Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Refugee]

When people leave your life for a while, and that time apart they have changed a lot, then when you try to talk to them again it's like they're not the same at all

I didn't miss you, I missed the guy you used to be...

i understand just what you mean

Thank you.. glad I'm not the only ome who belives this actially happens.... I mean we all change, nothing is ever constant but he used to mean everything to me, and now I feel like he can't be bothered

Why am I burdened to be this annoyingly emotional person...

[opeth]

ahhh !! emotions are so hard. one of my best friends, of two years, asked me out and i said no. to be truthful, i fell like i was kinda
leading him on. but at the time, i thought i would love a romantic relationship with him. -but i panicked, and said no when he actually
asked me out. romantic relationships seem so nice, but once one is actually in my grasp i just drop all my feelings and run. i've
considered that maybe i'm aromantic, but at this point, i'm more confused with myself than anything. now, a second person has come
back into my (who used to have a puppy-dog-like crush on me) life and we've been talking and causally hanging out. i feel like the past
is only going to repeat itself. i can never tell if i'm in love, or just drifting along. i've never dated anyone before, and the idea has
caused me so much anxiety lately. maybe i'm vulcan. advice? ; v ;

[boat]

hng I've had a crush on one of my friends, M, a few years ago. The feeling faded and I had a relationship thingie with this other guy, but it's over now. And my feelings for M started coming back again about a month ago, though it's been a little fuzzy and really unclear whether it was the aftermath of going back to being "just friends" with that other guy. I couldn't decide who I really liked until less than a week ago (it was M haha) We've been texting a lot suddenly, and yesterday he told me that he liked me >w<
Ahhhhaha
I still can't really wrap my head around this, because although we were friends he never really showed interest in me. And he's like 10x more popular than I am ; u ;

Two of my best friends like him though and I feel so bad, because they liked him for a really long time and I only began truly liking him four/five days ago?? I don't want to tell them, but I don't want to keep it from them either because they're my friends >w<

[ScarWitch]

I wish guys understood how girls are wired differently. Yes, I know you still like me, but a little acknowledgement would be amazing.

[Lucid Dreamer]

I wish guys understood how girls are wired differently. Yes, I know you still like me, but a little acknowledgement would be amazing.

Oh how I wish this too.

[Refugee]

I wish guys understood how girls are wired differently. Yes, I know you still like me, but a little acknowledgement would be amazing.

Oh how I wish this too.

I wish they understood how emotional we can be. I seriously don't think guys get heartbroken, do they? In the end it seems like the girl is always the one that gets hurt and cries and was too emotionally attached to a guy that doesn't care

[Lucid Dreamer]

Guys can be the same,
however I just think that the majority of girls seem to get more emotionally attached.

[Refugee]

Guys can be the same,
however I just think that the majority of girls seem to get more emotionally attached.

Yeah, biologically that makes sense. It's just how we're wired. All too often a girl gets emotionally attached to a guy when he has no feelings for her and he really only wanted the physical part of the relationship.

In reality, when people get more mature they realize there needs to be a balance of both physical and emotional connection in order for a relationship to work.

I'm just speaking on my general experience, there are always exceptions to everything.

[ScarWitch]

I wish they understood how emotional we can be. I seriously don't think guys get heartbroken, do they? In the end it seems like the girl is always the one that gets hurt and cries and was too emotionally attached to a guy that doesn't care

I wasn't meaning that persay, mainly just the fact that they think that we are like them. Completely fine with knowing they like us. I get that, but a small, sweet thing here and there would be absolutely wonderful to us. Do see your point though, some guys are like that but some girls are too.

[Zadkiel]

This has to be the worst day in my entire life so far... I found out my girlfriend has been liking this guy in her hometown for about a month now and now they are in a relationship... The worst part is I found out on Facebook. She hadn't responded to any of my texts the past few days, I guess I know why now. /: I don't understand how she could do this to me, I wish she was just honest with me. I really do. I feel horrible right now and our five month anniversary was just a few days ago.