Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[ardentsongbird]

I'm feeling better now (:

So today, as I promised myself, I talked to M. I acted like nothing happened the previous week, and we became close again! I try hard not to glance over at him, because he has such a keen eye (Really adorable ;-;). But, as always, I begin to shake a tiny bit each time he talks to me. I feel as if I can't respond and if I did I would sound like a complete fool. But, I guess getting close again is good enough

[Evil Muffin Overlord]

I knew this day was coming... At rehearsal today, my friend and I were helping this guy with his stilts, and they suddenly look over and start saying stuff like "Would telling her break the bro code?" "Yeah that would break the bro code" They shrug, and my friend looks over and says that this guy in our class likes me. I mean, I already assumed, but now its awkward 'cuz I don't know if I should act differently and avoid him because I DON'T like him, or just pretend like I don't know and let him keep being gentlemanly and weird towards me?
I've had guys have crushes on me before. Girls too. But never... This awkward. Or point blank. I mean, I have class with the guy. He's trying to be my friend, and I just do not like him as a person.
*sighs* I guess this isn't all that big of a problem, I'm just wondering.
Big questions: Ignore him?
Or let him know that I know?
And if I let him know that I know, how do I... break it gently that I don't actually like him?

[Tainted~Wings]

ok I am afraid to crush on my bfffffffffffl lets stick with the letter C for him. Cause he likes me. I am afraid because guys i dated before i met him get hurt after we break it off. I had a friend, A, he dated me and after we broke up he broke his leg during football practice. Am I just overreacting, Total Deja Vu, or am i bad luck? Please help me i like my bffffl and don't want to hurt him if that's the case

There is honestly nothing to worry about! These are most likely a bunch of silly coincidences, I doubt it has anything to do with you. c:

Thank you it makes me feel better to know it is probably coincidences. I realized he actually likes me ALOT so maybe we'll get together.

[Dia.]

I'm feeling better now (:

So today, as I promised myself, I talked to M. I acted like nothing happened the previous week, and we became close again! I try hard not to glance over at him, because he has such a keen eye (Really adorable ;-;). But, as always, I begin to shake a tiny bit each time he talks to me. I feel as if I can't respond and if I did I would sound like a complete fool. But, I guess getting close again is good enough :D

I'm glad to see that things are better between you. ^^

[hollyglow]

Okay... I need to calm down. So, right before lunch, the guy I have a crush on (his locker is right next to mine), his binder came open. Everything came spilling out. I was talking with my friend, and I was kind of looking at him because I wanted to help him, but I was afraid to because I like him, and I was afraid that I'd get rejected. I know... I'm paranoid. Anyway, so we finished our conversation, and I was just standing there in silent war with myself. Finally, I turned and said, "hey, do you want me to help with the papers?" In a high voice, because when I'm nervous or embarrassed, that's what happens, and I was getting over a cold, so more so than usual. He said yes, so I helped him, he thanked me, and I went to lunch. When I was sitting eating, he gave me a RASC, which is just a thing our school does, and now I have even more of a crush on him! It's torture.....

Weeeell, thanks for reading. Just want some advice.

Edit: and I'm worried that he thinks I only did it for the RASC.

[EclipticChaos]

So I Recently Moved Removed
And My Best Best Friend/My Crush/ My Long Distance GF And I Had Just Started Dating A Few Days Ago, And Then I Felt Bad Because I'm Causing Us Both To Feel Like Crap And I Don't Have The Money To Fly Back. We Started Talking In Italian So Our Parents Wouldn't Read Over Our Shoulder, So I Told Her "Ti Amo" Every Day. Then She Told Me Via E-mail:
"I Saw This Really Cute Guy Today." And I Felt As Though My Heart Had Broken Right Down To Tiny Grains.

If Any1 Understands And Might Help Plz PM.

[thunderofthedrum]

Just need to get this off my chest.


How can I feel like a deer in the headlights - blank and panicky - when my ex mentioned a ring (multiple times) and a potential future, yet when this guy does, I feel... hopeful. Honored and dedicated and still realistic but excited for the potential, the possibility. How can I feel so different, yet it's only been a few months? Am I just too eager to settle down? Is his stability and tolerance and self-awareness blinding me to his other faults? I'm aware of them already but they just don't seem that hard to deal with so far.

Oh life, what are you doing to me?

Maybe my friend was right. Maybe I will be the first of us four friends to get married after all.

[spring.]

So, I've posted about this guy a few times but I've decided to give the whole story.

Note
Names have been coded to protect identity.

Key
Witch -- A young lady, she used to be my best friend... but older users will understand why this is her code name.
Bear -- My best friend, Bear is part of her nickname, so her code was a no-brainer.
Car -- My crush, he's into cars...

Please don't get confused.

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This happened at the beginning of the school year last year.

Witch and I were best friends and my previous school year I had made acquaintance with a rather adorable young man. This year, we were reunited by coffee. Yes, coffee. He asked me to hold it, so I agreed. It was then that I realized that it was Car. She said he was cute, and I agreed. I added quietly that I had been crushing on him since the previous year. She laughed and we continued on the school day. Well, she signed up to be a bus monitor, and when she realized she would see him every day, she started bragging that she could see him every day. Well, I was busy being his friend while she was telling me how he kissed her hood or otherwise, and how he was flirting with her while he could have cared less about me.

Ten days before my birthday in December, he asked me out. Naturally, I said yes. I was ecstatic. He got me a birthday present, and would give me something every day after I said yes. I felt so bad that I couldn't ever give anything back but we had to be secret because his parents don't want him dating.

So, we lasted and we talked the whole time I was on vacation, and he constantly said he missed me. But after he moved, he didn't really talk to me. We didn't break up, we just kind of ended...

Witch started hating me and she told me that she was the reason we were together. She told me all these things, and I suffered for three months.

Now Witch and I don't talk, and honestly Car (sort of) and Bear are the only reasons why I got over myself. But when it comes to Car, I just can't get over him. I'm pretty sure he was my first love.

And when we hung out, it almost seemed like he was gonna get back with me, but I don't know. We hung out forever. It felt like we never even broke up. </3

I still can't get over him and try to talk to him as much as I can.

If anyone needs more to understand to help me, PM me.

Please give me insight into my issues.

Talk me out of my senses or something.

Please. <3

[EclipticChaos]

So I Recently Moved From Charlotte NC To Minneapolis MN 2 Months Ago
And My Best Best Friend/My Crush/ My Long Distance GF And I Had Just Started Dating A Few Days Ago, And Then I Felt Bad Because I'm Causing Us Both To Feel Like Crap And I Don't Have The Money To Fly Back. We Started Talking In Italian So Our Parents Wouldn't Read Over Our Shoulder, So I Told Her "Ti Amo" Every Day. Then She Told Me Via E-mail:
"I Saw This Really Cute Guy Today." And I Felt As Though My Heart Had Broken Right Down To Tiny Grains.

If Any1 Understands And Might Help Plz PM.

[ScarWitch]

Officially great start to my day. We had an anti-bullying seminar this morning for all upperclassmen so me and my not-a-boyfriend-yet sat together. He held my hand and played with my fingers for over an hour during 95% of the seminar (basically when we weren't clapping for the guest speaker). It was just.... it was very nice :3