|TheComfortCorner| v.2

[ojoku]

Been awhile since I was on here, on this thread, but I'm starting to get desperate for some help at this point. It'd be much appreciated if anyone could offer me help.

I'm... socially awkward. No, not awkward. I can hold a conversation. Anxious maybe. I'm scared if I'm in a room with no one I know, so I don't make many friends. That means I really care about the friends I do have. On the internet and in real life, I worry about them so much and I don't know why. I don't even care about my family like that. My grandmother's dying and since I didn't know her, my sick mind tells me not to care and I don't. But with friends... even trying to reassure myself they're okay doesn't work. Is something seriously wrong?
A girl in my P.E. class has been acting out a lot lately. It's just not like her. She gets in trouble, annoys the others and gets in cat fights with her friends. We're not super close but we are friends. I want to ask her if she's alright, if something's going on, but I feel like it's not normal to worry about people like I do. I get scared when I don't hear from internet friends in a long time. They have lives besides the computer, but I still am concerned for them.
Which brings up another thing stressing me. My friend has missed every day this week save Wednesday, but I'm worried something's not right. We message and when I ask if she'll be okay, she kind of fades off. I don't know if she's just PMSing (sorry if this insults anyone, but it might have this effect on her) or if something's wrong. Neither of us like school too much and I'm worried she might be having troubles or something. She's one of my best friends and I trust her to be open with me. Again, I'm wondering... is it normal to worry so much?

[~IronRose~]

If this has been going on for a long time, I would tell someone about it cause it may develop into a problem, but don't let that worry you. Maybe you could try to have a class of water and read a part of your favorite book. Reading has been told to help people fall asleep quicker so reading before bed each night may help and it could be anything from blogs to magazines. Don't give up hope, sleep is calling your name

Honestly, the last time I read a book was when the hunger games (first book) came out in my language. Ever since then reading an entire book has just seemed to be too time consuming and even a waste of time. So now I just feel like there is not much point in starting a book if I can't put in the effort to finish it. And anything related to the computer makes me completely lose track of time.

I can't say it's been going on for a while, because it doesn't happen regularly. It used to happen maybe like once every other month, until that one time last summer when it lasted for almost a week. Hasn't happened since, but I can feel it's becoming harder and harder to fall asleep again.

There are people who write stories on chickensmoothie, maybe you could find something in there. I would really try that, it may help even if you don't think I will.

[~IronRose~]

life simply isnt worth it

Life is ALWAYS worth it. Even if you don't think so, I used to think that then I look at all the good things that have happened to me, all the good and funny memories that I have. I don't live on because I don't know what will happen I live on because I want to know what will happen.
Life is always hard, I get it, but you're not alone. Don't you ever, ever give up, because you know why? Because there is someone out there waiting for you, there are people who look up to you, there are people that will look up to you. You can make your life great because you matter. Don't ever say that life isn't worth it because everything in life is. the memories, the love, the friendship, the victory, the lessons, the stories, the gifts, the little talks, the comedy ( even if it's not really funny), the discovery, the curiosity, the color, the animals, the sights, the experiences, the family, that person who makes your day, that one word that makes you laugh, those socks that you always love, the shoes you always wear, the books you always read, your childhood, playing outside in the sun, the snowballs you threw at your friends just to make them mad, when you write a song, when you write a letter to your crush and hide it in the black hole you call your backpack, the walks on the sidewalk, the long drives where you just stare out the window, the showers, the time you tripped down the stairs and now you only laugh about it, the first time you went to the zoo, when you feel so tired you have to get carried out of the car, swings, everything, every little thing is all worth it.

Thank you sooo much!

I'm glad to help, and if you ever need someone to talk to you can always pm me

[~IronRose~]

Been awhile since I was on here, on this thread, but I'm starting to get desperate for some help at this point. It'd be much appreciated if anyone could offer me help.
I'm... socially awkward. No, not awkward. I can hold a conversation. Anxious maybe. I'm scared if I'm in a room with no one I know, so I don't make many friends. That means I really care about the friends I do have. On the internet and in real life, I worry about them so much and I don't know why. I don't even care about my family like that. My grandmother's dying and since I didn't know her, my sick mind tells me not to care and I don't. But with friends... even trying to reassure myself they're okay doesn't work. Is something seriously wrong?
A girl in my P.E. class has been acting out a lot lately. It's just not like her. She gets in trouble, annoys the others and gets in cat fights with her friends. We're not super close but we are friends. I want to ask her if she's alright, if something's going on, but I feel like it's not normal to worry about people like I do. I get scared when I don't hear from internet friends in a long time. They have lives besides the computer, but I still am concerned for them.
Which brings up another thing stressing me. My friend has missed every day this week save Wednesday, but I'm worried something's not right. We message and when I ask if she'll be okay, she kind of fades off. I don't know if she's just PMSing (sorry if this insults anyone, but it might have this effect on her) or if something's wrong. Neither of us like school too much and I'm worried she might be having troubles or something. She's one of my best friends and I trust her to be open with me. Again, I'm wondering... is it normal to worry so much?

