Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Keletheryl]

Remember that online relationship I had going on? It's fine, except we live so far apart. I mean like, I live in North America and he lives in Europe apart. So even if it got to the point of where we wanted to meet, how could we? This makes me sad

[provolone]

My boyfriends birthday is in two weeks, and I kinda wanted to get started on a present[: Only problem is I'm not sure what I should do. Here's what I thought of so far:

Well he's turning 15, so I thought about putting 15 gifts in a box that have some meaning to him. For example, we have an inside joke about snickers, his favorite candy is peanut M&M's, so putting random stuff in there (Hopefully not all candy...I need some ideas)

He LOVES the brownies that I make, so maybe I could make him a whole pan xD It isn't all that expensive and I know he'd love it[:

I thought about doing this for Valentines Day, but I totally chickened out. I mean I could do it if I get the guts[x I was thinking (in addition to another gift) pull out a chocolate kiss with a little note that says "First kiss?" I had the same general idea for Valentines day..But I ended up changing the note to say "I love you!"

Anyone have any other ideas? Or maybe some comments on what I already have? I would really appreciate it[:

Aw, I remember the Valentine's Day idea and thought it was super sweet!!

On a side note, I find it interesting that you think changing it from kiss to "I love you" is a step down - but different people say 'love' at different points of the relationship. My boyfriend didn't say it to me until we'd been together about six months, and I couldn't even get myself to say it for a while after that. And we kissed the first weekend I saw him. :3

I don't know how long you guys have been together, and to me that dictates how much effort should be put into it. If you've been together only a few weeks, I wouldn't do too much. If it's been several months or more, then a bit of effort sounds reasonable.

I guess I could say the same thing. My bf said that he didn't want anything for his birthday and I was helpless and all my friends kept on asking me what I got him. I would still like to give him one, I just don't know what. i want it to be special too. Not a lollipop that the sub let me sneak...

We've been dating for 2 months and a little over a week. He got me a gift card for my birthday (being about three weeks in the relationship plus its so close to Valentines Day) Yeah, I couldn't get myself to give the kiss to him o.O I haven't had my first kiss yet, and neither has he. I don't know..I couldn't get up the guts to do it ;~;

Also, we haven't really said "I love you" in person. Like we both wrote it down for each other on Valentines Day, but no more. And if I am going to kiss him, It would have to be at school. We don't get the chance to do much outside of that, considering I don't have my phone till Monday and after school I'm in track. I guess I just don't want it to be real public..More special and private. Does that make sense? And I'm more sure of myself this time. I mean by the time it's his birthday, we'll almost be dating three months. I think that's about a good time for a kiss?

[Lighty]

Remember that online relationship I had going on? It's fine, except we live so far apart. I mean like, I live in North America and he lives in Europe apart. So even if it got to the point of where we wanted to meet, how could we? This makes me sad

I feel that feel. <3
I need advice myself on the subject and whether or not it's worth it. Though there is a possibility we could meet this summer.

[Cirque]

My boyfriend & I have been together for almost four months. c:
though it feels like it's been longer since we were best friends before we started dating,
& we had feelings for eachother for a while but there was some drama that caused us to not be in a relationship yet.

[•Asi•]

So my "friend" thing has a boyfriend, then his friend comes over to ask him something and she says "hey hottie what do you need?" and then the next day she came crying to me because he broke up with her, and she said "I don't understand why he would break up with me!" Is she serious?

[Msshardy]

I'm going to tell you this before I completely chicken out.

When Risa first told me she thought you liked me, I didn't care and was rather annoyed. I didn't like you, I thought you were kind of a jerk, and I was completely disappointed in my inability to attract anything other than jerks. But I thought about it, and figured Risa was just making majorly wrong assumptions. But after I came over to hang out with Ana that first time after I saw Spot and stuff, I realized you weren't a jerk. To me, anyway, though you were a bit of an a55 to Ana. I realized you were actually really, really funny and, surprisingly enough (No offense), really smart, too. I realized later that week that I was starting to like you. Then Risa asked me what I would do if you asked me out. Keep in mind I'd been around you for an extended period of time exactly once. But I told her I'd probably only say yea if I was in a really, really good mood. I think she took that the wrong way, judging from the way she explained her questioning if you. Then I went over to hang out with Ana again, and you were the same way. I realized I really did like you, more than "Oh, he's kind of cute." This is gonna sound really lame, but you're the only guy who's jokes I can actually laugh at, for real, without faking, almost every time. And then Risa told me what you'd said. Didn't realize I was funny, by the way. But I was actually kind of disappointed.


You probably already figured it out, but I like you. Not a major "OMG, I will completely flipping die if you don't like me" kind of like. More like a "If you don't like me I'll be bummed but will get over it and won't make things awkward because I'm not a lame (Mostly not a lame)" kind of like. You probably don't like me, but I don't like tiptoeing around, wondering if you like me or not. So tell me now.


I just told him over facebook. Ohmygod I an so scared. [/I]I'm at his house right now,[/I] I'll be completely unable to escaped the downfall when it comes. I feel faint, and a bit like I'm gonna vomit. Oh god, I hope he doesn't act weird around me now.

[dddddonuts]

I've had a crush on this guy on the chess team in my grade (I'm on it, too) since October.
We share a lot of common interests and we've talked once or twice, and I have a lot of friends in his class.
I feel really jittery when I'm around him and even though my friends say he's kind of unattractive, I don't really listen to what they think. I mean, they said when he passed by us in the hall once, I turned bright red and hid behind my binder. xD

There aren't many places where we both usually go at school so we can talk.
Are there any ways that I could possibly get to know him better? :<

[DraconisSumeris]

I've had a crush on this guy on the chess team in my grade (I'm on it, too) since October.
We share a lot of common interests and we've talked once or twice, and I have a lot of friends in his class.
I feel really jittery when I'm around him and even though my friends say he's kind of unattractive, I don't really listen to what they think. I mean, they said when he passed by us in the hall once, I turned bright red and hid behind my binder. xD

There aren't many places where we both usually go at school so we can talk.
Are there any ways that I could possibly get to know him better? :<

just start talking to him.just like you would try to get to know someone new at school.ask about his hobbies, or, ask him about chess stagitys and witch one he favors. most likely, if you walk with him to classes (and ECT)most likely you'll get to know more about him.

[dddddonuts]

I've had a crush on this guy on the chess team in my grade (I'm on it, too) since October.
We share a lot of common interests and we've talked once or twice, and I have a lot of friends in his class.
I feel really jittery when I'm around him and even though my friends say he's kind of unattractive, I don't really listen to what they think. I mean, they said when he passed by us in the hall once, I turned bright red and hid behind my binder. xD

There aren't many places where we both usually go at school so we can talk.
Are there any ways that I could possibly get to know him better? :<

just start talking to him.just like you would try to get to know someone new at school.ask about his hobbies, or, ask him about chess stagitys and witch one he favors. most likely, if you walk with him to classes (and ECT)most likely you'll get to know more about him.

Thank you. c:
However, I'm a bit shy in real life. I don't really walk with him to any classes because we only come across each other's paths 2 or 3 times a week while switching classes. Also, he's always with his friends and I'm afraid I'll embarrass him. .-.

[Ninja Jedi]

Something really exciting happened last Saturday. However, like many of these stories, I won't post it without Ninja's consent.

you can if you want to.

Yay.

So, me and Ninja had our first kiss. Both to each other and at all.