Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[horse .]

Pretty little fly,
Why does he cry?

Stuck in a web,
Soon he'll be...

EATEN!

Some one PM me. I feel like cr*p...

[Keletheryl]

I was having a nightmare about him, so I went on his Facebook to see my nightmares weren't, obviously true.
But I had to double check.
And that was a terrible idea, because I see a tagged picture with him and some girl, captioned "my favourite lip-splitter"
I mean, I want to think I'm just jumping to conclusions but... What else could that title mean?

I knew exactly that this is what I was getting myself into. I was okay with it, I really was. As time progressed, I started to just pretend I was Okayama it's it, that himself eyeing other girls didn't bother me.
But seeing that? Seeing the actual proof? Makes me realize that I am completely not okay with it.
And now I am hoping that he will just slowly forget about me. I don't want to be a part of this anymore.
Peace out and I'll try not to cry.

Listened to a bunch of songs and you know what? I feel a hell of a lot better now.
I'm still hurt, but I'm not crying anymore, no. I'm just angry. Angry and frustrated.

EDIT; should I ignore him if he texts me? I feel like I should but I've never been in this situation before, I don't know how to react, I don't know what is right and wrong.
Just don't tell me to talk to him about it, I really don't feel like it right now.

[l'amour.]

I was having a nightmare about him, so I went on his Facebook to see my nightmares weren't, obviously true.
But I had to double check.
And that was a terrible idea, because I see a tagged picture with him and some girl, captioned "my favourite lip-splitter"
I mean, I want to think I'm just jumping to conclusions but... What else could that title mean?

I knew exactly that this is what I was getting myself into. I was okay with it, I really was. As time progressed, I started to just pretend I was Okayama it's it, that himself eyeing other girls didn't bother me.
But seeing that? Seeing the actual proof? Makes me realize that I am completely not okay with it.
And now I am hoping that he will just slowly forget about me. I don't want to be a part of this anymore.
Peace out and I'll try not to cry.

Listened to a bunch of songs and you know what? I feel a hell of a lot better now.
I'm still hurt, but I'm not crying anymore, no. I'm just angry. Angry and frustrated.

EDIT; should I ignore him if he texts me? I feel like I should but I've never been in this situation before, I don't know how to react, I don't know what is right and wrong.
Just don't tell me to talk to him about it, I really don't feel like it right now.

first off, i'm so sorry that you've landed in a situation such as this--no one deserves this.
and if i was in your shoes, i'm assuming that you're still pissed at him? i would ignore him for a bit if he texts you and try to calm down a bit, probably just sleep on it.
the next day, try and reflect on the situation and if you think you're in a stable state of mind you should confront him. just not as of now because your anger is probably at extremes, and who can blame you?

[lady lazarus]

ahh I have a crush on my friend Bradley and all my friends tell me he totally likes me- which is super great! the only problem is he's super stubborn and won't tell anyone who he likes (so I suppose there's a bit of a chance that he doesn't like me). I just met him this year and he's super funny and he teases me all the time about stuff. I swear- he always tries to get on my nerves plus- I sit next to him in more than half or my classes? it's like my teachers are trying to set me up for disaster.
(wow it was really nice to be able to get all that fangirling out)

[Keletheryl]

I was having a nightmare about him, so I went on his Facebook to see my nightmares weren't, obviously true.
But I had to double check.
And that was a terrible idea, because I see a tagged picture with him and some girl, captioned "my favourite lip-splitter"
I mean, I want to think I'm just jumping to conclusions but... What else could that title mean?

I knew exactly that this is what I was getting myself into. I was okay with it, I really was. As time progressed, I started to just pretend I was Okayama it's it, that himself eyeing other girls didn't bother me.
But seeing that? Seeing the actual proof? Makes me realize that I am completely not okay with it.
And now I am hoping that he will just slowly forget about me. I don't want to be a part of this anymore.
Peace out and I'll try not to cry.

Listened to a bunch of songs and you know what? I feel a hell of a lot better now.
I'm still hurt, but I'm not crying anymore, no. I'm just angry. Angry and frustrated.

EDIT; should I ignore him if he texts me? I feel like I should but I've never been in this situation before, I don't know how to react, I don't know what is right and wrong.
Just don't tell me to talk to him about it, I really don't feel like it right now.

first off, i'm so sorry that you've landed in a situation such as this--no one deserves this.
and if i was in your shoes, i'm assuming that you're still pissed at him? i would ignore him for a bit if he texts you and try to calm down a bit, probably just sleep on it.
the next day, try and reflect on the situation and if you think you're in a stable state of mind you should confront him. just not as of now because your anger is probably at extremes, and who can blame you?

