by CalicoWolf » Fri Sep 14, 2012 12:42 pm
I'm have nothing but my phone, few clothes, few dollars,and food stamp card. My best friend went back up North, my "step-mum" kicked me out, both my real parents are dead, dads family are nothing more than backstabbers...Does the above sound unrealistic? Absolutely, and I know its not something everyone has to deal with, but it unfortunately does happened and as I have told people who question it... if I wasn't living it, I would find it hard to believe as well because no one should have to endear this crap. Buuuutttt.... Lemme start at the beginning....
My father passed away July 21st, 2012 of a heart attack. I was in South Carolina when I found out he had died, but I got back home to Florida about 6 o'clock. Well his mother [My grandma] and his brother [My uncle] started so much crap, wanting possessions... His "viewing" was a disgrace. They took in their own hands to plan his viewing and whatnot and they went really cheap and really shoddy. I wouldn't wish that type of "parting" even on my worst enemy... I feel so bad for my fathers last physical being here...
It was hell to get his ashes... My uncle wanted his fathers memorial flag which his father did NOT want him to have, PLUS I still have to pay for the ashes... Well I did finally get the ashes, but I no longer talk to anyone one my fathers side cept one cousin. Everyone sides with my Uncle and Grandma, even the cousin I thought I was closest too. In fact, my "close" cousin said he wasn't coming to my father memorial [something I planned on my own after the 'viewing'] because he had to side with his dad because he was family... I was like, "What the heck am I , chopped liver?" -__-
Sooo since everyone is given me a hard time, I decided to live with my dads longtime companion[girlfriend, they were never officially married because of SSI issues] who I considered a Mom, help her out [since she is sickly] with keeping the house clean and food. She was fine with it, even tho I had no job so I couldn't pay cash, as long as I actively looked for a job, which I did. Well after a month and a half, she kicked me out at 12:30 in the morning saying she was tired of being used... Seriously?! The woman hadn't lifted a finger... me and my friend did everything for her, cooked, cleaned, ran errands [oh and don't forget, no car so we walked everywhere or found a ride and had to pay gas money/food stamps to people], did everything. Oh but we were using her...
Lisa [my friend] went back to Indiana with her Boyfriend, I was sad about it, but encouraged it because least that way she had a place to live. I was on the streets for a while, but currently, somewhat staying at my dads ex-girlfriends place. I'm really trying to get my life in order, but with little to no help, its very difficult.
I'm currently fighting with the state for my fathers property... its currently having to go through probate, meaning I need a lawyer, but with no money, I'm screwed, so I'm desperately looking for a job. I was going to sell Nemo the Moluccan Cockatoo for some sort of money, but Joni [the step-mum who kicked me out] gave him away for FREE without telling me! -_- And for some reason she thinks she had the right to because she feels because my father passed away, Nemo was left on her property it made him hers... WRONG! My fathers Will specifically says EVERYTHING of his goes to me. I have gone through small claims about this and if she doesn't corporate, I could have her arrested [which I really don't wanna do] or have her taken to court [which I cannot afford].
So I am going through that, dealing with Joni, My fathers family, and Dads affairs. I'm really trying to push through this but some days its so hard. I feel so broken and lost...
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CalicoWolf on Fri Sep 14, 2012 12:48 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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