Flitter wrote:Neelix wrote:My best friend's cat died. She deleted her signature, her avatar, and I'm afraid she'll delete everything that had anything to do with Casso.
I'm afraid that she won't ever be the same. I'm afraid I'll loose my friend. It hurt when she deleted the avatar and signature with art I made of him for her. I just can't understand. I've never had a pet die.
I feel like she's rejected me, even though I know that she didn't, and she's just mourning her cat.
These stupid emotions don't make sense. I feel so selfish for feeling like this. I feel hurt for her, I've been crying for at least the last half hour, maybe longer. Time is irrelevant when you are upset.
That avatar meant our friendship to me. It wasn't just our cats, it was us. It stings. It really does.
I don't know what to do. I don't know how to comfort her. I just wish I could be there for her. I wish I could give ehr a giant hug and let her cry on my shoulder. I wish he had never gone out. I wish he had never been hit by that car.
But wishes don't mean anything. Wishes don't count for anything. Wishes are meaningless. There is no use wishing.
But.. I just wish....
She's my best friend. I feel so helpless. It feels like she's my only true friend, and I feel like a crappy friend for not being able to help her. I don't understand what she feels like. I don't understand, and I hate it.
I know pets dying hurts (I probably know that better than anyone)...but honey? It's a cat. If she'll stop being friends with you over a CAT, then she's probably not worth it anyway. You can't help her except to be there for her, and maybe ask her just why she's so upset. I'm sorry if I'm seeming heartless, it's just that...what will happen when one of her human relatives die? If someone gets cancer? I think maybe you should talk to her and figure out if anything else is wrong. It feels like quite the reaction for a feline, even a very special one.
I'm sorry if I sound cynical. Hugs to you. <3
That little kitty was the WORLD to my best friend!
That kind of love can never be understood.
And she isn't mad at you Neelix. She is just mourning. </3
























