Thank you, I will take your advice

[Sabitsuki]

I'm going to prom with a friend. But, like, he asked to be in a relationship before, and I said no, and he was cool with it. Sort of. He said he wasn't planning to give up. So now I'm worried he's going to try making this romantic instead of a friendly thing. I don't want romance. I can't think of one person I am attracted to right now. I haven't had a crush since seventh grade, and yet now multiple boys have expressed interest. Uncanny, isn't it?

Ah, whatever.
My only real worry is that he's going to try kissing me or something. I find the thought of kissing really off-putting. I just want to go to the last big dance of my high school career with some friends.

[lady lazarus]

I'm going to prom with a friend. But, like, he asked to be in a relationship before, and I said no, and he was cool with it. Sort of. He said he wasn't planning to give up. So now I'm worried he's going to try making this romantic instead of a friendly thing. I don't want romance. I can't think of one person I am attracted to right now. I haven't had a crush since seventh grade, and yet now multiple boys have expressed interest. Uncanny, isn't it?

Ah, whatever.
My only real worry is that he's going to try kissing me or something. I find the thought of kissing really off-putting. I just want to go to the last big dance of my high school career with some friends.

maybe if you tell him how you're feeling about all of it, possibly he'll understand? just express to him that you're afraid me might try to make the whole affair romantic, after you've already told him that you don't have any romantic feelings for him. hopefully he'll understand!

[Sabitsuki]

maybe if you tell him how you're feeling about all of it, possibly he'll understand? just express to him that you're afraid me might try to make the whole affair romantic, after you've already told him that you don't have any romantic feelings for him. hopefully he'll understand!

Yeah, I've definitely got to tell him how I feel about it, preferably before any possible attempts at kissing. :P
I'm just not sure how to initiate that conversation without making one or both of us uncomfortable. I guess I'll wait 'till he and I start working out our plans.
Thanks for the advice.

[Thalassic]

I was having a nightmare about him, so I went on his Facebook to see my nightmares weren't, obviously true.
But I had to double check.
And that was a terrible idea, because I see a tagged picture with him and some girl, captioned "my favourite lip-splitter"
I mean, I want to think I'm just jumping to conclusions but... What else could that title mean?

I knew exactly that this is what I was getting myself into. I was okay with it, I really was. As time progressed, I started to just pretend I was Okayama it's it, that himself eyeing other girls didn't bother me.
But seeing that? Seeing the actual proof? Makes me realize that I am completely not okay with it.
And now I am hoping that he will just slowly forget about me. I don't want to be a part of this anymore.
Peace out and I'll try not to cry.

Listened to a bunch of songs and you know what? I feel a hell of a lot better now.
I'm still hurt, but I'm not crying anymore, no. I'm just angry. Angry and frustrated.

EDIT; should I ignore him if he texts me? I feel like I should but I've never been in this situation before, I don't know how to react, I don't know what is right and wrong.
Just don't tell me to talk to him about it, I really don't feel like it right now.

I'm sorry if this sounds mean or anything, but you really did know that it would come to this, didn't you? I mean, you knew this was what you're getting into. So from that point of view, you really have no purpose of confronting him. It's not his fault. It's no ones fault, really, but you can't just attack him like he's the bad guy.

[Akele]

I was having a nightmare about him, so I went on his Facebook to see my nightmares weren't, obviously true.
But I had to double check.
And that was a terrible idea, because I see a tagged picture with him and some girl, captioned "my favourite lip-splitter"
I mean, I want to think I'm just jumping to conclusions but... What else could that title mean?

I knew exactly that this is what I was getting myself into. I was okay with it, I really was. As time progressed, I started to just pretend I was Okayama it's it, that himself eyeing other girls didn't bother me.
But seeing that? Seeing the actual proof? Makes me realize that I am completely not okay with it.
And now I am hoping that he will just slowly forget about me. I don't want to be a part of this anymore.
Peace out and I'll try not to cry.

Listened to a bunch of songs and you know what? I feel a hell of a lot better now.
I'm still hurt, but I'm not crying anymore, no. I'm just angry. Angry and frustrated.

EDIT; should I ignore him if he texts me? I feel like I should but I've never been in this situation before, I don't know how to react, I don't know what is right and wrong.
Just don't tell me to talk to him about it, I really don't feel like it right now.

I think you know what the right thing to do is.
Your fears have been confirmed. And you've determined you don't want anything to do with him anymore.
Now...all you have to do is let him go and move on.

Don't answer his texts. Don't answer his emails. Put some distance between you and him.
It's the only way you are going to move on.