It's always normal to be concerned for your friends but you have to confront them about things like this and it is always good to have a strong form of contact with them ( I learned that the hard way). So the most I can tell you is to just talk to them and in person( it's easier to read off them that way). I hope you get everything worked out, and trust me things should blow over but if there are any more problems you can pm me and I'll try to help.

[J-Hope]

Been awhile since I was on here, on this thread, but I'm starting to get desperate for some help at this point. It'd be much appreciated if anyone could offer me help.

I'm... socially awkward. No, not awkward. I can hold a conversation. Anxious maybe. I'm scared if I'm in a room with no one I know, so I don't make many friends. That means I really care about the friends I do have. On the internet and in real life, I worry about them so much and I don't know why. I don't even care about my family like that. My grandmother's dying and since I didn't know her, my sick mind tells me not to care and I don't. But with friends... even trying to reassure myself they're okay doesn't work. Is something seriously wrong?
A girl in my P.E. class has been acting out a lot lately. It's just not like her. She gets in trouble, annoys the others and gets in cat fights with her friends. We're not super close but we are friends. I want to ask her if she's alright, if something's going on, but I feel like it's not normal to worry about people like I do. I get scared when I don't hear from internet friends in a long time. They have lives besides the computer, but I still am concerned for them.
Which brings up another thing stressing me. My friend has missed every day this week save Wednesday, but I'm worried something's not right. We message and when I ask if she'll be okay, she kind of fades off. I don't know if she's just PMSing (sorry if this insults anyone, but it might have this effect on her) or if something's wrong. Neither of us like school too much and I'm worried she might be having troubles or something. She's one of my best friends and I trust her to be open with me. Again, I'm wondering... is it normal to worry so much?

Ask her. I know its a lot to do, and its easier to say than to do.
But when this person I barely knew in school hugged me and said hi to me, I felt greatly inspired and loved, and I barely knew her.
Little things make a difference, and I bet if you ask, she'll be happy.
And if you did ask
You did a really great thing in your life <3

[ojoku]

Thanks ~DebatingDolphin~, Kakerasu. I'll take you're advice and try to ask them about it when we get back to school on Monday, if they bother to show up. Your answers greatly reassure me <3 Thanks everyone.

[northern downpour ;;]

I feel like everyone is pressuring me to be religious. I've tried to become religious, but science makes so much more sense to me... And I feel like I'll never be fully loved by my friends because I'm not religious. ;n;

[runnershigh]

i'm so confused.
what's happening.
what happened.
my daddy kicked me today.
I don't understand.
all that I've ever done is love him. I tell him that I love him, give him hugs and kisses before bed and in the morning, I make him things, I bake him cookies and go everywhere with him.
sometimes it feels like i'm a dog, and daddy's my master. a dog will love it's master no matter what the master does to the dog.
but what makes it worse, is that he kicked me when I was bringing him some cookies that i'd baked especially for him, and a little story that i'd written and wanted him to read.
he called me fat and lazy and pathetic and useless.
he's never done this before.
whats gone wrong.
i'm so scared.
was he just having a bad day, or does he really hate me?
I want my daddy back ;^;
can I please have a hug? i'm so close to tears...
thank you if you read that all <3

[J-Hope]

i'm so confused.
what's happening.
what happened.
my daddy kicked me today.
I don't understand.
all that I've ever done is love him. I tell him that I love him, give him hugs and kisses before bed and in the morning, I make him things, I bake him cookies and go everywhere with him.
sometimes it feels like i'm a dog, and daddy's my master. a dog will love it's master no matter what the master does to the dog.
but what makes it worse, is that he kicked me when I was bringing him some cookies that i'd baked especially for him, and a little story that i'd written and wanted him to read.
he called me fat and lazy and pathetic and useless.
he's never done this before.
whats gone wrong.
i'm so scared.
was he just having a bad day, or does he really hate me?
I want my daddy back ;^;
can I please have a hug? i'm so close to tears...
thank you if you read that all <3

*Gives hug*
Your amazing you know?
Dont forget that

[peapcd]

» I feel like I'm not wanted anymore.

My parents are always yelling, at eachother, me, my brother. I'm blamed for everything in my house. My brother does know how to leave bruises and cuts, things he has done a lot to me recently. I've been ridiculed by him lately, more than usual. The things he calls me makes me hate myself and feel small. I have become anorexic at one point because he calls me obeese (I am apparently severely underweight according to my doctor). I can't look in a mirror without seeing all my flaws, or enter a room without being afraid. At school everyone I ever confided in is turning against me. I'm now a even bigger outcast. I'm being severely bullied again. Physically and Emotionally. Nobody is there for me, my great aunt has told me openly she hates me and wishes death upon me. I can go on longer but I honestly dont think I should.