Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[leslie knope]

i seriously just want to cry right not.
i have had a horrible day, im sick with a nasty cold but i was still at school.
my best friend- or so he calls us- sits at lunch with my and my other 'friend' who abuses me, only for a short time. he rarely sits with us, and the times he does he says a couple words then leaves.
today, when he actually ate a full lunch, he was with a group of his old friends that he told me were annoying, for a couple minutes. then he went to another table.
he hasnt been texting me, and he hasnt said a word to me all day. not even a 'hi'. we only have one class together and he used to sit by me, but now there is two people between us.
it seems he wants to hang out with everyone else but me, unless we are alone- we live like a minute away.
i have no idea what to do.
it seems that all the nice things he has said about me or claimed to be true are lies.
but i dont want to get mad at him and break our relationship.
cause to me at least, he is my best friend, and i dont know how to make it clear how much he means to me without him thinking that i have a crush on him.
:crai:
i-i just messed up bigtime
i texted him saying i just want to make sure he is doing okay cause we have barely talked and he replies with
".."

[claws990p]

so sorry that has happened so much to me

[Blue Plasma]

I like this boy (Let's call him C). C is in my FACs Class and I've never really talked to him, I dunno how -- I feel like if I do that he'll like murder me (over exaggerating, but you get my point, hopefully.). C is older than me and is in a higher grade than me, so I dunno anything about him...any advice?

well do u like his looks or him is the question

I don't judge upon looks, I judge upon personality. I need help on how to talk to him (because In such a shy person ;w;)

[claws990p]

same here but i know its hard to talk when your shy i get really nevous

[Blue Plasma]

same here but i know its hard to talk when your shy i get really nevous

What should I say to him..?

[claws990p]

i would eather just walk with him for a minute or i would start a intresting topic or drop a pencil pick it up and talk to him i usally get paired up with my crushes for activites so i freak out

[Blue Plasma]

i would eather just walk with him for a minute or i would start a intresting topic or drop a pencil pick it up and talk to him i usally get paired up with my crushes for activites so i freak out

He is in football -- I do like football also. I go to almost all the games, so I'll talk to him about football. Now I just need the courage to talk to him.

[claws990p]

my crush is the most poular football player so im doomed my ranking compared to his
really popular










never poular

[mars]

WajaGirl, it sounds to me like you're in quite the pickle. This guy sounds great, but also like he has some emotional hangups that he's still getting over, so keep that in mind. In today's dating game, people are always so worried about showing interest, but the only way to gain a good relationship is to risk a little heartache. If you never let on that you're interested, he'll never know, because boys are clueless like that. If he's gay, he'll tell you and things might be awkward for a bit, but it sounds like you have enough of a bond to get through that awkward stage and stay friends. If he's not interested, or not ready for anything romantic, it'll probably be the same, or you'll drift apart. If you don't drift apart, he might reconsider you as a romantic option when his scars have healed. And if he is interested, everything's good, happily ever after.

So is the slight chance of drifting apart worth risking if there's relationship potential? Absolutely, in my opinion. Even if you do drift apart, there will be other guys. There are lots of guys who will feel like 'the one', so try not to get so hung up on this one.

You could go for the subtle approach, making casual physical contact (touching his arm during conversation), but again, boys are dense and don't tend to act on these cues until later in life. The direct approach is definitely the better option, with more risk, but also more potential reward.

Hope this helps.

I'm very late, but thank you so much! This advice has helped me a ton <3

I've spent a bit more time with him now and I'm fairly certain he's straight (at least I really hope he is)! We actually get to see each other on Tuesdays and Thursdays because his college class has a schedule like mine which I didn't expect - I'm really happy about that because we've gotten fairly close ;v;

He literally talked to me for just about a whole class period yesterday even though all of his other friends were there. He did something I never expected so soon, either - he told me something he's never told anyone before about his family. It's incredibly personal and he said he trusted me more than anyone else not to tell anyone, I'm not sure if this means he trusts me because he likes me or he trusts me as just a friend.. What do you guys think?

We have a handful of inside jokes, and we almost always end up laughing after talking to each other for just a few minutes. He's super funny, and he even saw me in the hallway and walked me towards our classes! He was smiling the whole time and turning to make some really epic eye contact as he walked into his classroom, yelling a joke across the hall for me to laugh at because he saw I was a bit sad that day. I love talking to him, he honestly makes me smile for once and I hope he likes me back - this is the first time I've ever felt happy before with liking someone >//vvvv//<

We like just about all the same things so it's easy to talk to him unlike other people and I just feel like I can really trust him back.
I haven't dared to make any physical contact though because I'm too shy at times and I'd hate for him to get upset or anything if it reminds him of something that happened to him, though he's been super happy recently and hasn't even mentioned anything like that, so I'm not sure? /:

[[x]]

WajaGirl is seems like he's totally interested in you!
I'd say get to know him some more (maybe a month or two) so you guys really get to know each other and trust each other, and ask him to coffee/lunch or something. Make it seem like it's his choice if its a date or not. If it seems like a date to you, tell him how you feel at the end and go from there.