Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[urie]

Lol, hound;
L and I aren't even going out <3

He's just being so adorable haha

still life goals :P hahaha

[thunderofthedrum]

OMG, I have a awesome story to tell it just happened today at school. So we were in science and our teacher has these chairs with the wheels, and my crush got on one and held onto a meter stick. And his friend grabbed the other end and dragged him around but I turned around and our eyes met and we stared at each other for like 10 seconds to me it felt like a minute!!!!! I'm so happy

Wait does that mean he likes me I mean we stare at each other In class but were were a few inches away but does this mean he likes me?

Please reread the rules - double posting is often considered spam, and you aren't supposed to post the same thing until the next page.
Posting the same issue multiple times on the same page just hogs up space, denying others the chance to have their issues seen on that page. Clutters things up, to put it simply.
There is an edit button you can click on any of your posts, it's in the top right-hand corner of your posts. Hopefully that should help.

Regarding the content of your post:
It's really not enough information to go on. Making eye contact a few times doesn't necessarily mean anything. If I made eye contact with you a few times, would you automatically assume I had feelings for you? Try to be reasonable and wait to see if there is more conclusive evidence that may suggest he does or does not have potential feelings towards you.



As for my own things... they are going splendidly, but distance is so frustrating. To hold someone, kiss someone, and then be separated by more than 1500 miles.

[~IronRose~]

I have a very big problem. There's this guy, let's call him Q. And well I like Q a lot and I think I might even love him. For you to understand I have to start at the beginning
we started out messaging on facebook, then through text for about 4 days striaght. After a bit i asked him "is your girlfriend okay with you texting me" just to see if he had one and he replies with "yeah she's fine with it...our relationship is complicated....but its only complicated because she lives in a different state. (Ps. Within those four days our dogs came up in the convo and he sent me pics of all three of his dogs with him in each picture) after he said he had a girlfriend i say "Okay..." to which he says "you dont seem to happy about me saying that" and i say "i honestly didnt" then he goes on to keep asking me why and i finally told him that part of it was this thing like a code i have for not getting involved and that part of it is something else. But he keep asking me what the other thing is by saying things like "everything sould be out on the table so we can sort things out" or something like that.
So I started texting him less after that and he sometimes would text first and if he says he is going to text me back after a nap or movie he always does. And when he texts first he says "hey" or "hey you" .
after that he ended up telling me about how his swim coach had died of breast cancer and how after 15 deaths it all becomes numb.
Last time I saw him in person it went to utter silence to playfully teasing like light pushes and some playful remarks.

So here's the tricky part: some of my friends and my mom included say that he is faking having a girlfriend. There is no sign of her on facebook but he has told me that he is moving to to be with her but he has also told me that she has not returned his calls or texts.
they also are convinced that he likes me but I still not to sure cause 1: he says he has a girlfriend 2: he talks about his girlfriend 3: he is almost always the one to say good night through text when we have been texting and 4: I just don't see guys liking me, especially the ones I like in return
so

I need help with all this please and thanks

[Princess Porcelain]

My mother forced me to break up with my girlfriend. Said that if I didn't, she would never let me speak to her or any of my other friends ever again. She'd take away my phone, computer, and basically anything I could use to contact my friends. So, I broke up with my girlfriend this morning, and now I feel all depressed/guilty because I really hurt her and myself...She says she understands, but I just feel so bad about all this...And she's nice and popular and gets over this stuff easily so I know she'll find someone else to go out with her soon, but I'm not as good at that kind of thing and I'm a bit afraid of seeing her with someone else, even though I know that there are a couple people that like me as well...I also feel bad about doing this to her, I know it really hurt both of us...What do I do?

[deideloo]

I need to break up with my girlfriend but I'm too worried that I'll hurt her feelings. I don't want to burn any more bridges, but I feel that if I leave her, she won't want to talk to me or be friends.
It's beating like a tell-tale heart.

