|TheComfortCorner| v.2

[connoisseur]

My parents act like I can not care for myself. Now I know that I can not tell my age on CS, but I will say, I am pretty well able to care for myself. I have been taking care of myself for a while now, specially over the lat year and a half even though I live with my mother. I know how to cook a decent meal; therefore I can feed myself. I know to keep the doors locked and how to call 9-1-1. I know to entertain myself. I'm not a party child. I don't do drugs. I don't drink. I'm a social outcast. So no worry there mother and father. So what I don't get is why someone my age must run to fathers house every time my mother is going to be out for the night?! Do they not see me capable? I know this seems like a rant, but it is really upsetting that my parents can't see me as old enough to care for myself. I mean you want me to act like the adult of the house and clean everything for you and do everything for you, but when it comes to staying by myself suddenly I am like a toddler who needs someone to watch over her 24/7!! I mean really what is up with that?! It makes me feel like they only see me as a young adult when it suits them. Then any time when it would suit me, I am a toddler.

Oh, they are just being typical parent. They LOVE you and wish to protect you, they do realize your grown but they fear for your welfare now that your older people can now be more likely to target you as a victim. As annoying as they seem they are not trying to pressure you but keep you from the dangers of they world & like my parents they really don't want to see you go. They don't want to purposely anger and smuggle you they're just being loving parents.

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My parents act like I can not care for myself. Now I know that I can not tell my age on CS, but I will say, I am pretty well able to care for myself. I have been taking care of myself for a while now, specially over the lat year and a half even though I live with my mother. I know how to cook a decent meal; therefore I can feed myself. I know to keep the doors locked and how to call 9-1-1. I know to entertain myself. I'm not a party child. I don't do drugs. I don't drink. I'm a social outcast. So no worry there mother and father. So what I don't get is why someone my age must run to fathers house every time my mother is going to be out for the night?! Do they not see me capable? I know this seems like a rant, but it is really upsetting that my parents can't see me as old enough to care for myself. I mean you want me to act like the adult of the house and clean everything for you and do everything for you, but when it comes to staying by myself suddenly I am like a toddler who needs someone to watch over her 24/7!! I mean really what is up with that?! It makes me feel like they only see me as a young adult when it suits them. Then any time when it would suit me, I am a toddler.

Have you talked to them about it? You seem mature enough to stay on your own, but some parents worry lots about their children.

I've told them many times that I know how to care for myself. My dad didn't even want to me to go home earlier because he wasn't sure if moma would be home tonight. When he asked about the 5th time I just looked up at him and said "I /can/ take care of myself." He just gave me a questioning look and walked away.

[ShadowHunteress]

My parents act like I can not care for myself. Now I know that I can not tell my age on CS, but I will say, I am pretty well able to care for myself. I have been taking care of myself for a while now, specially over the lat year and a half even though I live with my mother. I know how to cook a decent meal; therefore I can feed myself. I know to keep the doors locked and how to call 9-1-1. I know to entertain myself. I'm not a party child. I don't do drugs. I don't drink. I'm a social outcast. So no worry there mother and father. So what I don't get is why someone my age must run to fathers house every time my mother is going to be out for the night?! Do they not see me capable? I know this seems like a rant, but it is really upsetting that my parents can't see me as old enough to care for myself. I mean you want me to act like the adult of the house and clean everything for you and do everything for you, but when it comes to staying by myself suddenly I am like a toddler who needs someone to watch over her 24/7!! I mean really what is up with that?! It makes me feel like they only see me as a young adult when it suits them. Then any time when it would suit me, I am a toddler.

Have you talked to them about it? You seem mature enough to stay on your own, but some parents worry lots about their children.

I've told them many times that I know how to care for myself. My dad didn't even want to me to go home earlier because he wasn't sure if moma would be home tonight. When he asked about the 5th time I just looked up at him and said "I /can/ take care of myself." He just gave me a questioning look and walked away.

Maybe you can ask them if you can hve one night to show them you will be fine?

[bud]

If I should stay I would only be in your way So I'll go but I know I'll think of you every step of the way

And I... will always love you, ooh I will always love you You My darling you Mmm-mm

Bittersweet memories That is all I'm taking with me So good-bye Please don't cry We both know I'm not what you, you need

And I... Will always love you I... Will always love you You, oooh

I hope life treats you kind And I hope you have all you've dreamed of And I wish you joy and happiness But above all this I wish you love

And I... Will always love you I... Will always love you [Repeat]

I, I will always love You.... You Darling I love you I'll always I'll always Love You.. Oooh Ooohh

Song that describes my emotions at this moments in time.

