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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Punky* » Sat Aug 30, 2014 10:22 am

I need help guys, I'm really confused

On the last day of school last year, my best friend (a guy) told me that his friend (also a guy. I'm female, by the way xD) has a major crush on me. Now I hang out with both of these idiots, and I kinda developed a crush on my friends friend. Now, that we've just started school, my other best friend (a girl) is dating my guy best friend. It's all a huge mess, but I still have a crush on my friends friend, but it's developed into a HUGE deal. We are good friends, but he flirts with everything that moves. He still likes me, and I'm confused >_<
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ardentsongbird » Sat Aug 30, 2014 10:27 am

~JayFeather~ wrote:
WolfSorrow86 wrote:I'm excited!
So I now it next to M (( My crush )) in Science class c:
BUT, my friend, Z, also has a crush on him ;n; She has told me, and I have told her. Z seems to be much closer to M then I am. I am a very shy person, and often not the one to start a conversation. I planned on giving M a note, saying I would like to keep in touch with him, and give him my Kik username. Nope. Me being so shy, I bailed and didn't give him the note. So, on Tuesday, Z said she would give him the note. The only problem is me and M might be really awkward the next day, knowing I wanted to talk to him more than just in school.

I think my confidence level is really low... can anyone help me?



Well, it seems like ya really like him! Honestly, I gave my crush a note, and now we text quite a bit! If I were you, I would just slide the note in his backpack or desk or something. And hey, if he kicks your, or gives you his kik great! Which he most likely would. I'd just get 20 seconds of courage, and slide it somewhere he will get it! Hope this helps

-Jay

Thanks! I know giving him a note is kinda... predictable? I don't know, but I will give him that note!
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ProudHufflepuff » Sat Aug 30, 2014 10:50 am

boat wrote:
      a lot of girls like my boyfriend and they're all more popular/less awkward than me and its making me really jealous >w<
      hng i feel so clingy and also kinda scared?? we haven't been together very long so i can't help but keep on thinking that he's going to leave me for someone else. ahh i do feel bad that i'm feeling suspicious of him ; n ;


I feel the same way sometimes...I'm so awkward and everyone's so much prettier and my bf lives far away and I start getting worried. But trust him....if he tells u he won't leave or something, trust him. I mean he chose u over them in the first place :)


Okay and I just need to rant because I have the sweetest bf ever.
He came over Monday and he drove for like over 20 hours just to get here and he was being super sweet. Like we just cuddle and talk all day, and maybe kiss a little :3 but he's literally the cutest. Like he just kinda pulled me onto his lap and kissed me and we just kinda sat there for a bit like nose to nose looking into each others eyes and smiling like idiots xD he was talking to me and just like stopped mid-word and was like "....you have really pretty eyes" and I just kind giggled and blushed and he's just like "well you do"
And then he was talking and he was like "I hope u know how much u mean to me, I wouldn't normally travel that much just to see someone...but just 30 minutes with u is worth all that driving" and I just awww

And then we were cuddling and he started to get up and he was like "I gotta go now baby..." And I just didnt say anything and just looked at him and shook my head and he was like "I know...I don't want to....but I have to" and I was like in tears cause idk when he can come again cause school and I miss him and I like looked down hoping he wouldn't notice and he was like "oh don't cry...come here" and just hugged me really tight for a while and said he loved me and I would've said I loved u too but if I had tried I would've really cried so I just hugged him tighter and he was like "I'll be back soon...I promise" and I just *sigh*

I tell him I'm weird and the weird things I do...he won't call me weird he only says I'm unique

I just needed to get that out cause I don't have anyone to talk to about it right now
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby eli ayase » Sat Aug 30, 2014 11:02 am

vocal wrote:
      ooohhh so today in history I said to my crush, C, "you dropped your pocket" and he didn't really get it so I had to describe the joke to him xD But then he came up to me and said "you're short" and I said "thats because i'm sitting down" and he said "so stand up". He's a little bit taller than me and he was like "you're still short" which was really cute to me tbh xD And then in math there was a string on his back and I told him and he asked if I could get it off and I did owo and we teased each other a lot in exploratory and on the way to our lockers


      hhhhhHHHH

      what could this mean
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Wild.One » Sat Aug 30, 2014 11:47 am