[ranchy]

So this guy I met last year, let's call him M.
M and I got really close together last year. I started to like him a lot and I think he might have had some sort of affection for me as well. Well over the summer I couldn't stop thinking about him. But this year, we have no classes together and I think he's over me and likes someone else already. He asked this pretty girl, (prettier than i) to Homecoming and I don't know, she said yes & i'm feeling really down, trying to get over him now that he probably doesn't like me at all. I have no way of contacting him, he has a phone but i'm too shy to just go up to him in the hallway and ask his number. ><

I don't know, I guess i'm just trying to get over him.. but every time i see him it makes it a whole lot harder. >n<

[Halogens]

How do I tell if this guy likes me? I'm in a couple of classes with this guy, let's call him S. We've been in the same school for like three weeks, and over the last week we started hanging out in class more and more. I definitely deviled a crush on him but he is confusing me like crazy. We always sit at the same table, and he high fives me and teases me all the time. He has also said (multiple times) that he wishes we where in more classes together. He even have me a spontaneous hug the other day. But then sometimes I see him flirting with other girls too, so I am super confused. Help?
Ps sorry if this is confusing or full of spelling errors, I'm on mobile....

[Dia.]

I need to break up with my girlfriend but I'm too worried that I'll hurt her feelings. I don't want to burn any more bridges, but I feel that if I leave her, she won't want to talk to me or be friends.
It's beating like a tell-tale heart.

aww. My advice is to either;
1) Tell her your feelings in the nicest way possible. Maybe break up with her through a letter? Think about why you want to break up with the person, and why you feel you two should break up. This one can lead to many different outcomes, but if you feel a break-up is really necessary, it could do the job.

or, 2) Maybe just give yourself some time to think about it. I don't know your situation, but maybe just wait it out a little while and make sure you are certain you want to break up with the person. If you really do, then I think you should probably tell her somehow. ;-;

DON'T write a letter.
Take a deep breath and have the decency break up with her in person. Not doing it in person is a sure fire way to cause harsh feelings. It's cowardly and the other person feels even more betrayed than they would feel if you just talked to them about it.
Just think about what you need to say and say it.

[Scripted Away]

I need to break up with my girlfriend but I'm too worried that I'll hurt her feelings. I don't want to burn any more bridges, but I feel that if I leave her, she won't want to talk to me or be friends.
It's beating like a tell-tale heart.

aww. My advice is to either;
1) Tell her your feelings in the nicest way possible. Maybe break up with her through a letter? Think about why you want to break up with the person, and why you feel you two should break up. This one can lead to many different outcomes, but if you feel a break-up is really necessary, it could do the job.

or, 2) Maybe just give yourself some time to think about it. I don't know your situation, but maybe just wait it out a little while and make sure you are certain you want to break up with the person. If you really do, then I think you should probably tell her somehow. ;-;

DON'T write a letter.
Take a deep breath and have the decency break up with her in person. Not doing it in person is a sure fire way to cause harsh feelings. It's cowardly and the other person feels even more betrayed than they would feel if you just talked to them about it.
Just think about what you need to say and say it.

absolutely agreed, a letter or text message to break up is an absolute no-no. i am a girlfriend myself and i know if my boyfriend would text me that hhe wanted to break up, i would feel like I'm not worth it to say it vis a vis. (otherwise-i would also feel horrible if he would break up that way. if he would break up at all).
however, you should have the courage to do it without a letter

[Doggo Supreme]

Okay, so homecoming is next week and I was confused why people were asking each other out. I didn't know there was a dance involved with it, I thought it was just a parade. But my crush, lets call him J. We became friends at a summer camp before 8th grade; before that, we used to hate each other. But when school started, I got a crush on him and talked to him every day. At the end of 8th grade, he emailed me since he borrowed my laptop for a couple days and got my email and I got his. He then asked me if I had a crush on him because my friend, his ex, told him I liked him. I told him I did and turns out, he actually has a crush on me too. So we talked on our iPods a lot (still do) and he tells me that he loves me and how I am hot and good looking; I tell him that too, just not in public. He is going to move to Arizona for a year with his dad, but then he will be back for junior and senior year. The thing is, the dance is on a Saturday night, but that is also when my friend has her birthday party/sleep over and I want to be there. But J does not usually like dances I don't think, but I don't know if I should ask him or not or if he will. We haven't told each other that we love each other in public, and I have to make a decision soon, but I don't know what I should do. :p