Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[sumsummer]

smoshisnotonfire i give you advice what ever you thinks best follow your heart i say go for it but what ever you think is best Follow your heart picks whats best for you ok do whats best stay calm and think what you would do or i say just go for it

[sumsummer]

ahh there is this guy that i am dieing for i have licked him since kindergarten and i moved one city away from him i dont know what to do i pass by his house everyday he invited me to his birthday party and none of any other of the class mates i need to axpress my feelings but i dont know how advice.Help me

[Refugee]

When people leave your life for a while, and that time apart they have changed a lot, then when you try to talk to them again it's like they're not the same at all

I didn't miss you, I missed the guy you used to be...

[Mufa]

I have boy problems and need some advice [much like many other people around the world c:]

Anyways, there are two boys. One is my ex boyfriend, B [we dated three years ago]. We're super great friends now, but things get really awkward really fast. The second one is my best guy friend [who was pretty much my 'not related' brother up until a few months ago'] I started developing feelings for the new boy, T, sometime around Halloween of 2013, but they weren't 'real' until April of 2014. I've had B confess to me that he liked me, and I told him I like him on and off [meaning my feelings about him change all the time].

I admitted to some of my friends that I like T, a lot. For a while some of my classmates even thought T and I were secretly dating because of how close we were. I even began to think that he liked me too, until last month. He started liking my best friend [who broke up with B not long before]. It made me upset, and I knew the feelings were mutual because I had heard it from both of them. It hurt, and I turned to B and my other best friend to cheer me up. They helped, a lot, but I still feel torn.

Just recently, I realized how much B has changed. He now smokes, does drugs, and drinks alcohol. My feelings are starting to fade for good because of these things. It's not that I judge him, it's that I've tried to keep him happy and fix his depression, but he just won't listen. I'm fairly sure that my feelings are completely gone and I want to talk to him about it before he gets any ideas, but I haven't had the time because he's gone at a camp for most of the summer.

I went to a carnival/celebration that a town near mine has every year. I went with R [my other bestie, not the one that has mutual feelings with T], F [close guy friend], and J [another close guy friend]. Throughout the entire day, J kept saying that I loved T [he was one of the ones I told]. Sometime while we were sitting down, he stole my phone and started texting people. I didn't bother to steal it back because I trusted him. Once I took back my phone, I received two texts from T. One said "OK" and the other said "Good to know”. All the previous texts had been deleted, so I asked J what he said. He didn't tell me. I asked T over text but he wouldn't tell me either. We texted for a while and he said "You should come visit me at work and eat supper here" [he works at A&W]. I replied with "Maybe later. I'll see if we can visit.” Something that confused me was that he directed his comment to me, even though he knew I was with J, F, and R [I had told him earlier on in our conversation]. We ended up not going, which was fine. But all throughout the day, J was super obnoxious and kept saying that I loved T. At one point, he said T and I might as well be dating [which clicked something in my head because J and T are best friends, and I assume they tell each other things [which may not be true]]. J later said that T's feelings for my other bestie weren't real.

I know that I should listen to J or trust what he says, but I can't help it.

Now, my question for someone to answer is, should I try and help B [possibly developing a relationship in the process [try to fix our feelings]] or keep my hopes up with T and see what the future of highschool holds for us.

[horse .]

You've disappeared. Like everything else. Now who else can I talk to? I'm lost. When you left, you took everything with you. But the absence of you is everywhere I look. It's like a huge hole has been punched through my chest. But In a way, I'm glad. The pain is the only reminder that you were real.

I actually feel like crying. And it wouldn't be the first time I did over this guy.. So, who is it? Well.. It's Bryce... Yes, I'm head over heels for this guy, once again...
The quote above is perfect. Because that is literally happening to me :'(

[shim]

Could i get someone, a bit experienced with relationships all all that pm me please? <33
Got someone! Ignore this please

[Lucid Dreamer]

I don't know what to say back to my bf.
He just said that he loves me, but I think he's joking about it.
I don't love him, and I know he doesn't love me and that he's just saying it.
But I have no idea what to say back.

This is the text I got from him -

Ok thanks love youuuuuuuuuuu! Haha
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[Julia]

Oh gosh he was such a waste of time.

I've given him so much. I bought a notebook and filled 45 pages with quotes, proverbs, pictures, stories, because my internship is/was 45 days.

And he didn't even read it hahaha... I recorded videos of my self and the cats I'm working with, saying that I wish him luck for his exams, he said "thanks"...did it four times, four exams, he always said "thank you".

Maybe I don't deserve better but please. I've been suffering the past few weeks because I really want to go home, been away for 4 weeks now. I love this animal shelter I'm volunteering at, but it's in America and I'm living in Europe. Never been longer away than 7 days from my home. And now we just broke up...I mean he didn't even say anything against it, he didn't cry or anything..just said k'bye. Like..."go and annoy someone else with your gifts and stuff"...

Oh wow...

[Limestone]

i'm here to help if you want. i like to help others and chat so just pm me from the link on the topic.

[Limestone]

When people leave your life for a while, and that time apart they have changed a lot, then when you try to talk to them again it's like they're not the same at all

I didn't miss you, I missed the guy you used to be...

i understand just what you mean