Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Roonil Wazlib]

I've tried posting on here before, but I was ignored. So I'll start again.
Okay, love problems are arriving.

My name is Ianubisgurl, you can call me Anubis or Anu. I've had a crush on someone in my class for quite a while now, but there are many rumours he likes my enemy, which is possible. I don't ask him since he always says he doesn't, but there's always a chance he's lying. My enemy likes him, so that makes it even more hard to ask him because she's normally around him. He's really nice to me and we're pretty good friends.

Is there any signs to look out for to find out if he likes me or my enemy?

I can't really help you with your problem (I don't have much experience), but I'm just posting to let you know that I read your post and so you don't feel ignored :3

[spade.]

Ello :3

I noticed lately that a majority of you people on Chicken Smoothie are girls. So theirs this new girl in my school and she's literally perfect c:

Any suggestions? I don't even think she notices me..

[t e m p e s t]

Hey everyone. I decided I would post here because my friends get annoyed when I talk to them about relationships SO, here I go.

Okay, the story starts last year in 7th grade when my friend introduced me to her good friend, and also the guy she liked. I sat next to him in class at the time and I liked him also, but I kept it a secret because my friend liked him. Well, when she told me she stopped likening him, I felt it was okay to tell her. So a few weeks later, I did. She was fine with it, so I continued liking him. Our relationship grew and we always sat together and talked and everything. Well I started dating this other guy because I wasn't getting anywhere with him. He was obviously jealous, but still when we split up, he didn't go for me any more than he already was. So I decides to go for him again.

So enough about me, I'll tell you about him. So he's really shy and he knows it, but he really fun. I always catching him looking at me from the side, but when I look back and smile, he looks away. I flirt with him, and he just kind of changes the subject. But other times, he does smile back and sometimes he is playful.

Now the things we have in common. It's surprisingly a lot. So we're both in the same situation with our parents, and even have the same schedules with each if them. We like pretty much the same things, including music and stuff. I think the only difference between us is that I'm more confident.

So I'm really confused about him. I know he probably needs time, but I really like him, and I don't know what to do!

[WalkTheMoon]

Ello :3

I noticed lately that a majority of you people on Chicken Smoothie are girls. So theirs this new girl in my school and she's literally perfect c:

Any suggestions? I don't even think she notices me..

Definitely just try and establish a friendship with her first before hitting on her. She's probably feeling alone and is looking for new friends, so be friendly to her first and get to know her... and see where that takes you Just ask her a question about homework, tests or anything and I'm sure she'd be happy to talk to you. Good luck!

[spade.]

Thanks! She's on my bus and she sat across from her and we talked for a while, we generally like the same things like music and all that.

I'm just trying to find general topics to talk to her about but I'm starting to run low on ideas.

[WalkTheMoon]

I've tried posting on here before, but I was ignored. So I'll start again.
Okay, love problems are arriving.

My name is Ianubisgurl, you can call me Anubis or Anu. I've had a crush on someone in my class for quite a while now, but there are many rumours he likes my enemy, which is possible. I don't ask him since he always says he doesn't, but there's always a chance he's lying. My enemy likes him, so that makes it even more hard to ask him because she's normally around him. He's really nice to me and we're pretty good friends.

Is there any signs to look out for to find out if he likes me or my enemy?

I'm not sure if there are any specific signs.... guys are unpredictable. Just try not to get to jealous of her, because you never know who he really likes. And he could be turned off by your rivalry. Also, don't ask him about who he likes- guys don't like getting personal.

I'd say to continue being friends with him and if it turns into something more, awesome. If it doesn't, you're still friends with him:)

[WalkTheMoon]

Thanks! She's on my bus and she sat across from her and we talked for a while, we generally like the same things like music and all that.

I'm just trying to find general topics to talk to her about but I'm starting to run low on ideas.

Aw yay! Music is a great thing to talk about... there's so many other things... movies, TV shows, books, sports, homework, classes, traveling, etc...

[spade.]

Hey everyone. I decided I would post here because my friends get annoyed when I talk to them about relationships SO, here I go.

Okay, the story starts last year in 7th grade when my friend introduced me to her good friend, and also the guy she liked. I sat next to him in class at the time and I liked him also, but I kept it a secret because my friend liked him. Well, when she told me she stopped likening him, I felt it was okay to tell her. So a few weeks later, I did. She was fine with it, so I continued liking him. Our relationship grew and we always sat together and talked and everything. Well I started dating this other guy because I wasn't getting anywhere with him. He was obviously jealous, but still when we split up, he didn't go for me any more than he already was. So I decides to go for him again.

