dear people of the internet,
i'm not speaking to any particular person, before i begin this letter. if you read this and happen to be this kind of person, i'm sorry if i offend you, but seriously.
i'm so tired of looking on here, twitter, instagram, quotev, etc. etc. etc. , and finding all these people that seem like they purely want attention.
the other day, on instagram, i saw a girl who posted a picture of her cutting herself and the caption was 'if this picture gets 100,000 likes, i won't kill myself tonight"
really? just, really? shut up. if you really were suicidal, you wouldn't post something like that.
also, i'm tired of seeing people's bios on here, twitter, & instagram like 'i'm suicidally depressed, i cut, and nobody cares about me. i'm better off dead'.
would you please stop? if you feel so vulnerable and miserable, there's help, if you need it.
it's one thing if people write letters about personal feelings on here, or just need to rant. but to exploit your problems all over a social media profile is where a problem interferes.
cutting, suicide, eating disorders, and anxiety are so common in naive teenagers these days, it's becoming a trend, almost. yes. i said it. it's sad. you don't have to do all of those things to yourself to get attention. and if you really do have those problems, like i said, you can always get help.
there's even such thing as free help online.
i've done it. trust me. it works.
if you really feel 'suicidal', don't exploit it on the internet. call the suicide hotline and get real help.
most people don't even have bad lives that do this, too. i'm not typically one to be a judgmental person, but really.
and for those that are all on instagram/twitter/facebook/etc that are like, "i want to cut, but my mom threw my blades away. no one cares about me."
obviously, if a gaurdian has thrown your blades away, they care. you're just being naive. i know that everyone handles their own pain differently, but self-harm is not the right answer, especially wghen you exploit it onto the internet for everyone to see. if you're truly miserable and truly want to be happy, do something about it. get out of the house for once. join a club, write a book, dance your heart out, do something positive! the more negative energy you execute from your life, the more room you have for positivity.
putting things in your bios or whole accounts about how depressed/anorexic/suicidal/anxious you are won't help. it only creates more negativity.
so, please, if you are someone that does this, please here me out.
we all have ways of coping with our feelings. i just don't think putting them out there for everyone to see is the right thing to do.
sincerely,
blah