Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[yfish]

oh yay.*sigh*

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[.rin okumura.]

oh yay.*sigh*

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Hey it's ok... don't feel that sad... Sure you were just dumped... but hey YOUR SINGLE AND READY TO MINGLE!! XD... Lol... but if you were my neighbor we would sit and watch chic flicks and eat ice cream and get fat together.... unless you don't want to get fat... but you get what I mean..

[Sameen_of_Nohr]

ok so I was wondering I have a boyfriend but we just hang out and well write letters and stuff but its not really a boyfriend girlfriend relationship we are courting... and you are supposed to not kiss... its hard lets leave it at that {and not just because his mother hates me and calls me a witch every time I see them...} but he turned 18 lately and im a little uncomfortable with him being an "adult" and me not... true ill follow him in a few monthes but it bothers me I don't know why any thoughts?

sorry, I really only understand a little of whats going on here. Can you please rewrite it? mostly the "ok so I was wondering I have a boyfriend but we just hang out and well write letters and stuff but its not really a boyfriend girlfriend relationship we are courting... and you are supposed to not kiss... its hard lets leave it at that"
Well, you don't have to kiss to be boyfriend and girlfriend... I don't. We just hug because kissing makes us awkward.

I don't want to kiss him that is awkward but he is 18 and im a little uncomfortable with him as an adult while im not... I guess itsjust me because he seems fine with it {although his mother is 10yrs younger than his dad}I see him today and im giving him his birthday present and we might spend some time together outside... but his mom finds a way to stop it.. I don't know ...I really love him and I guess that's allthat matters

[Thalassic]

ok so I was wondering I have a boyfriend but we just hang out and well write letters and stuff but its not really a boyfriend girlfriend relationship we are courting... and you are supposed to not kiss... its hard lets leave it at that {and not just because his mother hates me and calls me a witch every time I see them...} but he turned 18 lately and im a little uncomfortable with him being an "adult" and me not... true ill follow him in a few monthes but it bothers me I don't know why any thoughts?

sorry, I really only understand a little of whats going on here. Can you please rewrite it? mostly the "ok so I was wondering I have a boyfriend but we just hang out and well write letters and stuff but its not really a boyfriend girlfriend relationship we are courting... and you are supposed to not kiss... its hard lets leave it at that"
Well, you don't have to kiss to be boyfriend and girlfriend... I don't. We just hug because kissing makes us awkward.

I don't want to kiss him that is awkward but he is 18 and im a little uncomfortable with him as an adult while im not... I guess itsjust me because he seems fine with it {although his mother is 10yrs younger than his dad}I see him today and im giving him his birthday present and we might spend some time together outside... but his mom finds a way to stop it.. I don't know ...I really love him and I guess that's allthat matters

Just cause he's 18 doesn't make anything different. He's still older than you by no more than he was before, and he's still the same person, so I really don't see why you should suddenly see him as an adult.

[Akele]

hey,,, dating question...

if a guy offers to pay is it okay to pay for yourself?
i know that it is held stereotype that girls can't pay for them selves but...
could it seem rude to decline them?

You could always let him pay this time...but tell him next time, you'll pay for him in return. C:
That's what my girlfriend and I did, before we moved in together and got a joint bank account, lol.
One date would be on her, and the next one would be on me. Made things even.

[Sameen_of_Nohr]

Just cause he's 18 doesn't make anything different. He's still older than you by no more than he was before, and he's still the same person, so I really don't see why you should suddenly see him as an adult.

he started acting like one its making me a little uncomfortable and he actually did change he's less ... I don't know him.{ but as I say all this I realize im falling in love with this new him all over again so... } thanks and you do have a true point :}

[HorseFan21♞]

Gahh I guess the crush is still there. -3- I surrender. XD

But I'm confused now. Either I'm paranoid again, I did something, or something else.
Super confused.

PM for details. Would be appreciated. >.<

[torie 95]

can you please help me I don't know if I'm still dating my boyfriend he lives 3 and a half hours away and I text him but he never answers and I send letters but he never sends some back and he's very sweet and kind do you think he's cheating , ingoring me, or just forgeting?

[thunderofthedrum]

can you please help me I don't know if I'm still dating my boyfriend he lives 3 and a half hours away and I text him but he never answers and I send letters but he never sends some back and he's very sweet and kind do you think he's cheating , ingoring me, or just forgeting?

Well from what little you have told me, I would kind of say to break it off. It sounds like you are trying to stay in touch and he isn't. If he doesn't ever talk to you I wouldn't call that a relationship. That behavior doesn't sound sweet and kind to me, to be honest. Either he's moved on and hasn't told you, is hoping you'll take the hint from ignoring you, or POSSIBLY he's very busy - hard to tell because I don't know how long this has been going on.

[CrazyAngel98]

tennisbutt, I think it would be good for you to start jogging! You would get in shape, be able to see him/ get to know him better, and it saves embarrassment from your mom! lol I say... Go For It! Good Luck!

I have a lovely dilemma you guys!
I have a boyfriend... we shall call him A. We met about 6 months ago and liked each other immediately! We started dating 2 weeks after we met. We lasted about 2 months and then I called it off. You see, I had liked this guy for the longest time before I met A. This guy, I will call B, and I "dated" (acted like it but were not official) for about a month, he got a girlfriend, they lasted 9 month before I met A and started dating him. A was PERFECT I could not ask for better. Except for maybe if he didn't live 2 hours away. Not his fault though. Anyway, after 11 months, B and his girlfriend broke up and he told me he had always liked me "blah blah blah." So I broke up with A and went to B. Again, B and I acted like we were dating but never were official. He was good to me until he got back with his ex. So I said forget it. I was single for about 3 months, then I got a phone and had the courage to text A again. He was still perfect as ever and I missed him like crazy. So, we got back together! <3 (1-27-2014). I see him every other weekend and we talk every day! I'm crazy over him. B though... I am still friends with him. Probably shouldn't be, but I am. He still likes me. He sits with me on the bus, every other day we have lunch together, and we're still good friends. Anyway, today he started carrying my books and walking me to all my classes. I wish he would stop. I want to be friends but NOTHING more. I am tired of people asking if we are dating, think we are dating, and him flirting. I am not taking the risk of losing my boyfriend ever again. That was awful and I still hate myself over it.
Do I tell A about B?
How do I ask B to back off a little?

Thanks you guys!!!!