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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby w~h~i~s~p~e~r » Wed Sep 05, 2012 2:43 pm

oreety83 wrote:This is a small, selfish problem, but I still want advice. First of all, there are like 20 people so I'm going to give them each a letter...
Z (guy I broke up with)
J (guy who broke up with me)
T (my bestest friend EVER!)
E (new girl)
A (new girls boy friend)
R (girl on my volleyball team who likes A)

Ok so the story starts last year. I like T. I was to scared to tell him though. (by the way we only text and see each other once a year but we text practically everyday) J asked me out and I said yes cus I kinda liked J. I told T. Then J broke up with me, wasn't a big deal. A few days later I told T I liked him. He says he kinda liked me. We stayed friends though. A couple weeks later I ask Z put because I really like him. I break up with him 2 months later because I felt it was getting to intense, but I never told T anything. A few months later, T got suspicious that I had had another boyfriend besides J, which I had. I lied and told him I hadn't. Then, at two o'clock in the morning a few weeks later, I told him I'd lied. He didn't talk to me for 174 hours. I cried the WHOLE time. Finally, we talked a bit, he yelled at me, I deserved it. Then the next day I texted him and I apologized some more. Then he texted me and we had a conversation like we would have if it never happened. We have yet to get over it. Schools back, and new girl E came. She started dating A who was R crush. R got mad at me, and if she told my coach I would be off the team. (I kinda told her I would try to set her and A up) Ahile that was going on, Z was helping me through it. Now I like Z again, and I think he asked me out on a date... I kinda want to, but the relationship between me and T is still shaky and I can't lose T. I really don't want to lie to him either... So really, I wanna know, what should I do?
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby azazel. » Wed Sep 05, 2012 3:00 pm

Felidae. wrote:
    People don't like my boyfriend
    They always ask if we're still dating and try to stay away from him
    They ask me why I'm dating him and why I like him
    They once made me cry because of it
    It's not fair, really
    It's personal and they don't need to know
    Now that he's out of the school, I'm scared of what the kids in my class are going to say about him
    Even my cousin doesn't like him


I've had this problem <3

-hugs- If those people asking are random people you don't talk much with, let them be. Their opinions don't matter. If they're your friends, they should understand if they're REALLY your friends and you're serious about your relationship.
Unfortunately I haven't family advice ^^; my family never once knew about any of my past/current relationship ^^
I really hope it gets better for you -gives tons of warm, soft cookies-
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Lethargy » Wed Sep 05, 2012 3:43 pm

Felidae. wrote:
    People don't like my boyfriend
    They always ask if we're still dating and try to stay away from him
    They ask me why I'm dating him and why I like him
    They once made me cry because of it
    It's not fair, really
    It's personal and they don't need to know
    Now that he's out of the school, I'm scared of what the kids in my class are going to say about him
    Even my cousin doesn't like him


I'm actually going the this right now.. If you need any advice just PM me <3
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby hawkeye. » Thu Sep 06, 2012 12:23 am

oreety83 wrote:
oreety83 wrote:This is a small, selfish problem, but I still want advice. First of all, there are like 20 people so I'm going to give them each a letter...
Z (guy I broke up with)
J (guy who broke up with me)
T (my bestest friend EVER!)
E (new girl)
A (new girls boy friend)
R (girl on my volleyball team who likes A)

Ok so the story starts last year. I like T. I was to scared to tell him though. (by the way we only text and see each other once a year but we text practically everyday) J asked me out and I said yes cus I kinda liked J. I told T. Then J broke up with me, wasn't a big deal. A few days later I told T I liked him. He says he kinda liked me. We stayed friends though. A couple weeks later I ask Z put because I really like him. I break up with him 2 months later because I felt it was getting to intense, but I never told T anything. A few months later, T got suspicious that I had had another boyfriend besides J, which I had. I lied and told him I hadn't. Then, at two o'clock in the morning a few weeks later, I told him I'd lied. He didn't talk to me for 174 hours. I cried the WHOLE time. Finally, we talked a bit, he yelled at me, I deserved it. Then the next day I texted him and I apologized some more. Then he texted me and we had a conversation like we would have if it never happened. We have yet to get over it. Schools back, and new girl E came. She started dating A who was R crush. R got mad at me, and if she told my coach I would be off the team. (I kinda told her I would try to set her and A up) Ahile that was going on, Z was helping me through it. Now I like Z again, and I think he asked me out on a date... I kinda want to, but the relationship between me and T is still shaky and I can't lose T. I really don't want to lie to him either... So really, I wanna know, what should I do?


