Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[intristin]

Sooo... I have some news on my crush Bryce.

He asked me a few weeks ago if I liked him and I told him yes, I do. He hasn't talked about the subject since then, but he isn't avoiding me; he's still talking to me regularly and everything, so he isn't acting awkward about it... I'm wondering, should I ask him if he likes me? Or maybe continue the subject and see if we could date? He hasn't said he doesn't like me yet, so... If he didn't like me, he would have told me sooner, right? Or when I told him I liked him... Gah. Just confused.

Thanks in advance.

[kotalicious]

Ahh! I'm going out on a date with my crush tonight. I'm so nervous, yet so excited. He's going to pick me up in ten minutes and I have no idea what to expect. My mother and her friend want to meet him, which is nerve wrecking. My mom knows his mom and thinks she knows him so it should be okay, but I'm worried that she still won't like him. My mother means the world to me and I would hate to have her angry at me over a boy. Ugh, why can't my brain just shut up?

[Beta]

Ahh! I'm going out on a date with my crush tonight. I'm so nervous, yet so excited. He's going to pick me up in ten minutes and I have no idea what to expect. My mother and her friend want to meet him, which is nerve wrecking. My mom knows his mom and thinks she knows him so it should be okay, but I'm worried that she still won't like him. My mother means the world to me and I would hate to have her angry at me over a boy. Ugh, why can't my brain just shut up?

If it makes you feel any better, your mom is your best friend and she will support you no matter what, as she should. This means accepting whoever you chose to date, and welcoming them with open arms.

[pizzas and scream]

You people are too nice <3
He told me there was a chance he'd come back, but in the meantime it just hurts.
I don't know what comfort I have right now, really...
Guess I'll just keep on living... but how do I deal with the pain? I'm not good at that

Drowned yr sorrows in Siracha covered marshmallows and video games And touch some cats.

[thunderofthedrum]

Ahh! I'm going out on a date with my crush tonight. I'm so nervous, yet so excited. He's going to pick me up in ten minutes and I have no idea what to expect. My mother and her friend want to meet him, which is nerve wrecking. My mom knows his mom and thinks she knows him so it should be okay, but I'm worried that she still won't like him. My mother means the world to me and I would hate to have her angry at me over a boy. Ugh, why can't my brain just shut up?

If it makes you feel any better, your mom is your best friend and she will support you no matter what, as she should. This means accepting whoever you chose to date, and welcoming them with open arms.

My mom certainly isn't my best friend and she sure as heck didn't greet my last boyfriend with open arms. xD But yes, it sounds like your mom means a lot to you and I bet she knows that. Being able to talk to her is really good, priceless even. Besides, she hasn't said anything negative about him so far and when moms already know each other a bit I feel like that definitely helps - so that she knows he comes from a decent background and family. Just like when my mom has known the moms of other guys she seems to already give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Does that make sense? So I think that, if anything, this will make her more open and accepting.

Good luck! Have a good time. ^__^

[not a talking cat]

my crush's friend likes me.
this is bad
i hang out with them sometimes,
but my crush has purposely been avoiding me
just so his friend can talk to me alone

i dont like this ; n ; what should i do?

[gwanu]

my crush's friend likes me.
this is bad
i hang out with them sometimes,
but my crush has purposely been avoiding me
just so his friend can talk to me alone

i dont like this ; n ; what should i do?

there is a cruel way to do that.
i usually go for, let's play truth or dare! //le you to crush's friend
Eventually he will ask you who you like, and you tell him you like /crush's name here/ but ask him not to tell your crush.

[kafka]

pretty nervous right now, any advice appreciated!

I'll start from a few weeks ago, the nights of our school production. I was backstage crew (set guard), and this really cute guy (M) was in charge of props. My friends and I had always discussed how he was pretty good-looking throughout the year in a joking none-of-us-actually-like-him way. M is the class councillor of my best friend's class, and since I'm nearly always personality first, I never took interested in him. We were working pretty close for the production, I actually liked his personality and started crushing on him.

Recently, a guy (R) I had known since primary school added me on Facebook. He also worked alongside us as backstage crew, and after the final show he kept messaging me, asking me who I liked. Apparently, he's really interested in everyone's crushes, and literally his whole class trusts him with this stuff. In the end, I was tired of bottling everything up, so we agreed on a trade. He told me his crush, and I told him mine. The funny thing is, as soon as I told him, he said "I knew it" and "it was just instinct".

But anyways, the school formal is coming up in four weeks. I'm also a class councillor and the student council gets to plan and pull off the whole thing. To be honest, I really want to ask M, even if it's a casual thing. R has turned into my self-proclaimed wingman [click] [click] [click].

My main fears are that M doesn't notice me at all, making it too awkward to say yes to someone who you don't know, and that I'm going to screw up since I've never seriously asked someone "out" before. I'm hopefully doing it next week so M has time to think about it. My plan is to ask if he's going to the formal, and if he:
a] says yes, I ask who with. If he says noone, then I ask him to go with me.
b] says no, I ask him anyway.

Am I going about this the right way? What do you think M would say? Is R right in trying to help me? How do I combat my shyness and insecurities?

[.rin okumura.]

Okay so I have a crush on this guy (Let's call him T) and I have liked him for a while. Now T is very athletic and plays football, wrestling, basketball and track. He also is in choir and band. Now here is the crazy part. So technically we are the same age, but because his parents held him back a year because that's what the state said was best to do, he is a grade lower than me. He and I both know each other well since we have homeroom together and I was his wrestling manager last year we get along pretty well. The problem is I have no idea how to talk to him even though we have some things in common but I just don't know how to get a convo started and keep it going.... Advice?

[Gryffindor's Sword]

I need a lot of help, but from Christian people,please! So I like this Jewish girl but I'm Christian and believe that dating someone is not the way to convert them and I will not date her. But she and a lot of other people found out about my thoughts. She doesn't care but a lot of people think I'm being a jerk because of it. I don't understand why though! I have a right to think that and me and the girl are still great friends. Any advice?