Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[.rin okumura.]

i have a crush on my best friend. he doesnt like me though, he has a crush on another girl that i am friends with.
see him and i used to and still do talk a lot about deep, personal stuff. alone. at my house outside on a bench in my yard. yesterday, he randomly asked to come over and we talked and stuff. nothing unusual or anything, but it made me really happy that he came over.
but even so, i have been feeling replaced. he let me know in a subtle way yesterday that he still trusts me a lot and stuff. i dont doubt it, he is such a sweet kid, but during school i wish he could just spend more time with me at school.
he tells me that he finds certain people annoying but still hangs out with them. i know he has known them longer but..sometimes it all feels like lies.
im such a screw up and sometimes i really dont know what to say the times that he does actually talk to me. its nothing awkward because we're as close as siblings, but its really frustrating because i wish i could start an not-too-awkward conversation around him and my other friends.
what do i do?

Wow, I had this happen to me. The best advice I can give you is Be friendly but not too friendly, ya know? I mean you can still like him but in order to talk to him that wouldn't be awkward would be to talk about his interests...

[.rin okumura.]

I need some advice, I really like a guy in my class, but I only have one class with him and that is P.E... I don't know how to talk to him so that he is interested in the convosation.. our convos go like this....
Me: Hi
Him: 'Sup?
Me: The Sky
Him: Yep.
Me: *Awkward Silence*
Him: Well I'm going to go get a life jacket and Canoe.
Me: Okay, Bye!
See? I mean I know nothing of football but he really likes football.... Idek what to do. 0.o Anyone help me?

[~Static~]

I need some advice, I really like a guy in my class, but I only have one class with him and that is P.E... I don't know how to talk to him so that he is interested in the convosation.. our convos go like this....
Me: Hi
Him: 'Sup?
Me: The Sky
Him: Yep.
Me: *Awkward Silence*
Him: Well I'm going to go get a life jacket and Canoe.
Me: Okay, Bye!
See? I mean I know nothing of football but he really likes football.... Idek what to do. 0.o Anyone help me?

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[Zalia]

I need some advice, I really like a guy in my class, but I only have one class with him and that is P.E... I don't know how to talk to him so that he is interested in the convosation.. our convos go like this....
Me: Hi
Him: 'Sup?
Me: The Sky
Him: Yep.
Me: *Awkward Silence*
Him: Well I'm going to go get a life jacket and Canoe.
Me: Okay, Bye!
See? I mean I know nothing of football but he really likes football.... Idek what to do. 0.o Anyone help me?

|The best thing that you can do is just be yourself. Are you a talkative person? I mean, if you are, then just say anything. Just don't pretend to be someone you aren't. For example, someone you think that he would think is attractive. And football CANNOT be the only thing that he is interested in. Has he hinted at anything else that he might like? At all? If not, then just ask him. All I can say is, don't be afraid to be yourself. And if he doesn't like that, then he just doesn't like you. You cannot force someone to like you.|

[JustDucky]

My best friend is now my boyfriend. I almost felt like I was forced into this relationship, but I'm happier with it then I thought I would be. I know he really cares, and really loves me, and I feel the same way, but sometimes I feel like I don't tell him enough. And then my sisters boyfriend told me he wasn't a good boyfriend. I don't know what to expect of one, since he is my first, (or this is the first real relationship I've been in) but I'm pretty sure he is. At school he walks me to my classes, or at least half way, we sometimes hold hands in the hallways, and today it started raining when we were walking home from school, and he gave me his jacket, because I didn't bring one, and carried my books for me. We have only been dating a week, and we're taking it slow. We haven't kissed yet, dispite kisses on the cheek, or something like that. Most of his friends are female, and most of my friends are male, and we still kind of flirt with them. I don't flirt while he's with me, but he flirts when I'm with him. I feel bad for flirting behind his back, but then I wonder if he flirts behind my back. Sorry for the long story, but I needed to get a few of these things off my chest.

[ಠ_ಠ]

Ugh. I really like her. We've been best friends for over 4 years. If I ask her out I'm afraid she'll reject, and we won't be friends anymore... And yes we're both girls.

