Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[JustDucky]

Conversation Time!

So today in Band class, some of my friends asked if they could play my trumpet. I said ok and let them try it. Those two people turned into a group of 5 or 6. M ( my crush ) walks over and smiled. He then asked if he could try, and he did. Of course, I had to show him how to hold it, since he was a Bari-Sax player. It was the cutest thing ever, and tomorrow I plan on giving him a note saying that I'd like to keep in touch. Then give him my Kik username, so we can talk more. Is it ok to write a note, or is it plain out stupid? I've been told that writing a note is probably a bad thing to do. Also, tomorrow is Friday. I want to give him the note in Friday, so if we had class the next day we wouldn't be awkward.
Anyway, do you guys have any suggestions on how I could write the note, or how I can chat with him more?

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This is a great idea. Maybe if you get to know each other more, then it would be easier to talk to him in person. I don't have a way with words, but put something that says 'you'.

[~Static~]

So, this one guy kept being really nice to me, like offering to help with stuff, getting a chair for me in LA... I have no idea if he was just being nice, or if he might like me?

[.rin okumura.]

So I have a friend, (Let's call him K) and he has this crush on me. And he touches me ALL the time. Like as in he pokes me and tries to taser me and tickle me in the stomach. I have this thing about people inside my personal bubble when I don't want them to me. Well when I tell him to knock it off he says, 'Okay it's just natural that you hate me.' but I don't hate him! He makes me so aggravated and frustrated. And a couple of weeks ago I told him about how I saw another one of my friends when I went down to Texas and he got all depressed because the friend I hadn't seen in a while was a guy. He says he's over me now but he totally doesn't act like it! Any advice on how to get K to stop without ruining our friendship?

[Blue Plasma]

I'm in a mess...

Anyways, so I was at Soccer Practice and this guy on my team is really cute (Let's call him N). I started to get a little crush on him at the sight of him. Well later I was practicing my kick and N was supposed to score it in the goal. Well I pass it to him and I see him staring at me (weird...). The ball went right past him so I tilted my head and he then said "Oh! Uh sorry sometimes I don't pay attention.." Then he trailed off as he kicked the ball into the goal. I got all warm inside and smiled. Later we were all practicing being the goally when N went to go get his water. After that N went up to the coach (who is my dad) and asked him what my name was. My coach said my name and N smiled. I honestly think he has a crush on me too... are there any signs? Like hand movements, the way he speaks, etc? I need help. c:

[JustDucky]

So there's this one guy at my school, and he's got this crush on me. He's not really attractive...at all. I told him I have a boyfriend, but he won't leave me alone. .-. He's creepy. Then he let me mark on him in Biology class. He said that since I did that I have to...do things with him. Then he claimed he was going to end up dating me. Then after all this he wanted me to hug him, and I told him I didn't like hugs, and he got all mad. I think I'm actually afraid of him. I mentioned some of this to my boyfriend, but I don't think there's anything he can do, without getting himself in trouble. He already almost got into a fight because of me, and I don't want to take any chances. Is there anyway I can get him to back off a bit?

[ranchy]

I'm in a mess...

Anyways, so I was at Soccer Practice and this guy on my team is really cute (Let's call him N). I started to get a little crush on him at the sight of him. Well later I was practicing my kick and N was supposed to score it in the goal. Well I pass it to him and I see him staring at me (weird...). The ball went right past him so I tilted my head and he then said "Oh! Uh sorry sometimes I don't pay attention.." Then he trailed off as he kicked the ball into the goal. I got all warm inside and smiled. Later we were all practicing being the goally when N went to go get his water. After that N went up to the coach (who is my dad) and asked him what my name was. My coach said my name and N smiled. I honestly think he has a crush on me too... are there any signs? Like hand movements, the way he speaks, etc? I need help. c:

The way he went up to the coach and asked your name was probably a big hint. ^^
(That's so cute. oAo) Also, some signs are if he constantly looks at you, if he acknowledges you, if he pats you (on the shoulder, or the back), If he's trying to impress you, or get your attention.. etc. Stuff like that. ^^

[~Static~]

So there's this one guy at my school, and he's got this crush on me. He's not really attractive...at all. I told him I have a boyfriend, but he won't leave me alone. .-. He's creepy. Then he let me mark on him in Biology class. He said that since I did that I have to...do things with him. Then he claimed he was going to end up dating me. Then after all this he wanted me to hug him, and I told him I didn't like hugs, and he got all mad. I think I'm actually afraid of him. I mentioned some of this to my boyfriend, but I don't think there's anything he can do, without getting himself in trouble. He already almost got into a fight because of me, and I don't want to take any chances. Is there anyway I can get him to back off a bit?