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Have you talked to them about it? You seem mature enough to stay on your own, but some parents worry lots about their children.

I've told them many times that I know how to care for myself. My dad didn't even want to me to go home earlier because he wasn't sure if moma would be home tonight. When he asked about the 5th time I just looked up at him and said "I /can/ take care of myself." He just gave me a questioning look and walked away.

Maybe you can ask them if you can hve one night to show them you will be fine?

I think my mom knows I can care for myself. She did let me stay home one night by myself. But we both know, if my father knew about that, he'd go ballistic, so she is back to just telling me to go over there. And my dad may see that I can tonight. I don't know for sure if i will be home alone tonight or not, but my dad knows I might be. So, he'll be checking on me all afternoon and night.

[My Immortal]

Not again.
The same scene playing my head.
No one understands.

[connoisseur]

what scene is playing it's self out in your head? is it something from your childhood?

[nyacinth]

I dont know what is happening around here!
A few days ago, I posted that my sisters cat George and my cat Elmo had died. Today, Holly, our pregnant cat, was showing signs of just lying there like both Elmo and George, although this was more early on this time. We thought it could be she was going into labor, but we watched her a lot. The only difference this time with her going into labor was that she wouldn't close her eyes. They were half shut (which was different to George and Elmo) At around 6pm it was just me in the room, and she was curled up on the bed. I felt her stomach for the kittens... but I couldn't feel any kicking. That was when I feared the worst. If it was poison, it would've very quickly killed the kittens before it killed the mother. And that was what happened.
I accidentally fell asleep shortly after 7, and woke up about 20 minutes ago, at 12:50am. The first thing I did was check on Holly, who I had put in our built in wardrobe it rest in. I couldn't see her chest heaving from a distance so I got closer... she was dead. She must've died when I was asleep, and my mum was asleep downstairs, so we dont know how she died. But we both think its the reason that George and Elmo died but we dont have proof off other than pictures - cement water. Its very hot around here at the moment, so the cats get thirsty more often. The workers who are building a house down the street dont put their stuff away afterwards - including a wheelbarrow of cement water. The cats dont know what it is, and that it would kill them, so they take a drink.
We would have blood tests taken to prove its the workers, but they want £400 altogether, £200 up front :c

So yeah, I just felt like posting that, because telling people lifts the weight off my heart a little..

[Madison143]

I dont know what is happening around here!
A few days ago, I posted that my sisters cat George and my cat Elmo had died. Today, Holly, our pregnant cat, was showing signs of just lying there like both Elmo and George, although this was more early on this time. We thought it could be she was going into labor, but we watched her a lot. The only difference this time with her going into labor was that she wouldn't close her eyes. They were half shut (which was different to George and Elmo) At around 6pm it was just me in the room, and she was curled up on the bed. I felt her stomach for the kittens... but I couldn't feel any kicking. That was when I feared the worst. If it was poison, it would've very quickly killed the kittens before it killed the mother. And that was what happened.
I accidentally fell asleep shortly after 7, and woke up about 20 minutes ago, at 12:50am. The first thing I did was check on Holly, who I had put in our built in wardrobe it rest in. I couldn't see her chest heaving from a distance so I got closer... she was dead. She must've died when I was asleep, and my mum was asleep downstairs, so we dont know how she died. But we both think its the reason that George and Elmo died but we dont have proof off other than pictures - cement water. Its very hot around here at the moment, so the cats get thirsty more often. The workers who are building a house down the street dont put their stuff away afterwards - including a wheelbarrow of cement water. The cats dont know what it is, and that it would kill them, so they take a drink.
We would have blood tests taken to prove its the workers, but they want £400 altogether, £200 up front :c

So yeah, I just felt like posting that, because telling people lifts the weight off my heart a little..

*Huggles*
I am so sorry that that happened to your cats. I wish the workers could have been more careful and less thoughtless.

[nyacinth]

Holly and Elmo were our oldest cats too, yet only 1 and a half :c they were born on christmas day too so they were even more special </3