Kirzaka wrote:I'm afraid of going to this new school. I basically have 0 friends, because 1 of my friends moved away, then the other friend just stopped coming over, and she also stopped calling me. I don't know how to make friends, that's why I'm so scared of going to this new school. And I'm very shy. I wont talk to anyone i don't know. I'm also very sensitive, so that makes me a target for bullies. I don't want to be beat up. D:
Trixilicious wrote:Looks like I'm not the only person here looking for comfort about the topic of going to a new school. I'm extremely nervous to go to the new school I'm attending because I'm scared I won't be able to find anyone with common interests to be friends with. I know lots of people going to the same school but most of them aren't my real friends and I rarely even speak with them. Just like Kirzaka I don't want to get beat up either. Some comfort through pm would be nice.
*Hugs*
The start of school years are always stressed. You don't need to be worry about not making friends. Even if you are shy, there will be atleast one person you can find with similar intrests. You are bound to atleast make one friend, and who knows, what if there is a lot of people who have the same likes and wants to be friends. You also shouldn't really worry about being bullied. If you fear them, you will just make yourself an easier target. You should feel safe in your school, and if you don't tell a teacher if a kid is being a bully.
The start of school years are always stressed. You don't need to be worry about not making friends. Even if you are shy, there will be atleast one person you can find with similar intrests. You are bound to atleast make one friend, and who knows, what if there is a lot of people who have the same likes and wants to be friends. You also shouldn't really worry about being bullied. If you fear them, you will just make yourself an easier target. You should feel safe in your school, and if you don't tell a teacher if a kid is being a bully.
Wild.One wrote:The qualifying meet is on this Thursday. I'm so nurvus. I have to make it to states. I just have to. If I don't, it'll be really embarrassing because my little sister has an amazing chance of going. I have placed 4th in only one event other than a relay. I have gotten 4th in pole vault every meet but one. And that was cause the pole hit the bar on my first hight but I made it on my second chance and the person who got 4th got the same hight as me. I am just so nurvus though! The only other way for me to make it to states is a relay but I'm currently not in one. I'm a back up. Sorry if nobody on here understands track. Gah.
I am a track and field member so I know exactly how you feel. Although I don't do relays or pole vault. Either way, I am sure you will make it to states. Have confidence in yourself. And practicing as much as you can will help. Even if it's just the motions of pole vault you practice. I practice the motions to discus, and high jump all the time. I wish you luck in your meet!
Snail with a top hat wrote:I hate myself for being so shy - I just can't talk to people.
Everyone makes it look so easy but for me it's the most awkward thing, ever. I guess that's what I get for being home schooled. :L
/sigh. I've always wanted to be involved in some sort of thing (like dance class/art class/equestrian centres etc) but they're all so expensive and I know even then I'd be quiet and still have no friends...
Being homeschooled is very hard, I am cyber schooled so I know what its like to be home all the time and not being aroung people. The biggest suggestion I can give you is to try to make friends in your neighborhood. If you walk around and go to the nearest mall or park you will find a friend to talk to. You can also join activities. If your school district you live in allows you, you can join their school clubs. Thats how I got into my music and sports. You just have to ask the school board, most of the time they wouldn't care at all.
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