Boy Confuseion

[Tess]

Ok, so my so what called "boyfriend" has ignoring me alot lately. It seems like i don't exist to him at all anymore.He used to talk to me all the time and text message me till midnight every night but now its like im not even there.I've never said/done anything mean to him and i don't get why he is acting like this. Also, the last time he messaged me he asked for some other girls phone number and other kids at school keep saying hes cheating on me and his sister keeps harassing me and saying that im an creepy,annoing,emo that no one likes that needs to go die in a whole somewhere.

One night he messaged me and i replied and said: "shouldn't you be texting nikki" (nikkis is the girl that he asked me what her number was) he then said "i don't have nikkis number and I don't like her"
i said: "oh, well if you don't like her then why did you ask for her number and he said: i don't know what your talking about, i never asked for her number."
I never replied ands he kept sending me messages saying "i love you" and "why won't you reply"

A few days later i told him that i hated him and he said " oh, so i guess we are just friends"
After that i felt sick...
The next day he kept stareing at me and being a show off and he choked himself and almost fell in a lake.
I was pretty worried about him but i didn't show it.

The next day i messaged him saying: Sorry i was being mean.I do love you, i do trust you,i'd risk my life for you so please forgive me either know you shouldn't.
After he replied saying "i love you too" i didn't feel sick anymore.
And the day after that he kept talking to me, but the passed few days he was again acting like i wasen't there.

Im very confused and kind of angry at him, i really don't know what to do so please give me some advice.

[Helter_Skelter]

this has a really good 'cure'...lol...just keep trying to talk to him or break up with him...if he really loves you he'll protest and try to get you back...hope this kind of helps:)

[SunshineHorse26]

Had a similair problem. I know it's hard,but don't react. After awhile you'll find out if he really loves you or not.

[Aurore]

Ditch him. If he can't be bothered to pay any attention to you, he doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend. You have to be the boss in these relationships. ;D

[WolfWhisperer]

The best thing you can do is to go to him in person so then he cannot ignore something like that. Ask him why he has been ignoring texts from you and that he acts like you do not exist anymore. If he is being such a bast*** then dump him because it's not right that they should ignore you. Because that's not what boyfriends do to their girlfriends.

[Sunnydog]

Talking face to face is the best thing to do. Ask him what going on and about anything else that worries you about the relationship. Honestly is key to any relationship. Ive been with my guy 5 yrs now, we have been married now almost 2yrs.Because we are honest with each other about everything we have never had an argument or a fight.

[Styracosaurus]

Didn't I post in this thread? o.o

[Warburton]

Smells like teen romance to me (lol Nirvana pun)

Firstly - I'm guessing you're both still kids, amirite? Which would be the reason as to why he is getting bored. As that's what I'm seeing here. The dude is getting bored with the relationship, as it's probably went over it's expiry date for him. Kids are like that at times, the majority at the most.

Either talk face to face, but I suspect this'll happen again. Dumping him would be the next possibility, and wait until you find a guy who doesn't get bored with relationships after a few weeks/months at the most.

Also, you both seem a bit to young (if that's the word to use here) to be throwing "I love you's" around. If he did love you, then he wouldn't ignore you.

[sardonyx rain]

Thanks for the advice, i'll try talking to him next time i see him and see what the problem is.