Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[X-Cat]

It's my really good friend, I have feeling he likes me in a way he always teasing me and being a bit of a jerk, but in a friendly way. I know for certain I like him, but I don't know what to say, I like don't want to bring it up around anything. I'm kinda embarrassed in a way about it, just ugh...

[.rin okumura.]

I need some advice, I really like a guy in my class, but I only have one class with him and that is P.E... I don't know how to talk to him so that he is interested in the convosation.. our convos go like this....
Me: Hi
Him: 'Sup?
Me: The Sky
Him: Yep.
Me: *Awkward Silence*
Him: Well I'm going to go get a life jacket and Canoe.
Me: Okay, Bye!
See? I mean I know nothing of football but he really likes football.... Idek what to do. 0.o Anyone help me?

|The best thing that you can do is just be yourself. Are you a talkative person? I mean, if you are, then just say anything. Just don't pretend to be someone you aren't. For example, someone you think that he would think is attractive. And football CANNOT be the only thing that he is interested in. Has he hinted at anything else that he might like? At all? If not, then just ask him. All I can say is, don't be afraid to be yourself. And if he doesn't like that, then he just doesn't like you. You cannot force someone to like you.|

Thank you for the advice! I am a talkative person and I have a tendency to just out of the blue come up to people and say hi and just start chatting. It just is a little harder for me chat with him but I will try! Thank you!

[obsolete dream]

So... I heard yesterday my crush broke up with his girlfriend. It's true, and I know it is. I know I shouldn't like somebody in a relationship, but it was very... on-off type thing, so I had a feeling it wouldn't last.. \(v~v)/
And I honestly want to talk to him so badly, but I'm scared. I think I'm ugly and stupid, and I'm super awkward..
We share an interest in Pokemon and a few other things, but we're not like.. bff's. We're friends though.. not hang-out-all-the-time friends, but yeah.
And he's nice to me (>u<)
But yeah
I've liked him since last year.. I really don't know.

[Chillycheese]

So... I heard yesterday my crush broke up with his girlfriend. It's true, and I know it is. I know I shouldn't like somebody in a relationship, but it was very... on-off type thing, so I had a feeling it wouldn't last.. \(v~v)/
And I honestly want to talk to him so badly, but I'm scared. I think I'm ugly and stupid, and I'm super awkward..
We share an interest in Pokemon and a few other things, but we're not like.. bff's. We're friends though.. not hang-out-all-the-time friends, but yeah.
And he's nice to me (>u<)
But yeah
I've liked him since last year.. I really don't know.

I think you should go talk to him. Be brave and don't be scared. Also, don't think you're ugly and stupid and awkward. If a boy likes you because of your beauty and not you, I don't think he's worth liking, so don't feel that about yourself. BEING YOU is what makes you special.

[GIGABITE]

Guys I really need some advice
Not reposting the whole thing again because I'm pretty confident no one wants to take the time to read it ;-;
So PM me or something, I would really appreciate it. It's about a crush, and it's not "scared to talk to him" or "he doesn't like me" it's a different kind of problem

[Zalia]

But on another note, as weird as I feel talking about this right now, I need to ramble at you all about this; someone has been being really sweet to me lately. Someone I used to have a huge crush on before who is now my ex girlfriend. We talked on the first day of school, two days ago. Despite his intimidating wolf-eyed appearance and rowdy behavior on the bus with his friends, he seems like a really sweet guy. I don't think, despite being over my ex, it would be in my best interests to like someone again though.
I probably sound like a rebound idiot right now. But I don't grieve long over exes who prove themselves to have no respect for my feelings. This has happened many times, and each time I recover faster. Why be sad over someone who didn't care? That's my logic, at least. Just try to take me seriously here.
So this guy and I exit the building to the buses at around the same time, and since we ride the same bus it ends up being one of us walking not far behind the other. Well that day I happened to be first, not too far in front but still. He then piped up saying something about how annoying it was that our bus was parked at the very front of the line, and took so long to walk to.
I turned and gawked at him for a moment, unsure on whether he was talking to me or not. He was, so I fell into step with him and commented agreeing with him. Then, unsure on what to say, I awkwardly blurted out an apology for my awkwardness. He seemed to find this little blunder a bit amusing, but gently said it was alright. Then we got to the door of the bus, and sort of stood there for a moment, before I realized he was waiting for me to go first. How polite
Him and I have had previous interactions, none of which I really understood. He talks to me completely randomly and often when I'm least expecting it.
I don't know what to think. Even if I did re-develop a crush on him, I'm unsure on trusting people anymore, and I feel it would be futile anyways. I'm not exactly liked much, in terms of crushes and such. Oh well

