Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Lethargy]

@Dawnbreeze - Thats rude. Date secretly. That's what I did back then. Haha I didn't care what anyone said to me.

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Ever since this game closed down,
It's entirely hard for to find a girlfriend.
I want one so badly, but it's hard to
since I'm polyamory and want a three thing.
Please come fast.. I need another half.

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I hate being polyamory but I desire.

[Dawnbreeze10210]

Thanks everyone for your thoughts and advice. It was appreciated, it just sort of sucks ):
I think he was trying to make me feel better about it and saying he wants me to go out and find a boyfriend and all, but I still love him. Oh well, guess he'll just have to keep his promise and be my best friend and I'll be his and he won't forget me.

@Amethysts
Haha, date secretly? You have no idea, if I were to actually get a boyfriend that's what would happen.

@zan, moon, rorke
Thanks for the help guys (:
But I think, this relationship between him and I has been set to best friends.

[Lucid Dreamer]

I hate having to hint with my guy about him kissing me.
If my best mate didn't place are hands together we wouldn't hold hands.
He'll hold my hand when my mate places his hand in mine, however he wont take my hand himself.
He's kissed me once, only people I practically had to ask him to kiss me.
He's not a stranger to dating, at all.
I'm glad its going slow but it makes me feel like he doesn't like me and that he only kissed me or holds my hand because he feels he has to, not that he wants to.
I know he really likes me but I cant help but feel insecure about it.
Anyone else have this problem?

[To The Roses]

Ever since this game closed down,
It's entirely hard for to find a girlfriend.
I want one so badly, but it's hard to
since I'm polyamory and want a three thing.
Please come fast.. I need another half.

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I hate being polyamory but I desire.

some people have halves,
and others have thirds
but that love is still whole,
(to put it in words).

[MysterySoul6]

Umm...hi, my name is Myst and..currently I'm going through a hard patch in my relationship...it's a complicated story, and a complicated situation..so I'm not very comfortable about sharing it publicly. Could someone maybe..send me a pm? Someone who would actually maybe be able to give me some sort of advice?

[Lethargy]

I hate having to hint with my guy about him kissing me.
If my best mate didn't place are hands together we wouldn't hold hands.
He'll hold my hand when my mate places his hand in mine, however he wont take my hand himself.
He's kissed me once, only people I practically had to ask him to kiss me.
He's not a stranger to dating, at all.
I'm glad its going slow but it makes me feel like he doesn't like me and that he only kissed me or holds my hand because he feels he has to, not that he wants to.
I know he really likes me but I cant help but feel insecure about it.
Anyone else have this problem?

He could be Asexual.

Asexual people don't require or feel sexual desires as to kissing, hugging, or anything with touching. They can go about relationships with absoulty no romance needs. He could just be a romantic where he can say and do, but not with touching.

[Harpy•]

I hate having to hint with my guy about him kissing me.
If my best mate didn't place are hands together we wouldn't hold hands.
He'll hold my hand when my mate places his hand in mine, however he wont take my hand himself.
He's kissed me once, only people I practically had to ask him to kiss me.
He's not a stranger to dating, at all.
I'm glad its going slow but it makes me feel like he doesn't like me and that he only kissed me or holds my hand because he feels he has to, not that he wants to.
I know he really likes me but I cant help but feel insecure about it.
Anyone else have this problem?

He could be Asexual.

Asexual people don't require or feel sexual desires as to kissing, hugging, or anything with touching. They can go about relationships with absoulty no romance needs. He could just be a romantic where he can say and do, but not with touching.

And if this is the case, then you both need to sit down and have a talk about both of your wants and needs.
I know for a fact that I couldn't handle being in a relationship with an asexual individual; I'm much too physical for that.

[Lucid Dreamer]

Trust me, he's straight.
He acts on his sexual desires and hugs me any chance he can get.
I think it might be because he can be really shy, however i know from the people that he previously dated that he didnt act around them like he acts around me.

[Dia.]

Trust me, he's straight.
He acts on his sexual desires and hugs me any chance he can get.
I think it might be because he can be really shy, however i know from the people that he previously dated that he didnt act around them like he acts around me.

Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure being asexual doesn't really relate to being straight or not. I believe that he could be straight and just not "require or feel sexual desires".

I'm also going to push this idea at you:
You should talk to him about it. You won't get anywhere feeling awkward or insecure and it'll just get worse the longer you wait.

[Lucid Dreamer]

I've already talked to him about it,
he just says he really likes me and dosent want to screw up because he wants it to last.
i am also certain that if he was asexual he would tell me, in are friend group we range from bi to trans.
Were really open with each other about these things so im pretty sure he'd tell me.