Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Zero ❍]

Thanks!This is helpful!

[Zero ❍]

Okay..I have this issue with my crush and I would like some help.

[Zero ❍]

I can't get anyone to help me....I have a crush on this one guy and he looks over at me sometimes during class, the other day he tried to talk to me a lot and we had a long conversation. I think he might like me or he might just be his normal self because he is a social guy and he sometimes looks around the room while listening to music. We also sometimes chat during class....I need help please.

[ChezaLoba]

DarkShadowTale, first of all, if you're really interested, show it. Talk to him and get to know the guy! Friendship is the first step for a relationship to work. But be careful to not end up being 'just a friend', remember to be honest with him about your intentions.

[Zero ❍]

Yes. I have been talking to him everyday and we are pretty much on the same level and have a lot in common. I've gotten to a point where I'm not afraid to talk to him. He also doesn't really have strong friends he goes with, just a goup of people he hangs out with on occasion.

[thunderofthedrum]

DarkShadowTale, please make sure you are not posting twice in a row; that fills up the thread when you should have just edited your post.

From what you've described, it sounds impossible for any of us to magically guess at his feelings. I would suggest - just keep talking to him, get to know him. If you like him, maybe find a way to show it, or perhaps he might do the same if he likes you. It simply sounds too early and too vague for any of us to tell.

[.Coyote]

Hmm, crushes... I can only ever remember having one. And that crush has lasted eight years. It is to this guy who had some of the same classes as me all through Highschool. I was pretty obsessed with him, but I never did anything about it. I would always be super excited about seeing him, and would try to sit closer to him without him noticing. It was all pretty silly, but oh well.

For a while after high school I didn't think about him very much (to my relief), but every once in a while he would text me and it would start all over again. He has moved into the same neighborhood as I am in, so I see him somewhat frequently now. And I can't stop thinking about him. Today I almost crashed into the back of another vehicle because I didn't realize it was slowing down because I was thinking about him again. I get a text and I go a little crazy. We meet up sometimes and my anxiety causes me to literally hurt in anticipation. My chest will get all tight, and my limbs will shake so bad. I get all weak feeling sometimes too. This cannot be good for my health...

But I just can't stop. I wish I could just stop talking to him all together, but the idea makes me so unbelievably sad. I know we will never be together, but I just can't let it go. He has given no reason for me to feel like this. He is pretty flirtatious, but he is like that with every girl. I think there have been a few times where he has said something that he was hoping I would take to mean we could only ever be friends. For this reason I am pretty sure he knows I like him and is trying his best to make it clear that things can't change while also not tryin to hurt my feelings. We might be going out this friday (not a date!!) and I am just flipping out over it. He wanta to spend time with me!! But someone else is coming too, and he is already dating someone. He is always dating someone...

Ugh!!! I am so pathetic! I just wish I could stop! Remove him completely from my life!

[Zero ❍]

Oh I am soo sorry. XD I posted and then I felt an erge to post again and then I went to look something up real quick. I'm sorry. It won't happen again...

[Gwenfoxe]

I have a crush at my school. He's got slightly long hair and he's really nice.
He's friends with my cousin, so whenever he sees me he says hi. It's frustrating, though, because I never know what to say. I have random dreams in which it's normal (Or at least as normal as a dream can be) and then he appears, and I can't stop thinking about him. Whenever I see him I can't help but smile, and I bring money in for school stuff when they sell it because there's a 50% chance he's going to be there, helping to sell the stuff. He always smiles at me, though he had no clue I have a crush on him and he's just being nice. I'm worried he'll think I'm a stalker or something because I always find myself looking at him, whether or not I'm aware of it. I have no clue what to do about it. I could never tell him outright that I like him- that would just be awkward and I'm too shy. Any ideas of what I can do to get him to talk with me, or something?
Thanks.

[Zeee]

omg omg omg omg omg i'm so embarrassed... o m g
ok, so today my bestie and i were walking around the school during our morning break like we do everyday, and as soon as we saw shortie and his friend coming around the corner she starts nagging me, going, "oh, who's coming around the corner?" and she starts nudging me. i was so embarrassed already but she just had to literally almost push me straight into him. it probably made everything really obvious ugh. i mean i don't care really that she did it, i'm not mad, i'm just so embarrassed ;__; mehh.