Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[northern downpour ;;]

Can someone make three years go by? Right now?
Because this is driving me insane.

[Dia.]

ok so i have a small, simple crush on a guy.....but (there is always a but) he is that guy at my highschool that all my friends are scared of. Hes kinda gothish and likes to "sing" screamo down the hall plus, he is sooo tall ^-^ i really like tall guys cuz im a shorty. I want to talk to him but im afraid of what everyone will think. Im the girl at school thats "soo sweet and shy and never does anything bad". He looks so sweet and nice :3 what should i do?

Talk to him anyway and don't care what people think?
xD
If you like him, it won't hurt to get to know him. And if he really is nice, then maybe your friends will like him too.

[l'amour.]

Argh, my teacher's getting in the middle of my love life. She moved me from sitting next to my crush in reading and literacy... And I don't sit next to him in maths, science or anything else.

ahaha i feel you :3
although we do have track together even though he's a sprinter and i run endurance.
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anyway even if you are shy, maybe just smile or wave at him once in a while when you can work up the courage to? maybe pretend you see a friend of yours (or have it actually happen xD) pass behind him and smile at him while looking at her?
sorry if that didn't make sense

[Zeee]

shortie wasn't at school again today.

:c it's bumming me out. the only reason he's not at school is (i learned this from a friend who talks to him, and he said it himself) because he lives kinda far away from the school we go to and the buses aren't running because it's so cold out. stupid buses. but tomorrow it's gonna warm up a little so hopefully he'll be at school c:

also, there's a dance tonight... but i don't really want to go... i kinda do just in case he's there, and maybe ask him to dance, but... ehh :c last time the school had a dance, i went, but i hated it. i was just sitting there almost the whole time, especially during slow dances because nobody asked me to dance except one of my guy friends that felt bad for me. i mean, i could've just as easily asked someone, but i didn't because i'm a coward. it's also partially my fault because for most slow dances, i left the room to get a drink, so i wasn't just sitting there awkwardly. but i also don't even have anyone to go with. so if i find a friend, i'll go.

if i go, i'll update you guys on how it went after i get back ;3

but seriously, they school scheduled a dance on a thursday, and it goes until 11.
like, really... why not have it on a friday. schoooooool. be better.
//mini rant over

[horse .]

I fell in love with him because of...

His eyes!
His laugh!
His smile!
His voice!
His body!
His hair!
H I M !!!

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Rant over, -sigh- ... Why is he so... perfect...?
And i'm just, ugh, eww

[Devilish]

February is a busy month for my boyfriend and I, as my dorm building has a dance we put together every year (we like to refer to it as the yule ball), we have our one year anniversary AND Valentine's Day.

I have the dance figured out. I'm going to ask him with a pizza or cookies, because he loves food xD If I do a pizza, I will make it from scratch and place the pepperoni on the pizza so it will spell out "DANCE?" or something of the sort. If I use cookies, I will make 6 large cookies and decorate them with with a different letter on each and one with a question mark.

For Valentine's Day, I'm not quite sure what to get him. I might try to make him a cute, lovey-dovey craft because he likes it when I make him stuff, but I planned on making him something for our anniversary. Any other ideas?

But for our anniversary, I'm thinking about making him something like a scrap book. I've saved something from a majority of the dates we've gone on and the things we've done, I even kept have my ticket from the play we saw on our first date. I also have tickets from every movie we've seen together and receipts from things like special events, like the zoo or when he visited me during the summer while I was volunteering. Would making a scrap book be a good idea? Or would that be something we would do together, instead?

[thunderofthedrum]

I fell in love with him because of...

His eyes!
His laugh!
His smile!
His voice!
His body!
His hair!
H I M !!!

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Rant over, -sigh- ... Why is he so... perfect...?
And i'm just, ugh, eww

lol To be blunt - those are all physical attributes.
Don't you like aspects of his personality as well? I don't think I could think I was in love if I didn't even know the guy's personality, after all! We would love to hear more about him.

But for our anniversary, I'm thinking about making him something like a scrap book. I've saved something from a majority of the dates we've gone on and the things we've done, I even kept have my ticket from the play we saw on our first date. I also have tickets from every movie we've seen together and receipts from things like special events, like the zoo or when he visited me during the summer while I was volunteering. Would making a scrap book be a good idea? Or would that be something we would do together, instead?

Eh, I can't really imagine most guys would be up for sitting around staring at receipts and reminiscing like that, nor the activity of picking out papers and rhinestones and sticker letters and crazy scissors to put the book together. A scrap book is a cute idea, but as it's only one year anniversary I would go TOO overboard - like I wouldn't make a 30 page book for just one year (maybe 3-5 years, you know?). I like the idea of a scrapbook as something I would do once I'm living together and/or married, but that's just me.

To be honest, I didn't really do much for my boyfriend on our one year anniversary. Well, I gave him a handmade card with a short letter inside and a pretty origami butterfly. We were out of town for my friend's wedding (in which I was a bridesmaid) so we were staying in a hotel at the time. Understandably, he didn't keep track of the exact dates of how long we'd been together - when we first started seeing each other it was with the general intention of dating but we didn't know if it'd turn into anything serious yet, also he didn't technically ask me out on the first 'date' but meh, I count it. Or did he.. I don't remember. xD

Anyway, we're coming up on 2 years in a couple months and dude I have no idea. If things go well in my life I'll be out of state for a paid internship doing owl research or something when our next anniversary comes around, otherwise I'd look into a little night away somewhere.

[Saren]

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[Simplistic Beauty]

I do agree with the advice that's already been given, but I have a small bit of input. Perhaps you could talk to him about it? Ask him what he wants, and know what you want as well. If you want to stay as friends, then good for you! Same with vise-versa. I think that communication would really help in this situation. :3

I can't though unless it's weekends or my phone is charging. Otherwise it goes off at night at a certain time that's like early for me cause of my Facebook messenger. I lost my main long charger cause of that and I need a plain one again or it's too short. Like I have my computer but that goes off before my phone does. I honestly can't now because of school and my parents make me turn it off or my phone will buzz all night now. It's like ok fine but on weekends I can. It's my only way to be honest so that's why I complain about it. I could like make myself something in home ec and be like I will give it you somehow. We're five inches height difference and we're both skinny as heck anyways. It's either big or small on me unless the teacher says its going to be big so I go with normal size. Like common we could fit each others stuff. I want actual blue cowgirl boots cause I know my dad. He'll get them or I'll find cheaper myself. It's why i'm a city girl with country style and can go both ways. You aren't prepared my grandparents dog will bowl you over like your a bowling pin, no joke lol.

[Dia.]

But for our anniversary, I'm thinking about making him something like a scrap book. I've saved something from a majority of the dates we've gone on and the things we've done, I even kept have my ticket from the play we saw on our first date. I also have tickets from every movie we've seen together and receipts from things like special events, like the zoo or when he visited me during the summer while I was volunteering. Would making a scrap book be a good idea? Or would that be something we would do together, instead?

I have to agree with thunder. That doesn't sound like something a guy might enjoy doing.
We didn't do anything for our one year anniversary, although that is partially because it was three days after Christmas and we did Christmas gifts instead.
Although something handmade still sounds like a good idea, a scrapbook for just a year is a bit overboard. ^^ Just do something simpler and smaller?
Do you have an inside joke or anything special between the two of you to do? For his birthday, I painted him a picture with the seagulls from finding nemo, since he always hugs/squishes me and says "mine".

I fell in love with him because of...

His eyes!
His laugh!
His smile!
His voice!
His body!
His hair!
H I M !!!

________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Rant over, -sigh- ... Why is he so... perfect...?
And i'm just, ugh, eww :(

Do you love any of the personality/emotional things about him?
You don't love someone just because of physical characteristics.
Or else I've been in love COUNTLESS times and I didn't even know it.
But I'm pretty sure this is the first time I am.. and I love way more than just the way he looks, talks, and smells.