Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[d e s r a]

My crush and I have been becoming close friends. We talk all the time and tell each other everything. I don't think he likes me that way, but I guess that's okay.
But anyway, something really tragic happened in his life and now he's miserable. He hardly comes to school any more and when he does talk to me, it isn't for long. His other friends are busy grieving as well, so I'm the only person he has right now.
I really don't know what to say to him to make it better...
Sorry this isn't really a crush thing. I just need a little advice on how to comfort him.

[Simplistic Beauty]

So I have this crush who I've liked for awhile and I remember we both admitted to liking each other. Now it's been awhile and I feel so awkward now. My BFF is trying to hook us up and I'm happy for that but also kinda scared. She says why be scared because it's only him but I'm just nervous because I've never dated before and I don't wanna mess if up. Plus we live in different areas and it would be long distance. I think my main issue is the distance that's bugging me.

[CrazyAngel98]

So I have this crush who I've liked for awhile and I remember we both admitted to liking each other. Now it's been awhile and I feel so awkward now. My BFF is trying to hook us up and I'm happy for that but also kinda scared. She says why be scared because it's only him but I'm just nervous because I've never dated before and I don't wanna mess if up. Plus we live in different areas and it would be long distance. I think my main issue is the distance that's bugging me.

I'm in a long distance relationship. I'm not going to tell you that it is just wonderful... because it's not. He cannot physically be there for you when you need him, or when you want him, you are going to have to have a LOT of trust, and you don't get to talk as much as you want to. That sucks. BUT... I will say this: If he is a good guy then it is sure as the day is long worth it. My boyfriend is absolutely perfect. So, it's worth the distance. On the occasions that you do get to see each other, you don't take that time for granted and you cherish every moment you have together. And, when the distance is shortened then you know you can trust each other because you have been through the longer distances. Also, you know how strong you are if you can make it through that.

Anyways, I say go for darlin'! Take a risk just to say that you took it. You like him, he likes you. No problem. And don't be nervous because things will just fall together on their own. Good luck! I hope everything goes well for you!

Sorry it is so long....

[frogpaws]

so my girlfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago
she seems more hurt than i am

i've never seen her this depressed before and i feel bad
because i continuously get angry at her for saying things

we don't really talk much
i feel like a burden and it's hard for us to be friends

i don't know if i'm asking for any advice really
i think this might just be a vent
i'm sorry if this doesn't belong here

[Keletheryl]

You know what? I'm... kind of getting bored. Maybe it's just because he didn't text me today that I feel bored but... I don't know, I just feel like i'm getting bored of him.
I would suggest he hang out with me more but he's really busy this month and the next.
What a bad time to get bored of somebody :p

[Dia.]

You know what? I'm... kind of getting bored. Maybe it's just because he didn't text me today that I feel bored but... I don't know, I just feel like i'm getting bored of him.
I would suggest he hang out with me more but he's really busy this month and the next.
What a bad time to get bored of somebody :p

Just because he's busy doesn't mean you can ask him to hang out... >.>
Sounds like you're getting bored of him and don't want to do anything about it. ^^
Don't make any rash decisions about it. Make sure you actually are "bored" and it's not just a one day thing.

[Gwenfoxe]

Sigh... I don't know what to do...
So, I have a crush on this one guy at school. I've had it for over two years- he's kind, courageous, sweet, handsome, and all that. I could go on all day, in fact, I would quite willingly.
But I don't think he likes me at all, partly thanks to my cousin whispering about how horrible I am into his ear and partly because of how weird I acted when I was younger. I find him glaring at me sometimes, and other times he's just watching me.
But yesterday, when I wished him a happy birthday, he gave me this happy, laid-back smile and thanked me. He doesn't seem to hate me as much... or am I just imagining things?

[magpie!]

Sigh... I don't know what to do...
So, I have a crush on this one guy at school. I've had it for over two years- he's kind, courageous, sweet, handsome, and all that. I could go on all day, in fact, I would quite willingly.
But I don't think he likes me at all, partly thanks to my cousin whispering about how horrible I am into his ear and partly because of how weird I acted when I was younger. I find him glaring at me sometimes, and other times he's just watching me.
But yesterday, when I wished him a happy birthday, he gave me this happy, laid-back smile and thanked me. He doesn't seem to hate me as much... or am I just imagining things?

Don't jump to conclusions, try becoming friends with him. In my mind you can never hate someone unless you actually get to know them first.

[Gwenfoxe]

Don't jump to conclusions, try becoming friends with him. In my mind you can never hate someone unless you actually get to know them first.

I know I should, but I can't.. I try, but whenever I'm near him I panic..

[magpie!]

Don't jump to conclusions, try becoming friends with him. In my mind you can never hate someone unless you actually get to know them first.

I know I should, but I can't.. I try, but whenever I'm near him I panic..

It's completely normal to panic a little. Try breathing deep and thinking of a calm, quiet place, once you've calmed down a bit, approach him.

Courage is always inside you, you just need to find it and bring it out.