Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[ProudHufflepuff]

So I was in health and I was partnered up with this guy, DC, and like 2 years ago I thought he liked me and I don't like him back but I don't mind talking to him, but cause I think he likes me I get uncomfortable and when I'm uncomfortable I smile or laugh. Well anyway we had to do a thing and tell the other person 3 things people probably don't know about us and we told it to the class...but i didnt know what to do so my friend, K, was like "umm you like One Direction" and I was like "well that's obvious everyone knows that" and DC was like "I didnt" and then he was like "...you sing, right?" And I just kinda slowly nodded but I was kinda really creeped out cause really only my friends and people in chorus know that, and he didnt know I love One Direction but he knew that...
And then K was like "you have a bf named Drew!" And then DC goes "oh...you do?" And I was like nodding but I told them to shut up cause I don't want everyone knowing, for reasons, and now he keeps bugging me and asking me about my bf and Im not sure how to deal with him...

[claws990p]

tap ...tap....tap i tap my pencil trying not to look at him
i have a crush on the most popular person at school he a football player and im a ...nerd or unpopular if thats what you want to say so i have no chance it always turns out that way for me. i have talked to him 3 times but i cant look at him because i will act like im a dumb person who just stares
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[claws990p]

I'm in a mess...

Anyways, so I was at Soccer Practice and this guy on my team is really cute (Let's call him N). I started to get a little crush on him at the sight of him. Well later I was practicing my kick and N was supposed to score it in the goal. Well I pass it to him and I see him staring at me (weird...). The ball went right past him so I tilted my head and he then said "Oh! Uh sorry sometimes I don't pay attention.." Then he trailed off as he kicked the ball into the goal. I got all warm inside and smiled. Later we were all practicing being the goally when N went to go get his water. After that N went up to the coach (who is my dad) and asked him what my name was. My coach said my name and N smiled. I honestly think he has a crush on me too... are there any signs? Like hand movements, the way he speaks, etc? I need help. c:

he might like you but i would become friends first

[.rin okumura.]

So I have a friend, (Let's call him K) and he has this crush on me. And he touches me ALL the time. Like as in he pokes me and tries to taser me and tickle me in the stomach. I have this thing about people inside my personal bubble when I don't want them to me. Well when I tell him to knock it off he says, 'Okay it's just natural that you hate me.' but I don't hate him! He makes me so aggravated and frustrated. And a couple of weeks ago I told him about how I saw another one of my friends when I went down to Texas and he got all depressed because the friend I hadn't seen in a while was a guy. He says he's over me now but he totally doesn't act like it! Any advice on how to get K to stop without ruining our friendship?

[kafka]

So I have a friend, (Let's call him K) and he has this crush on me. And he touches me ALL the time. Like as in he pokes me and tries to taser me and tickle me in the stomach. I have this thing about people inside my personal bubble when I don't want them to me. Well when I tell him to knock it off he says, 'Okay it's just natural that you hate me.' but I don't hate him! He makes me so aggravated and frustrated. And a couple of weeks ago I told him about how I saw another one of my friends when I went down to Texas and he got all depressed because the friend I hadn't seen in a while was a guy. He says he's over me now but he totally doesn't act like it! Any advice on how to get K to stop without ruining our friendship?

I think the best thing to do here is sit him down and explain your thoughts to him. Make it clear that you like him as a friend, and the only reason you don't like him touching you is because of your personal bubble. Tell him that even though he may still have feelings for you, he should be trying to get over it, and you will try to support him. Don't let him cut in or comment until you finish, because this can lead the convo off-topic, and try not to accidentally come off as defensive. Communication is key here. Good luck c:

So there's this one guy at my school, and he's got this crush on me. He's not really attractive...at all. I told him I have a boyfriend, but he won't leave me alone. .-. He's creepy. Then he let me mark on him in Biology class. He said that since I did that I have to...do things with him. Then he claimed he was going to end up dating me. Then after all this he wanted me to hug him, and I told him I didn't like hugs, and he got all mad. I think I'm actually afraid of him. I mentioned some of this to my boyfriend, but I don't think there's anything he can do, without getting himself in trouble. He already almost got into a fight because of me, and I don't want to take any chances. Is there anyway I can get him to back off a bit?

This is not okay. It seems that he thinks he can control you. Tell him to his face that he needs to back off. Not in an aggressive way, but assertively, such as "Please don't do that, it makes me uncomfortable and if you don't stop, I will have to report you." If he doesn't stop, then you can tell a teacher or a parent, because this can be considered harassment. Also, tell your boyfriend not to get involved until absolutely necessary. Even though he probably worries for you, situations like this are best dealt with simply. Good luck!

[claws990p]

tap ...tap....tap i tap my pencil trying not to look at him
i have a crush on the most popular person at school he a football player and im a ...nerd or unpopular if thats what you want to say so i have no chance it always turns out that way for me. i have talked to him 3 times but i cant look at him because i will act like im a dumb person who just stares
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[~Static~]

So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?

[.rin okumura.]

So I have a friend, (Let's call him K) and he has this crush on me. And he touches me ALL the time. Like as in he pokes me and tries to taser me and tickle me in the stomach. I have this thing about people inside my personal bubble when I don't want them to me. Well when I tell him to knock it off he says, 'Okay it's just natural that you hate me.' but I don't hate him! He makes me so aggravated and frustrated. And a couple of weeks ago I told him about how I saw another one of my friends when I went down to Texas and he got all depressed because the friend I hadn't seen in a while was a guy. He says he's over me now but he totally doesn't act like it! Any advice on how to get K to stop without ruining our friendship?

I think the best thing to do here is sit him down and explain your thoughts to him. Make it clear that you like him as a friend, and the only reason you don't like him touching you is because of your personal bubble. Tell him that even though he may still have feelings for you, he should be trying to get over it, and you will try to support him. Don't let him cut in or comment until you finish, because this can lead the convo off-topic, and try not to accidentally come off as defensive. Communication is key here. Good luck c:

Thank you for the advice but I already tried talking to him and when I was finished he went on and on about how I hate him and everything. I told him I don't like people in my personal bubble unless I invite them, which happens to be quite often, and he got all huffy and walked off. Any more advice you can give?

[ardentsongbird]

@ JustDucky
I am actually great friends with him
I have known him a while. He is really funny, but his humor is dark xD It's smexy

Anyway, it's too late or the note. I have to wait for next Friday to come. Let me explain!
So my friend, Z, didn't meet me up after the pep-rally on Friday, so I never was able to give her the not to give to M. It pissed me off because I was looking forward to texting him over the weekend. I'm also heart-broken. My other crush, T, that lives in Florida acted like he didn't know me...
Me : Hey
T : Who are you?
Me : What do you mean? It's... me!
T : I don't know you
It's really upset me, so now he is dead weight to me...
I love my life ;-;

[claws990p]

tap ...tap....tap i tap my pencil trying not to look at him
i have a crush on the most popular person at school he a football player and im a ...nerd or unpopular if thats what you want to say so i have no chance it always turns out that way for me. i have talked to him 3 times but i cant look at him because i will act like im a dumb person who just stares
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