    You have to stick to one person, oreety. Switching around won't help your relationship with anybody at all. Think about who you care for the most, and try to leave behind any feelings for any other boys so you aren't confused. Remember this: If you really loved the first, you'd never have fallen for the second. Then again, feelings for one person may have intensified over time.

    I believe this would go on another thread, but I'm answering anyways. c:
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Sasha » Thu Sep 06, 2012 2:02 am

Sasha wrote:Hi there! I'm gonna get straight to the point. My friend told me the creepy story about the Slender Man. I don't want to go into details, but basically the more you're paranoid about it, the more real he becomes (It's really scary. I'm warning you not to Google it. Ever). Here's the problem: I'm super, super paranoid. Another problem: I know he's not real. It's just that at night, you really start believing things like that. I'm already in my teens, but yesterday I went to my dad for help. Even then, I only got 4 hours of sleep. My mom just told me that she'd be locking her door tonight because apparently my feelings matter less than her sleep. Please, please help!

Sorry if I'm getting annoying. Still kind of scared. Okay, very scared. >_<
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby līga » Thu Sep 06, 2012 4:50 am

Sasha wrote:
Sasha wrote:Hi there! I'm gonna get straight to the point. My friend told me the creepy story about the Slender Man. I don't want to go into details, but basically the more you're paranoid about it, the more real he becomes (It's really scary. I'm warning you not to Google it. Ever). Here's the problem: I'm super, super paranoid. Another problem: I know he's not real. It's just that at night, you really start believing things like that. I'm already in my teens, but yesterday I went to my dad for help. Even then, I only got 4 hours of sleep. My mom just told me that she'd be locking her door tonight because apparently my feelings matter less than her sleep. Please, please help!

Sorry if I'm getting annoying. Still kind of scared. Okay, very scared. >_<

*hugs* You are having a tough time, i think you should see a doctor. My friend had a similar problem, she went to a psychiatrist and they helped her with therapy and some very light meds to help her calm. I suggest you to do the same.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Alert » Thu Sep 06, 2012 5:37 am

I just want a hug now! I just read facts that scare me (About slendy) :'c
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Lethargy » Thu Sep 06, 2012 6:05 am

    I have no friends, at all. The only friend I had was Camillion & she's hurt because of what I did.
    I love her & I hate that I went back out with my ex boyfriend but I had to since the decision was clear..
    You went away &' I was hurt. Yes, I was hurt.. I couldn't breathe.

    I want my only friend back..
    I'm lonely. </3
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Nikki Amaranti » Thu Sep 06, 2012 9:29 am


Awhile back I rushed to win a GWJ auction;
I was honestly not expecting to win at all and already prepared to the auto-cancel.

But imagine my joy when I was told they loved my bid so much and I had won<3

However.. I guess I was still in the moment that I didn't realize one thing;
one of the pets I had rushed to bid (was looking at the auctioneer's wishlist)...

It had been a gift from a friend many months ago.

Please don't hate on me about it, I never take a gift for granted- and I'm always forever thankful for all gifts.
I just... I'm just disappointed with myself and ashamed that I had not realized this sooner.. it's like a slap in the face.

I feel like I've betrayed my friend.
I honestly don't even have the face to talk to them anymore...

I don't know what to do or how to work up an apology.. I feel like they might just despise me now.
I never meant to outright bid away their gift- in my rush to bid.. I guess I just threw every wishlist pet out...

I saw them mention this in a rant indirectly, but when they brought up the pet-
I just had a terrible feeling in my gut that they must be referring to their gift to me many months back...

Maybe to others it sounds so exaggerated, but I honestly do feel like I've been stabbed in the heart.
They found out about it before I realized it.. but they never confronted me about it- I feel like the worst friend ever...

I don't even feel like staying online anymore.
I am mostly inactive / have quit Chickensmoothie as a whole. ; w ;
It has been a fun many years, but I no longer have the interest to login here much.

You can find me on Flight Rising : Link
But I am not as active there either, but I login there more often compared to CS.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Livalathia » Thu Sep 06, 2012 9:38 am

So it was the first day back at school yesterday u.u

It didn't go so well. Mainly because I have like no one I know in any of my classes so I'm alone almost all day long x.x

So when I got home I was utterly depresses because I have this weird thing where I hate to be alone...cause I have slight paranoia that makes me think everyone hates me...so that pulls into my mind even though I know they cant just go to my class.

So I ended up crying myself to sleep last night and doing some more stupid stuff :/

I feel like I'm so stupid now...but I cant stop doing the stupid stuff because its like an addiction... :/

whymustibesodarnstupidallthetime?! D;

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