me into work tomorrow so I have to get proper sleep. They might not even call me. I hate not knowing. It really puts me on edge like nothing else can.


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You'll get out someday, don't worry this is just the first stage C:
Although the uncertainty does sound horrible, maybe some tea would help?
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby downtongabby » Sun May 05, 2013 10:15 am

Naoimh wrote:I'm not a great comforter, but I'm going to send you all gifts to let you know I read your posts and that I care. Check your trades, anyone who posted recently. ♥

I'm trying to make people feel better because the truth is, I feel pretty vulnerable myself tonight. I need routine and I hate the unpredictability of my job- they can call me to work at any time, usually with less than half a day's notice. I feel powerless. I feel like I lack direction and like I'll never get out of the rut I'm in. I can't just "go out and meet people" because my AS and social anxiety makes it impossible for me to even make eye contact with the cashier at the shop checkouts most days. I don't quite feel alone in that nobody understands, but I feel alone in that I can't tell anyone about it because they'll all think I'm just being melodramatic. I need my fictional characters to comfort me on a night like tonight and I want to just curl up under a blanket and read X-Men comics 'til 3am but I think they're going to call me into work tomorrow so I have to get proper sleep. They might not even call me. I hate not knowing. It really puts me on edge like nothing else can.

I'm so sorry, that really stinks :c take a deep breath and drink a cup of tea, it really works <3
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Wanheda » Sun May 05, 2013 10:17 am

I'm British. Tea is the standard response to everything. XD Thank you both so much for responding. I'll send you both something to say thank you. ♥
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby oyakawa » Sun May 05, 2013 10:22 am

Oh, joy it's my Birthday ._.
No one Understands me..
I have a twin, Not a lot of people know what it's like to "share" a birthday. Especially when you're the younger twin. :c I always get made fun of..being the "baby" "youngest" "shortest" "smallest". I mean My Parents have done a great job on helping celebrate. But, my friends, I invited them over to hang out.. Not to Play on my Computer, Xbox, and Their tablets. I invited them to have fun not to stare at a screen ignoring me the whole time. First, They come over and start up a game and go on MY account and mess with it, then they start flirting with every single random guy they meet on the internet. Just No. <.<" Annoyed the poo outta me, Now thoose guys are friends with my friends on Facebook. Wooowwwww... And My friend told a random guy my full name!! Well EXCUSE ME MA'AM I dont want random people on the internet know MY name. Sheesh, next thing you know she's going to give out my Adress. This is why I cant trust her. Sorry bro. -.-" And After I left the room cause I got angry, She's like: "Really Guys?!?! Omg, Fine! I'll get off. God!"
^^Just no
The only upside to my birthday was my online friends caring, and the presents, and that doesn't say much. .-.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby downtongabby » Sun May 05, 2013 10:25 am

+Nightmare+ wrote:
Oh, joy it's my Birthday ._.
No one Understands me..
I have a twin, Not a lot of people know what it's like to "share" a birthday. Especially when you're the younger twin. :c I always get made fun of..being the "baby" "youngest" "shortest" "smallest". I mean My Parents have done a great job on helping celebrate. But, my friends, I invited them over to hang out.. Not to Play on my Computer, Xbox, and Their tablets. I invited them to have fun not to stare at a screen ignoring me the whole time. First, They come over and start up a game and go on MY account and mess with it, then they start flirting with every single random guy they meet on the internet. Just No. <.<" Annoyed the poo outta me, Now thoose guys are friends with my friends on Facebook. Wooowwwww... And My friend told a random guy my full name!! Well EXCUSE ME MA'AM I dont want random people on the internet know MY name. Sheesh, next thing you know she's going to give out my Adress. This is why I cant trust her. Sorry bro. -.-" And After I left the room cause I got angry, She's like: "Really Guys?!?! Omg, Fine! I'll get off. God!"
^^Just no
The only upside to my birthday was my online friends caring, and the presents, and that doesn't say much. .-.

I'm sorry :( It seems like these days, everyone's definition of "party" is texting on their iPhones...