Sometime I doubt a guy will ever like me. I'm in high school and have never had a boyfriend. All my friends have. My best friend has had tons of guys like her. Some she has dated, some she hasn't. Sometimes I feel like she takes for granted what she has. She's so pretty and talented and she always has some guy that likes her. I have never been told a guy likes me. She tells me I don't need a boyfriend. (In a friend type of way) But its hard to listen when she always has a boyfriend or a guy that likes her that will flirt with her. I would love even just a friend that's a guy. Guys just don't seem to talk to me much though. I'm not ugly or weird or anything, just shy. I have had guy friends before but I moved schools this year and now don't know anyone. Any advise of how to maybe talk to the guys at my new school or anything? I guess this is just kind of a rant but I've just haven't talked about how I feel to anyone in a long time and I'm gonna start to cry if I don't some how. Idk.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby kboys » Sat Aug 30, 2014 12:22 pm


He sat down next to me and I got flustered and moved to the other side .
I'm such an idiot .
He's the cutest thing ever , he's really nice but why did I run away ?
hng his smile is so precious and he's really tall .
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby thunderofthedrum » Sat Aug 30, 2014 3:47 pm

Wild.One wrote:
Sometime I doubt a guy will ever like me. I'm in high school and have never had a boyfriend. All my friends have. My best friend has had tons of guys like her. Some she has dated, some she hasn't. Sometimes I feel like she takes for granted what she has. She's so pretty and talented and she always has some guy that likes her. I have never been told a guy likes me. She tells me I don't need a boyfriend. (In a friend type of way) But its hard to listen when she always has a boyfriend or a guy that likes her that will flirt with her. I would love even just a friend that's a guy. Guys just don't seem to talk to me much though. I'm not ugly or weird or anything, just shy. I have had guy friends before but I moved schools this year and now don't know anyone. Any advise of how to maybe talk to the guys at my new school or anything? I guess this is just kind of a rant but I've just haven't talked about how I feel to anyone in a long time and I'm gonna start to cry if I don't some how. Idk.


That is hands down, absolutely rdiculous. Just because you haven't had a boyfriend YET doesn't mean you never will. You've barely begun your life and you are already worried about this? Come on, there are bigger issues out there.

I never had a guy like me in high school. Does that mean something is wrong with me? NO. Does that suggest I will never have a relationship? NO.

Don't judge yourself based on your friend. Just because someone's had many relationships doesn't mean they are a better person or more interesting. It certainly doesn't mean they will find happiness or a lifelong partner! If anything, a long string of brief relationships might be detrimental - may not give the person experience in making it work, going through tough times, communicating, rekindling the spark, handling things in a mature way, working as a team, learning to be patient with each other, etc.

I never had a guy like me until I was like 21, and even then it never fully blossomed into a full relationship (not in my opinion, though I still consider him an ex). So? Who cares. Have I had meaningful relationships since then? Yes. Have I been able to get to know myself in the meantime? Definitely.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ~IronRose~ » Sat Aug 30, 2014 4:37 pm

What does it mean when a guy sends you a text saying "Hey you"
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby thunderofthedrum » Sat Aug 30, 2014 4:51 pm

~Snowboard4life~ wrote:What does it mean when a guy sends you a text saying "Hey you"


It means "Hey you". Seriously, dont try to find hidden meanings in everything. It will drive you crazy. That is only two words- not enough to really analyze. Just say 'hey' or something back. Or more than that. It's up to you. He is a person. You are not psychic. Just roll with it.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby MyNiallBear » Sat Aug 30, 2014 5:42 pm

My crush that I've known for two years finally started talking to me and I've liked him since the first time I saw him. Well that same day he asked me out and I said sure and we've been talking since then and we stay up really late talking. Sometimes I can't believe he actually likes me and he's pretty popular at school and all my Pretty friends really like him.
everytime I see him I get butterflies and we've been dating for 4 months now and never really been on an actual date. But taking It slow is a good thing in a teen realationship
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