my mom's bf's daughter is competitive with me about looks
like, she doesn't say anything but i can tell that she is trying to be prettier than me or something?
....
it makes me highly uncomfortable, especially since i think shes really pretty and doesn't need to try and be like me
i just don't know what to do. unu;
and then theres the fact that i'm supposed to let her ride my horse (that i lease), and she has no idea how to ride.
yesterday i finally got to see my horse (daisy) after being sick and in town for days, and i brought her (mom's bf's daughter) with me to meet daisy for the first time and ride with me. she claimed to totally know how to ride and stuff, but what do i find? she is flopping around and almost falling off left and right; horrible form and all.
what do i do? give her a couple of light, friendly, helpful tips ('remember your legs cues!:)', 'keep yer heels down, and hold on with your thighs instead of your calves.(:' - we were riding with a bareback pad-). what does she do? nod/smile, and ignore me. i can't just let her ruin my horse (that i have worked VERY HARD to train correctly) with her skill-less riding. :\