i need your opinions.

[Iwantmycookie]

Okay, so i am a 13 year old girl, and my birthday is coming up.
i like to have fun, unique birthdays, so this year i'm having a mad hatter tea party. (we aren't really going to have a "tea party" its just we are going to get top hats and when we eat, have dinner at a long white table)

there are about 11 girls i want to invite... and 8 boys.
i haven't invited guys to my party for a while... at least not this many.

so i'm not sure what to do. some of my friends (girls) don't want guys to be invited
and i don't know if guys are actually going to want to come. i made sure all the guys had another guy friend that was being invited but...

opinions? suggestions? what should i do?

[~Jaded]

do the guys act like monkeys? cuz if they do.....not a good idea....trust me id know.....

[Styracosaurus]

dude, it's your birthday. You should be able to do whatever you want, and if they don't like it then too bad.

[celticqueen]

I agree, if they act like monkeys, erm well...choice is yours...however, with that said, it is your party....do what YOU want to do...if you want the guys there...give them the invites, if not well...nobody ever died from having an all girl party and you could probably get away with turning it into a slumber party if it's not a school night...

[Iwantmycookie]

okay thanks for you opinions... some act like monkeys but don't we all? well... sometimes..

[Pingutaina]

do the guys act like monkeys? cuz if they do.....not a good idea....trust me id know.....

I agree, if you're inviting some immature guys that act like they're nine, then I suggest you don't invite them... it might be a bit messy... But if it's guys that you know will behave and act their own age, then I'd invite them! It's up to you my friend!

[MiniHorse]

Hm.. I think inviting boys is a good thing xD (Though I'm a girl), I still have a good memory of when I was YOUNGER, a girl invited mwa and other girls and some boys and we were all pretty good friends so it was a great party x3

[Iwantmycookie]

yea... thanks again peeps... i just don;t want it to be awkward or like they don't want to come.
i think they will act their age tho...

[Lady]

dude, it's your birthday. You should be able to do whatever you want, and if they don't like it then too bad.

This.

And it's not like it won't be supervised, right? Then I wouldn't worry about some of them acting up because your parents will take care of it.

[Iwantmycookie]

thats true... i think i will invite them! good advice/opinions everyone