Any advice or something would be great, I don't know what to do/think. Should I talk to him? (or at least try to, I'm mega shy) Should I even be getting myself into this mess? Agh

|I think you are a very clever person, and your logic about relationships is admirable. Just follow your gut. I don't really support high school or middle school relationships. I am not assuming that you are in either of those, but if you really like the guy, just keep talking to him. And let your relationship develop. If you don't want to make the first move, let him. It is obvious that you are scared of getting rejected again. It sounds like he is just a really sweet guy. It is uncommon that you find a man that actually has some respect for women.|

[GIGABITE]

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Any advice or something would be great, I don't know what to do/think. Should I talk to him? (or at least try to, I'm mega shy) Should I even be getting myself into this mess? Agh

|I think you are a very clever person, and your logic about relationships is admirable. Just follow your gut. I don't really support high school or middle school relationships. I am not assuming that you are in either of those, but if you really like the guy, just keep talking to him. And let your relationship develop. If you don't want to make the first move, let him. It is obvious that you are scared of getting rejected again. It sounds like he is just a really sweet guy. It is uncommon that you find a man that actually has some respect for women.|

Thank you for the response. I am at the later end of high school, and I'm not as flingy as some people here seem to be. Despite my idiotic and childish way of speaking on here, I'm not incredibly immature in that category. I handle myself in relationships decently, trying to follow a traditional sense on how relationships flow. Unfortunately I have had bad luck in past relationships. It's to be expected; many people are indecisive and have some interesting expectations for boyfriends/girlfriends in high school. At least from what I've found.
I will take that into consideration. My gut feeling has saved my tail many times over. I'm perfectly fine with making a move, it was just a bit of an internal conflict as to whether a new possible relationship was a good idea. I will take this all into mind. Thank you again~

[kia.]

So I like his guy.. and my friends dont like him at all. 2 of my friends tried hooking me up since I was the only one out of my main group of like.. 7 people.. that hasnt had a boyfriend before. I really like this guy, but im worried my friends wont exactly accept my feelings toward this guy.. What do i do ;~;

[lynxbites]

So I like his guy.. and my friends dont like him at all. 2 of my friends tried hooking me up since I was the only one out of my main group of like.. 7 people.. that hasnt had a boyfriend before. I really like this guy, but im worried my friends wont exactly accept my feelings toward this guy.. What do i do ;~;

Accept your feelings? Accept your feelings? If they don't accept your feelings, you don't need them. It's not up to them to validate your emotions.
Yes, you should be a bit wary is no one likes him.
As for the rest, the greatest advice I can give is to follow your gut. Your gut instinct is usually correct, and it almost never leads you farther into trouble.

[ardentsongbird]

Conversation Time!

So today in Band class, some of my friends asked if they could play my trumpet. I said ok and let them try it. Those two people turned into a group of 5 or 6. M ( my crush ) walks over and smiled. He then asked if he could try, and he did. Of course, I had to show him how to hold it, since he was a Bari-Sax player. It was the cutest thing ever, and tomorrow I plan on giving him a note saying that I'd like to keep in touch. Then give him my Kik username, so we can talk more. Is it ok to write a note, or is it plain out stupid? I've been told that writing a note is probably a bad thing to do. Also, tomorrow is Friday. I want to give him the note in Friday, so if we had class the next day we wouldn't be awkward.
Anyway, do you guys have any suggestions on how I could write the note, or how I can chat with him more?