So, apparently these things are my flaws (or so I've been told just now):
I'm way too compassionat and forgiving, I am too polite and care too much, I try to please everyone and basically turn myself into everyone servant... the list goes on and on with such things.
I admit, sometimes I'm way too nice and empathic and I often think of other peoples needs as more important as mine. Yet... a flaw? And has it ever occured to you that I might like pleasing others? Yes, I hate it if people take advantage of me because I offer a lot of help and assistance sometimes, but hell, seeing people happy makes up for that. And since when are manners a flaw? So, just because I hold the doors open for others, let older people and pregnant women take my seat in trains and stuff and because I apologize fairly often I am... bad? Logic? Where exactly is yours?
And I'm not dominant enough? I never wanted to be dominant, or a leader if we are already on that topic. I enjoy following others, since I despise making decisions most of the time. I'd rather just give advice then having to actually choose what to do, some decisions could change other peoples lifes completly.
Why don't you focus on my real flaws? I'm easily angered, hold grudges, am impatient, I swear 24 hours a day, I harbour pain and hatred inside of me and destroy myself and others with my random hateful outbursts... There's a lot more bad sides to me, I'm mature enough to admit that, but please don't ruin my few qualities I think of as good for me. I... beg you.