Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[leslie knope]

i have a crush on my best friend. he doesnt like me though, he has a crush on another girl, and he used to tell me all about it and stuff, like deep things he struggles with.
but lately he says he doesnt want to share and isnt really saying much other than hi... school has almost seemed to push us apart a little, and i barely see him.
what do i do?

[narwhallama]

I just want to see my crush, I saw him get back from his holiday less than an hour ago...
he won't want to see me 'til tomorrow, if at all, and I won't be allowed to see anyone from over there..
sigh.

[Chillycheese]

How long have you known him?

[embrue]

need a little advice on a certain boy

i met this kid, lets call him ram, this year in the middle of april.
he is a friend of my best friend and the point of us hanging out
was to be set up. we didn't really talk that much that night
because i'm not a big people person in those situations. anyway,
for some reason ram asked my friend for my number and we
started texting. later in the month he told me he liked me but
there was one problem: for the entire summer he goes west
coast because of his athletics and he didn't want to put the
stress of him being away on a new relationship. i was fine with
it and willing to wait until he came back. the month of may
was amazing. we hung out on the weekends and we had our
first kiss (which was actually my first kiss in general) in the
middle of the month. we were able to spend more time
together in the beginning of june until he had to leave. it
was hard being away from each other but when he came home
for a few days we were able to find time. august rolls around
and he's finally home around the second week. we both had
tryouts for soccer so the week was crazy. we talked on the
phone a lot. then the day finally came. august 12th. we started
dating and this is when things get rocky. at first everything
was great and normal. then, monday night i get a phone call
from him saying he couldn't do it anymore and didn't want
to be in a relationship. we both were crying for a half an hour
before he said he had to go. i was beyond hurt because he
made me wait four months for something that wasn't even
lasting two weeks. he sent a long text that night about how
sorry he was and how terrible he is. i had a lot of friend
problems this year which ended with me losing a lot of people,
and he promised me i had nothing to worry about with him. he
made me feel secure. he texted me on tuesday and we talked
a little bit then about what happened. no texts on wednesday
or thursday. then last night i got a text from him and we talked
more. he explained everything a little more clearer. it bothered
him that we didn't go to the same school and i wouldn't get to
know his friends. (i go to an all girls private hs). he said i am
perfect for him but the situation of everything is hard on him.

if you read to this paragraph, thanks for listening to me ramble.
i promise my next posts won't be that long, haha. the point is,
i still like him and the way he words things makes me feel like
he is going to try to get back together with me at some point.
i just can't be stuck on that thought of waiting longer for him.
we're friends and i trust him with my life. my friends say to
wait for him to text me first a few times before i start to
initiate a conversation... does anyone agree/have different
opinions? any advice on this situation would be extremely
helpful. gah i'm so sorry this is so long.

[Chillycheese]

If you think this guy is trustworthy, then trust and wait for him. I'm sure he knows what he's doing.

[Fire-wolf]

I need an advice: today I helped on a gay chat a men who had been cheated by another member. I shouted to that cheater and I get a [censored] you. When he knew it, he started to send my kisses, saying I deserved it and if I wasn't yet in love to someone, he would be my love. He's so similar to my luv, except that he's more clear (he said "I don't wanna be an ars with your BF, so even virtually, I won't kiss you on the lips") and may prospect me an easier life (he's more rich and phisically strong that my luv). Only: he's 32.
I feel simpathy and love to him, but is like a familiar love...even if I dream on he and not as a brother. The thing is that he has the same name of my boyfriend!
I truly dunno what to do. For now is only a good friend (and cuddly)....but if I fall in love to him? Is right or I'll cheat on my mate?

[Chillycheese]

Fire-wolf, before you make a decision between the two people, let me ask you a question, do you truly know this online person? Have you met him? What if he ends up not what you expected him to be? My advice to you is, don't fall for him. He could be bad.

[ehsmithy]

He's my backyard neighbor. I've known him since I was 3. I've had a crush on him for a while, every once in a while go out to play basketball with him and we talk and make fun of each other. He's my best friend and has been there through embarrassing times. I haven't had any classes with him but we've had the same teachers. (Middle School) I'm not sure if he likes me, he listens to me when I do my none stop taking. We share the same interests but each other (I think)

[Chillycheese]

That's nice!

[Fire-wolf]

Fire-wolf, before you make a decision between the two people, let me ask you a question, do you truly know this online person? Have you met him? What if he ends up not what you expected him to be? My advice to you is, don't fall for him. He could be bad.

To be onest, I know more my BF: I haven't seen him in the reality but I know more him than the other.