So enough about me, I'll tell you about him. So he's really shy and he knows it, but he really fun. I always catching him looking at me from the side, but when I look back and smile, he looks away. I flirt with him, and he just kind of changes the subject. But other times, he does smile back and sometimes he is playful.

Now the things we have in common. It's surprisingly a lot. So we're both in the same situation with our parents, and even have the same schedules with each if them. We like pretty much the same things, including music and stuff. I think the only difference between us is that I'm more confident.

So I'm really confused about him. I really like him, and I don't know what to do!

Well from the way you described it, it sounds like he likes you but is also confused. When I was younger I used to b really shy and sort of act like that.

Just keep trying to talk with him and build a relationship until your like, practically dating and then he'll probably ask you out. At least he probably will, that's what I would do if I had a good relationship with my crush xD

Good luck with him, it sounds like it will work out! He seems to like you.

Thanks! She's on my bus and she sat across from her and we talked for a while, we generally like the same things like music and all that.

I'm just trying to find general topics to talk to her about but I'm starting to run low on ideas.

Aw yay! Music is a great thing to talk about... there's so many other things... movies, TV shows, books, sports, homework, classes, traveling, etc...

Oh and yeah! I've talked about TV and music but not movies because I'm scared to be bored with romantic comedies. She doesn't seem like much of a reader but I can ask!

[~IronRose~]

Ok, I really need some advice here and this is kind of a long story so....
Here's a guide line for ya
G: My still current crush/ ex
B: G's best friend
A: A friend of G and B and also my friend

It all began at homecoming ( by the way G is the nicest guy) A invited me to go with some of her friends to Chiles before we went to the school, G was there, and actually it was his mom who picked the lot of us up. So when we got to chiles there was a huge line so we walked over to sonic, pretty far, and I was wearing like 3 and 1/2 inch heels, so my feet hurt. When we got to sonic everyone started suggesting going back to Chiles or to Five guys, and I said, " Hey my feet already hurt enough, and we haven't even got to the dance." G like the gentleman he is said, " Don't worry I'll carry you. That was the first nice act from him.
After we got to the Dance G kinda broke off from the group but we all met up later when it was about time to leave, and I ended up doing my dancing ( I'm a hip hop dancer) in front of him and he seemed surprised by it. When we went inside( the dance is out side) he basicly told A and B, "She can dance!" and we consolted about leaving. ( nice act 2)
We went outside to wait for parents and it started to rain and got really windy, and very cold. I began to shiver like really bad. He said, " I got this," And but his jacket on me ( nice act 3)
After homecoming I asked A about him and stuff telling her I had a crush on him and what ever, turns out he kinda liked me too. So B and A both tried hooking us up.
Later in October ( still not together) I offered for the four of us to go to the Haunted House at the mall, they all agreed and while in the haunted house, we held hands ( even though it was not that scary, I think he was more freaked out then I was) ( Nice act 4)
Still at the mall, and still holding hands, we went into the Disney store and he asked me, "Will you be my princess?" and I said yes. ( nice act 5) and then we held hands till we had to leave.
When I got home I texted him " So where does this put us?" and he responded , "I guess you could say we're in a relationship, I hope." I said yes, then he said, " Ok to make it official I will ask you at the game tomorrow." ( Nice act 6)
At the game, he wasn't able to hug me ( cause he's in ROTC and had to work) but he did declare me his to all my friends. ( Nice act 7)
So we started dating

Here is when it got bad
We dated for a week then he broke up with be because he had bad grades and needed to get them back up and he didn't want to not be able to give me attention. But now since it has been two week since we've broken up, I really miss him and I don't know how to talk to him.
That's what I need help with, I really want to get back together with him, or at least talk to him, and I just don't know how? Help!???!

[t e m p e s t]

Thanks. Today I was sitting next to him at lunch and he scooted over enough so that our arms were touching. I almost melted but then my other friend came (who likes him again and has since I started dating that other guy, but I didn't know until after I admitted I liked him again) and was like "Awww!" And made it awkward and he went back to his normal position. I wanted to die. But it was nice to have the melty butterfly feeling.