If it helps any, Happy, happy birthday!!!!
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby oyakawa » Sun May 05, 2013 10:27 am

#1LionKingFan wrote:
+Nightmare+ wrote:
Oh, joy it's my Birthday ._.
No one Understands me..
I have a twin, Not a lot of people know what it's like to "share" a birthday. Especially when you're the younger twin. :c I always get made fun of..being the "baby" "youngest" "shortest" "smallest". I mean My Parents have done a great job on helping celebrate. But, my friends, I invited them over to hang out.. Not to Play on my Computer, Xbox, and Their tablets. I invited them to have fun not to stare at a screen ignoring me the whole time. First, They come over and start up a game and go on MY account and mess with it, then they start flirting with every single random guy they meet on the internet. Just No. <.<" Annoyed the poo outta me, Now thoose guys are friends with my friends on Facebook. Wooowwwww... And My friend told a random guy my full name!! Well EXCUSE ME MA'AM I dont want random people on the internet know MY name. Sheesh, next thing you know she's going to give out my Adress. This is why I cant trust her. Sorry bro. -.-" And After I left the room cause I got angry, She's like: "Really Guys?!?! Omg, Fine! I'll get off. God!"
^^Just no
The only upside to my birthday was my online friends caring, and the presents, and that doesn't say much. .-.

I'm sorry :( It seems like these days, everyone's definition of "party" is texting on their iPhones...

If it helps any, Happy, happy birthday!!!!


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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby princess pudding » Sun May 05, 2013 10:33 am

+Nightmare+ wrote:
Oh, joy it's my Birthday ._.
No one Understands me..
I have a twin, Not a lot of people know what it's like to "share" a birthday. Especially when you're the younger twin. :c I always get made fun of..being the "baby" "youngest" "shortest" "smallest". I mean My Parents have done a great job on helping celebrate. But, my friends, I invited them over to hang out.. Not to Play on my Computer, Xbox, and Their tablets. I invited them to have fun not to stare at a screen ignoring me the whole time. First, They come over and start up a game and go on MY account and mess with it, then they start flirting with every single random guy they meet on the internet. Just No. <.<" Annoyed the poo outta me, Now thoose guys are friends with my friends on Facebook. Wooowwwww... And My friend told a random guy my full name!! Well EXCUSE ME MA'AM I dont want random people on the internet know MY name. Sheesh, next thing you know she's going to give out my Adress. This is why I cant trust her. Sorry bro. -.-" And After I left the room cause I got angry, She's like: "Really Guys?!?! Omg, Fine! I'll get off. God!"
^^Just no
The only upside to my birthday was my online friends caring, and the presents, and that doesn't say much. .-.

      First off, happy birthday. c:
      While I can’t say I fully understand you’re dilemma, I know what it means to be ignored on your birthday. Both my parents were absent on my special day as well as my two best friends [who are also twins], and that left my two younger sisters who I had to babysit. Not the best thing imaginable, but I still went along with it and things turned out fine.

      Just know that being a few minutes late makes no difference. Honestly, that’s the silliest thing I’ve heard of! I’ve read of a legend somewhere about the second born twin being superior to the first born, if it makes you feel better.

      Probably not the best word of advice/comfort, but hopefully I helped?

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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby oyakawa » Sun May 05, 2013 10:59 am

witch. wrote:
+Nightmare+ wrote:
Oh, joy it's my Birthday ._.
No one Understands me..
I have a twin, Not a lot of people know what it's like to "share" a birthday. Especially when you're the younger twin. :c I always get made fun of..being the "baby" "youngest" "shortest" "smallest". I mean My Parents have done a great job on helping celebrate. But, my friends, I invited them over to hang out.. Not to Play on my Computer, Xbox, and Their tablets. I invited them to have fun not to stare at a screen ignoring me the whole time. First, They come over and start up a game and go on MY account and mess with it, then they start flirting with every single random guy they meet on the internet. Just No. <.<" Annoyed the poo outta me, Now thoose guys are friends with my friends on Facebook. Wooowwwww... And My friend told a random guy my full name!! Well EXCUSE ME MA'AM I dont want random people on the internet know MY name. Sheesh, next thing you know she's going to give out my Adress. This is why I cant trust her. Sorry bro. -.-" And After I left the room cause I got angry, She's like: "Really Guys?!?! Omg, Fine! I'll get off. God!"
^^Just no
The only upside to my birthday was my online friends caring, and the presents, and that doesn't say much. .-.

      First off, happy birthday. c:
      While I can’t say I fully understand you’re dilemma, I know what it means to be ignored on your birthday. Both my parents were absent on my special day as well as my two best friends [who are also twins], and that left my two younger sisters who I had to babysit. Not the best thing imaginable, but I still went along with it and things turned out fine.

      Just know that being a few minutes late makes no difference. Honestly, that’s the silliest thing I’ve heard of! I’ve read of a legend somewhere about the second born twin being superior to the first born, if it makes you feel better.

      Probably not the best word of advice/comfort, but hopefully I helped?

      -witch.



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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Jetti » Sun May 05, 2013 11:08 am

I know I just asked for comforting... but I feel just terrible.

I am a failure...
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