[Zalia]

Ugh. I really like her. We've been best friends for over 4 years. If I ask her out I'm afraid she'll reject, and we won't be friends anymore... And yes we're both girls.

|If she is really your friend, she will accept you in whatever shape or form you come in. Even if she isn't attracted to women, she will still be your friend. Even though some people might end up being a little awkward around you. I hope that is not the case with her. One of my friends was gay, and she liked me, and I ended up being friends with her. Anyway. The only thing that might makes your relationship with her weird, is her knowing that you like her, and she doesn't like you. You are going to have to face a consequence, either way. If you don't tell her, you might end up regretting it for a long time. And the second one can either be a good or bad consequence. She either likes you, or she doesn't.|

[ardentsongbird]

Conversation Time!

So today in Band class, some of my friends asked if they could play my trumpet. I said ok and let them try it. Those two people turned into a group of 5 or 6. M ( my crush ) walks over and smiled. He then asked if he could try, and he did. Of course, I had to show him how to hold it, since he was a Bari-Sax player. It was the cutest thing ever, and tomorrow I plan on giving him a note saying that I'd like to keep in touch. Then give him my Kik username, so we can talk more. Is it ok to write a note, or is it plain out stupid? I've been told that writing a note is probably a bad thing to do. Also, tomorrow is Friday. I want to give him the note in Friday, so if we had class the next day we wouldn't be awkward.
Anyway, do you guys have any suggestions on how I could write the note, or how I can chat with him more?

[Taylor-Rae]

My best friend is now my boyfriend. I almost felt like I was forced into this relationship, but I'm happier with it then I thought I would be. I know he really cares, and really loves me, and I feel the same way, but sometimes I feel like I don't tell him enough. And then my sisters boyfriend told me he wasn't a good boyfriend. I don't know what to expect of one, since he is my first, (or this is the first real relationship I've been in) but I'm pretty sure he is. At school he walks me to my classes, or at least half way, we sometimes hold hands in the hallways, and today it started raining when we were walking home from school, and he gave me his jacket, because I didn't bring one, and carried my books for me. We have only been dating a week, and we're taking it slow. We haven't kissed yet, dispite kisses on the cheek, or something like that. Most of his friends are female, and most of my friends are male, and we still kind of flirt with them. I don't flirt while he's with me, but he flirts when I'm with him. I feel bad for flirting behind his back, but then I wonder if he flirts behind my back. Sorry for the long story, but I needed to get a few of these things off my chest.

Understandable, that's exactly the thing I'm worried about, my best friends say that I tend to flirt with guys naturally when I open my mouth, and I don't want them to get the wrong idea so ive stayed away from them cause I respect my boyfriend.
Ok my advice is that if he loves you, and you know he does it and its bothering you, tell him and if he respects you then he'll stop doing that. I have a friend who fliers with me every day and I know I don't flirt with this guy and he has a girlfriend. I feel so bad for her, she doesn't know he fliers with other girls. So find out and tell him if you don't like it. He should respect you and stop it if he loves you.

[GIGABITE]

But on another note, as weird as I feel talking about this right now, I need to ramble at you all about this; someone has been being really sweet to me lately. Someone I used to have a huge crush on before who is now my ex girlfriend. We talked on the first day of school, two days ago. Despite his intimidating wolf-eyed appearance and rowdy behavior on the bus with his friends, he seems like a really sweet guy. I don't think, despite being over my ex, it would be in my best interests to like someone again though.
I probably sound like a rebound idiot right now. But I don't grieve long over exes who prove themselves to have no respect for my feelings. This has happened many times, and each time I recover faster. Why be sad over someone who didn't care? That's my logic, at least. Just try to take me seriously here.
So this guy and I exit the building to the buses at around the same time, and since we ride the same bus it ends up being one of us walking not far behind the other. Well that day I happened to be first, not too far in front but still. He then piped up saying something about how annoying it was that our bus was parked at the very front of the line, and took so long to walk to.
I turned and gawked at him for a moment, unsure on whether he was talking to me or not. He was, so I fell into step with him and commented agreeing with him. Then, unsure on what to say, I awkwardly blurted out an apology for my awkwardness. He seemed to find this little blunder a bit amusing, but gently said it was alright. Then we got to the door of the bus, and sort of stood there for a moment, before I realized he was waiting for me to go first. How polite
Him and I have had previous interactions, none of which I really understood. He talks to me completely randomly and often when I'm least expecting it.
I don't know what to think. Even if I did re-develop a crush on him, I'm unsure on trusting people anymore, and I feel it would be futile anyways. I'm not exactly liked much, in terms of crushes and such. Oh well

Any advice or something would be great, I don't know what to do/think. Should I talk to him? (or at least try to, I'm mega shy) Should I even be getting myself into this mess? Agh