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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby magpie! » Tue Jan 14, 2014 10:34 am

What do you do when you find out that one of your friends like the same guy as you?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Mysterious Banana » Tue Jan 14, 2014 10:39 am

There's this guy. I knew him in preschool, and I even had a crush on him then. We sort of forgot about each other, but now we're in the same class, and I still have a crush on him. It's more sophisticated, obviously, since we're older. The problem is that I feel awkward around him. He's funny, and sweet, and cute. But when I'm around him I don't know what to say to him. I end up saying something stupid. What do I do?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby vvoland » Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:36 am

whelp. Its formal time again.

and just awkwardly sitting through class with everyone asking each other in adorable creative cutesy ways...

and then there's me... ^_^;;
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Sergeant Nuggeht » Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:40 am

kyjtrimm wrote:There's this guy. I knew him in preschool, and I even had a crush on him then. We sort of forgot about each other, but now we're in the same class, and I still have a crush on him. It's more sophisticated, obviously, since we're older. The problem is that I feel awkward around him. He's funny, and sweet, and cute. But when I'm around him I don't know what to say to him. I end up saying something stupid. What do I do?


    Try to find something that both of you could speak about and relate to. When you are around him and you can't think of anything to say, just don't try to blurt something out.
    I kind of have half-experience with this, this guy I like, well we aren't very alike. He was in my class two years ago, but last year he was just in my music class, so it kind of got difficult. He's really musical, so I just tried to talk to him about guitar and bass kind of stuff.
    Also, if you have his mobil phone number, start texting him, even if it's just a simple greeting and asking what he's doing/how he is. If the conversation seems to drop or feel awkward, suggest doing this question game, where you ask him a question, he answers and then he asks you one. Then it just continues on. It's a good way to find out things about eachother, like interests or just random facts.
    I hoped this helped. C:
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Rated R » Tue Jan 14, 2014 12:25 pm

that moment when you realize you haven't had a crush in forever,
and despite all the other girls in your grade who are constantly jumping from crush to crush, saying that they couldn't live without one,
you can.
and you feel just so awesome and in power of yourself and of your feelings.

ya, that's how i feel right now c:
woah guys, i'm back, after a very long time.
missed this place <3
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby ~IronRose~ » Tue Jan 14, 2014 1:16 pm

Could someone please pm me I need actual back and forth talk here, thanks
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby CinnaSwirl » Tue Jan 14, 2014 1:17 pm

hey my boyfriend who me and my bffe call him CLIGGY which is so correct :lol: :lol:
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Keletheryl » Tue Jan 14, 2014 2:44 pm

I was having a nightmare about him, so I went on his Facebook to see my nightmares weren't, obviously true.
But I had to double check.
And that was a terrible idea, because I see a tagged picture with him and some girl, captioned "my favourite lip-splitter"
I mean, I want to think I'm just jumping to conclusions but... What else could that title mean?

I knew exactly that this is what I was getting myself into. I was okay with it, I really was. As time progressed, I started to just pretend I was Okayama it's it, that himself eyeing other girls didn't bother me.
But seeing that? Seeing the actual proof? Makes me realize that I am completely not okay with it.
And now I am hoping that he will just slowly forget about me. I don't want to be a part of this anymore.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby blue.roses » Tue Jan 14, 2014 3:04 pm

Owlie13 wrote:What do you do when you find out that one of your friends like the same guy as you?


I don't see why you would feel obligated to tell her. That's not something she is entitled to know. If you're uncomfortable telling her, in fear of it making things awkward, then don't tell her. It's just a crush anyway, and neither of you are actually dating the guy, and he's no one's property. She shouldn't be mad, whether you tell her or she finds out on her own. If she is mad, that is shallow and childish and bad company. You should never let a boy come between a friendship. I recommend you keep it a secret until you know you're ready [and you trust your friend enough to] tell her the truth. I'll say it again, it's just a crush- neither of you should ever keep a possessive hold over him. Friendship is far more important.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby melonzz » Tue Jan 14, 2014 3:18 pm

horse . wrote:I've liked this one guy all yeah mel1108.

Theres something about him.
We are pretty much bestfriends.
I love him, he likes me.
We want to remain friends,
but I was maybe a relationship with him!

But he also likes my best friend...
aannndd he likes her more than me.
WHICH REALLY SUCKS :(


omggg i feel the same way..he (my ex) now likes my best friend..and he loves her more than he ever liked me TwT
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