This sort of sounds like a dangerous situation, to me, or at least one that could become dangerous. I would recommend asking your parents/someone else about it.

[Blue Plasma]

I'm in a mess...

Anyways, so I was at Soccer Practice and this guy on my team is really cute (Let's call him N). I started to get a little crush on him at the sight of him. Well later I was practicing my kick and N was supposed to score it in the goal. Well I pass it to him and I see him staring at me (weird...). The ball went right past him so I tilted my head and he then said "Oh! Uh sorry sometimes I don't pay attention.." Then he trailed off as he kicked the ball into the goal. I got all warm inside and smiled. Later we were all practicing being the goally when N went to go get his water. After that N went up to the coach (who is my dad) and asked him what my name was. My coach said my name and N smiled. I honestly think he has a crush on me too... are there any signs? Like hand movements, the way he speaks, etc? I need help. c:

The way he went up to the coach and asked your name was probably a big hint. ^^
(That's so cute. oAo) Also, some signs are if he constantly looks at you, if he acknowledges you, if he pats you (on the shoulder, or the back), If he's trying to impress you, or get your attention.. etc. Stuff like that. ^^

I had a small heart attack when I saw this.
EEEEEEEE x3
Next practice I'll try and talk to him more. c: Thanks for your advice! (: <3

[Sameen_of_Nohr]

And hey... maybe you guys can help me some...? My boyfriend/fiancé promised we would wait till after I was out of college before we got married...that's about 4 years... any way... he has decided to join the air force for 4 years because they would pay him really well and he's trying to save up for a house... and a ring... but... I feel like this is really selfish of me but.... I don't wan him to.... i'm so scared i'm going to lose him you guys.... he will only be an electrical engineer but still... my grandfather was one of those as a Seabee and he still got shot like 3 times...... but he needs the money because his parents are kicking him out and he has nowhere to go... I'm really scared and though I've talked to him about it and i'm letting him do it... i'm still really terrified that i'll lose him...

|It is his decision, not your own. And this may be his only way to make up for the mistakes that he has obviously made. I mean, how old is he? Why are his parents kicking him out? Does he have a job? Also, has he been making plans to join the air force for a long time? And has he talked to anyone about it? I mean a professional. If he is just going to go join the air force because he needs money, that is absolutely ridiculous. He needs to get a job, a better paying job. And if he can't do that, find some other means of money. You don't just join the air force to get money. I just hope he knows what he is doing, is all I am saying. But as for your original question, I say: Don't hold him back if he actually knows what he is doing, and really wants this. But if he is just joining to join, I say tell him not to go, and knock some sense into his head. Also, why is he still living with his parents? You guys are getting married, where the hell would he go? Move in with you? You guys can't just DO things. You need to have a plan sorted out.



Also, this is completely off topic, but you need to have a seizure warning in your signature. Or take that
flashing picture out of it. That can be very dangerous.||

[obsolete dream]

So... I heard yesterday my crush broke up with his girlfriend. It's true, and I know it is. I know I shouldn't like somebody in a relationship, but it was very... on-off type thing, so I had a feeling it wouldn't last.. \(v~v)/
And I honestly want to talk to him so badly, but I'm scared. I think I'm ugly and stupid, and I'm super awkward..
We share an interest in Pokemon and a few other things, but we're not like.. bff's. We're friends though.. not hang-out-all-the-time friends, but yeah.
And he's nice to me (>u<)
But yeah
I've liked him since last year.. I really don't know.

I think you should go talk to him. Be brave and don't be scared. Also, don't think you're ugly and stupid and awkward. If a boy likes you because of your beauty and not you, I don't think he's worth liking, so don't feel that about yourself. BEING YOU is what makes you special.

Thank you, I will try. c: