Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[~IronRose~]

Ok, I really need some advice here and this is kind of a long story so....
Here's a guide line for ya
G: My still current crush/ ex
B: G's best friend
A: A friend of G and B and also my friend

It all began at homecoming ( by the way G is the nicest guy) A invited me to go with some of her friends to Chiles before we went to the school, G was there, and actually it was his mom who picked the lot of us up. So when we got to chiles there was a huge line so we walked over to sonic, pretty far, and I was wearing like 3 and 1/2 inch heels, so my feet hurt. When we got to sonic everyone started suggesting going back to Chiles or to Five guys, and I said, " Hey my feet already hurt enough, and we haven't even got to the dance." G like the gentleman he is said, " Don't worry I'll carry you. That was the first nice act from him.
After we got to the Dance G kinda broke off from the group but we all met up later when it was about time to leave, and I ended up doing my dancing ( I'm a hip hop dancer) in front of him and he seemed surprised by it. When we went inside( the dance is out side) he basicly told A and B, "She can dance!" and we consolted about leaving. ( nice act 2)
We went outside to wait for parents and it started to rain and got really windy, and very cold. I began to shiver like really bad. He said, " I got this," And but his jacket on me ( nice act 3)
After homecoming I asked A about him and stuff telling her I had a crush on him and what ever, turns out he kinda liked me too. So B and A both tried hooking us up.
Later in October ( still not together) I offered for the four of us to go to the Haunted House at the mall, they all agreed and while in the haunted house, we held hands ( even though it was not that scary, I think he was more freaked out then I was) ( Nice act 4)
Still at the mall, and still holding hands, we went into the Disney store and he asked me, "Will you be my princess?" and I said yes. ( nice act 5) and then we held hands till we had to leave.
When I got home I texted him " So where does this put us?" and he responded , "I guess you could say we're in a relationship, I hope." I said yes, then he said, " Ok to make it official I will ask you at the game tomorrow." ( Nice act 6)
At the game, he wasn't able to hug me ( cause he's in ROTC and had to work) but he did declare me his to all my friends. ( Nice act 7)
So we started dating

Here is when it got bad
We dated for a week then he broke up with be because he had bad grades and needed to get them back up and he didn't want to not be able to give me attention. But now since it has been two week since we've broken up, I really miss him and I don't know how to talk to him.
That's what I need help with, I really want to get back together with him, or at least talk to him, and I just don't know how? Help!???!

Still in need of help

[autumnsoundtrack]

Ok, I really need some advice here and this is kind of a long story so....
Here's a guide line for ya
G: My still current crush/ ex
B: G's best friend
A: A friend of G and B and also my friend

It all began at homecoming ( by the way G is the nicest guy) A invited me to go with some of her friends to Chiles before we went to the school, G was there, and actually it was his mom who picked the lot of us up. So when we got to chiles there was a huge line so we walked over to sonic, pretty far, and I was wearing like 3 and 1/2 inch heels, so my feet hurt. When we got to sonic everyone started suggesting going back to Chiles or to Five guys, and I said, " Hey my feet already hurt enough, and we haven't even got to the dance." G like the gentleman he is said, " Don't worry I'll carry you. That was the first nice act from him.
After we got to the Dance G kinda broke off from the group but we all met up later when it was about time to leave, and I ended up doing my dancing ( I'm a hip hop dancer) in front of him and he seemed surprised by it. When we went inside( the dance is out side) he basicly told A and B, "She can dance!" and we consolted about leaving. ( nice act 2)
We went outside to wait for parents and it started to rain and got really windy, and very cold. I began to shiver like really bad. He said, " I got this," And but his jacket on me ( nice act 3)
After homecoming I asked A about him and stuff telling her I had a crush on him and what ever, turns out he kinda liked me too. So B and A both tried hooking us up.
Later in October ( still not together) I offered for the four of us to go to the Haunted House at the mall, they all agreed and while in the haunted house, we held hands ( even though it was not that scary, I think he was more freaked out then I was) ( Nice act 4)
Still at the mall, and still holding hands, we went into the Disney store and he asked me, "Will you be my princess?" and I said yes. ( nice act 5) and then we held hands till we had to leave.
When I got home I texted him " So where does this put us?" and he responded , "I guess you could say we're in a relationship, I hope." I said yes, then he said, " Ok to make it official I will ask you at the game tomorrow." ( Nice act 6)
At the game, he wasn't able to hug me ( cause he's in ROTC and had to work) but he did declare me his to all my friends. ( Nice act 7)
So we started dating

Here is when it got bad
We dated for a week then he broke up with be because he had bad grades and needed to get them back up and he didn't want to not be able to give me attention. But now since it has been two week since we've broken up, I really miss him and I don't know how to talk to him.
That's what I need help with, I really want to get back together with him, or at least talk to him, and I just don't know how? Help!???!

Still in need of help

I've never dated a guy in my lifetime so far, but I've been told I give pretty good relationship advice, so here's my two cents if you want it. c:

I think that it's normal for you to miss him, considering your boyfriend is supposed to be like a best friend, and that you two hung out often (I assume?). But to be completely honest, that is not a good enough reason to have broke up with you; I get how grades are extremely important for one's future, but there are ways to have worked around it. If you had stayed together, why not have tried having study sessions together, help him out at his house maybe; and if you both think you wont get anything done, then make it under parental supervision. Not only would that have made studying a bit more interesting, but you guys would have been able to spend time together. Sure it wont be anything romantic in a way, but in between studying you would at leave have some kind of chats.

Since I don't know much about G's parents and how they think, there's always the idea that they would think that you would distract him from his studies, which (at least from what I've heard in others' experience) seems to be a common thought. This is where the parental supervision would come in; it could be at your house under your parents' supervision, his house with his parents, or at a library where you're not necessarily supposed to be loud in the first place. And if you guys are taking different classes, then it wont hurt to help him make flash cards and run through them a few time, help him memorize some important facts for essays or tests.

I think that you should tell him how you feel - communication is key in any relationship, friend, boyfriend, etc. - and maybe if these ideas seem like they'll work, possibly make a proposal to him and see if he'll ask his parents about it. Even if he declines and says no, or his parents don't agree, don't give up hope! Wait until his grades get better, and maybe then you could rekindle that spark, or if either of you just don't feel up to the pressures of a relationship, then there's no reason to lose someone who was a good friend at least, no matter what relationship you had.

Well, that's just about all the input I can give you for now. c: I really hope that my advice seemed a bit helpful to your situation, and that in the end it all works out for you and G!

~Autumn

[~IronRose~]

Thank you so much Autumn that was some really good advice, I needed that extra boost to go and talk to him and I think you just gave it to me, thank you

[counting stars;]

I've never had a boyfriend in all my life and I haven't even asked out either. I was talking to my friend K about this and she said, "You're really pretty, I don't know why you've never had a boyfriend before." So she got me thinking and I started wondering if, maybe I'm doing something wrong like sending the wrong signal? *sigh*

[Roonil Wazlib]

I've never had a boyfriend in all my life and I haven't even asked out either. I was talking to my friend K about this and she said, "You're really pretty, I don't know why you've never had a boyfriend before." So she got me thinking and I started wondering if, maybe I'm doing something wrong like sending the wrong signal? *sigh*

Or maybe you've just never noticed guys that like you :3 Whenever a guy liked my friend (and it was really obvious) she would be totally oblivious to it. She's not stupid, she just didn't think that any guys could like her, which isn't true :3 No one told her, though because we just assumed we knew.

[Valute]

I'm not even sure about anything anymore =_=
Me and 2 of my friends like the same guy
One of them is my best friend so when she told me she liked him in decided that I wouldn't even try to get close to him which up until now has worked ... But now I can't get him out of my mind its like 24/7
It's been slowly getting worse so bad that I can't even concentrate in class sometimes
So lately more and more I've found my self avoiding him where possible
I've never had a boyfriend or anything before
I mean lots of guys have asked me but my answer has alway been no
My first crush even asked me out but due to similar circumstances i declined to avoid losing a friend
But that was when I was 11 things were easier then
And this feeling is stronger than the first time
But I don't want to hurt my friend
She's already asked him out and been rejected
I'm just really confused about what I should do

[Fallen Mage]

Hi so i Like this guy, lets call him S.
I've known him since the begin of school and sometimes I think he is intrested and others idk.
and when i basicly spilled to a girl i know (no names were mentioned) he got all embarassed and changed the topic.
Now I'm really confused. A little Help please

[HorseFan21♞]

omg omg omg omg omg i'm so embarrassed... o m g
ok, so today my bestie and i were walking around the school during our morning break like we do everyday, and as soon as we saw shortie and his friend coming around the corner she starts nagging me, going, "oh, who's coming around the corner?" and she starts nudging me. i was so embarrassed already but she just had to literally almost push me straight into him. it probably made everything really obvious ugh. i mean i don't care really that she did it, i'm not mad, i'm just so embarrassed ;__; mehh.

I feel you. XD

So uh. I kinda need some help on interpretation here.

Me and my crush are getting to be seriously good friends, we bop each other on the head, pass notes in class, yak our heads off on some random junk.. It's great. I know I call him my crush, and yeah I still have a crush on him, but I think it's too early for love right now ( well hey Im around 12-15) so Im content with us being semi-besties. <3

But lately I've been getting some vibes from him that are different from the usual " friend " vibes. o.o
He's started taking interest in my cheeks, and he's been chucking a lot of rather... Out-of-the-ordinary comments. Such as Im cute when I'm semi-mad, my cheeks feel like marshmallows ( EWW)..... It's freaking me out a little. O.o he also started going on about wanting to see if he can get to my house, and if my parents would mind......... Etc. etc. etcccc. XD

Someone help? XD I'm getting this feeling he's crushing back, but I have no idea if I'm right. My last crush was during 4th grade so I don't think Im exactly experienced. o.o

[Thalassic]

I've never had a boyfriend in all my life and I haven't even asked out either. I was talking to my friend K about this and she said, "You're really pretty, I don't know why you've never had a boyfriend before." So she got me thinking and I started wondering if, maybe I'm doing something wrong like sending the wrong signal? *sigh*

Well CS doesn't allow you to say your age, but if you are roughly as old as most people on here (as in, 16 and under), I don't think you even should have had a boyfriend yet. There's a lot of more important things to focus on, like studies.
I'm in my first year of university and all my life I've had just one boyfriend.

@HorseFan21♞
I don't think you should read too much into that. Wanting to come over to your place and calling you cute could just be his way of showing that he's not embarrassed of these things around you, but it does not necessarily mean that it's a crush. I think he's just being friendly with you.

[Fallen Mage]

omg omg omg omg omg i'm so embarrassed... o m g
ok, so today my bestie and i were walking around the school during our morning break like we do everyday, and as soon as we saw shortie and his friend coming around the corner she starts nagging me, going, "oh, who's coming around the corner?" and she starts nudging me. i was so embarrassed already but she just had to literally almost push me straight into him. it probably made everything really obvious ugh. i mean i don't care really that she did it, i'm not mad, i'm just so embarrassed ;__; mehh.

I feel you. XD

So uh. I kinda need some help on interpretation here.

Me and my crush are getting to be seriously good friends, we bop each other on the head, pass notes in class, yak our heads off on some random junk.. It's great. I know I call him my crush, and yeah I still have a crush on him, but I think it's too early for love right now ( well hey Im around 12-15) so Im content with us being semi-besties. <3

But lately I've been getting some vibes from him that are different from the usual " friend " vibes. o.o
He's started taking interest in my cheeks, and he's been chucking a lot of rather... Out-of-the-ordinary comments. Such as Im cute when I'm semi-mad, my cheeks feel like marshmallows ( EWW)..... It's freaking me out a little. O.o he also started going on about wanting to see if he can get to my house, and if my parents would mind......... Etc. etc. etcccc. XD

Someone help? XD I'm getting this feeling he's crushing back, but I have no idea if I'm right. My last crush was during 4th grade so I don't think Im exactly experienced. o.o

OMG this has happened to me to!!!! and in my experience don't act on it just see how things are going because on a whim i asked out my crush and he was like yeah but when i kissed him on the check the magic was gone. you know the feeling when your crush is around and ur all happy and stuff. Just follow the flow of thing he could just be teasing you.Besides personally I find teaing my crush extremely fun because idk how he feels but i still feel good to just hang out with him

And on my last note wwhy is he asking about ur house? Sorry but to me that is a little to early in ur crushship (crush+ relationship) to be asking where you live. you should find out his motives for asking.

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