Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Lighty]

Should I say, "I'm busy this break, I'm sorry. Maybe another time?" even though technically, another time would be when I'm older. Besides, it shouldn't be too much longer until I'm aloud to date, but I wouldn't really want to date him... He's not my "type". He's too... Cowboyish? I guess... He acts to Southern for my liking, wearing boots and button down shirts and bigish belts all the time... And it wouldn't be lying, that I'm busy...

Generally, be vague but honest. Saying you are busy, that you have some personal or even family things going on, or some issues that need to get sorted out. Or even just be so simple as to say that now isn't a good time, but you appreciate the offer.

^ Light agree with this!

Did I do something wrong? D:
I haven't heard from my crush in over 2 weeks. Usually he would text me right after school and ask how my day went. But... No texts have come. I sent him a message on facebook last week just saying "How is you?" It says that he saw it, but he didn't reply.
I am so sad. I like him a lot. And he said he liked me. I just... Don't know...
~camera;

I don't think you did. <3
He might be pre-occupied with something else in his life or perhaps he's confused about his feelings towards you?
In either case it'd have nothing to do with your actions, I'd say just give him some time and space. Let him know you support him no matter what and if anything's wrong that you're here for him and let him come to you. ^_^

[TailsDovah]

I want to learn a sweet song on piano for my boyfriend, but I have no idea what to try. Something by a band like Never Shout Never, Pierce The Veil, Sleeping with Sirens, etc. Any ideas? Also, I can get sheet music for just about any song, whether it has a piano part or not.

[garnet.]

Eek I need help! I'm bi, and I like this girl.
My friends are beginning to guess that I like her and its scaring me. However, now im really worried. Someone who really hates me (but is friends with my friends) figured it out. I've denied it but not overdramatically but she won't believe me. I really don't know what to do, she really hates me so what if she tells my crushes friends and what if my crush finds out. It's possible that she likes me the same but I doubt it personally so I'm really panicking.
Any help is welcomed :3

Please help

I think if you let it seem like it doesn't bother you, she'll let it alone.
I've found that if you respond, "So what if I do?" and really act like it doesn't matter in the slightest.
That can be rather challenging though so I wish you luck![/quote]
Okay thanks

But what should I do if my crush does find out?

[Stormsong*]

I want to help, and the only thing i can do is make a suggestion. Talk to your parents or your counsellor, they are there to help with matters like that, and hopefully you find them trustworthy enough to talk about matters such as this. Good luck!

[Lighty]

Eek I need help! I'm bi, and I like this girl.
My friends are beginning to guess that I like her and its scaring me. However, now im really worried. Someone who really hates me (but is friends with my friends) figured it out. I've denied it but not overdramatically but she won't believe me. I really don't know what to do, she really hates me so what if she tells my crushes friends and what if my crush finds out. It's possible that she likes me the same but I doubt it personally so I'm really panicking.
Any help is welcomed :3

Please help

I think if you let it seem like it doesn't bother you, she'll let it alone.
I've found that if you respond, "So what if I do?" and really act like it doesn't matter in the slightest.
That can be rather challenging though so I wish you luck!

Okay thanks

But what should I do if my crush does find out?[/quote]
Well I think it depends on what their reaction is.
If they react in a really positive way and seem to like you back, I'd just roll with it.
If they react in a "Hey sorry but I don't like you back" sort of way, I'd sort of pass it off, "Oh ok, I understand don't worry. I hope this doesn't change our friendship in anyway. ^_^"
If they react in a really negative way, I would apologize and say that you never intended for her to find out.

[Pongo.]

Should I say, "I'm busy this break, I'm sorry. Maybe another time?" even though technically, another time would be when I'm older. Besides, it shouldn't be too much longer until I'm aloud to date, but I wouldn't really want to date him... He's not my "type". He's too... Cowboyish? I guess... He acts to Southern for my liking, wearing boots and button down shirts and bigish belts all the time... And it wouldn't be lying, that I'm busy...

Just tell him your not interested? (he is so my type! Lol)

[garnet.]

Eek I need help! I'm bi, and I like this girl.
My friends are beginning to guess that I like her and its scaring me. However, now im really worried. Someone who really hates me (but is friends with my friends) figured it out. I've denied it but not overdramatically but she won't believe me. I really don't know what to do, she really hates me so what if she tells my crushes friends and what if my crush finds out. It's possible that she likes me the same but I doubt it personally so I'm really panicking.
Any help is welcomed :3

Please help

I think if you let it seem like it doesn't bother you, she'll let it alone.
I've found that if you respond, "So what if I do?" and really act like it doesn't matter in the slightest.
That can be rather challenging though so I wish you luck!

Okay thanks

But what should I do if my crush does find out?[/quote]
Well I think it depends on what their reaction is.
If they react in a really positive way and seem to like you back, I'd just roll with it.
If they react in a "Hey sorry but I don't like you back" sort of way, I'd sort of pass it off, "Oh ok, I understand don't worry. I hope this doesn't change our friendship in anyway. ^_^"
If they react in a really negative way, I would apologize and say that you never intended for her to find out.[/quote
She already knows I'm bi so she shouldn't react majorly negatively. I hope she does low me bak but I know the chance is tiny

[Outlander]

Something really exciting happened last Saturday. However, like many of these stories, I won't post it without Ninja's consent.

you can if you want to.

Yay.

So, me and Ninja had our first kiss. Both to each other and at all.

[slccat]

Can someone PM me, I need some help

[wolfandstag]

if you like him, you should hang out. do it in a public place, maybe coffee or lunch? it doesn't have to be a date. make it very explicit that it is only to be a platonic relationship, and that you are not interested in dating anyone, nothing against him. take some time to consider it, and figure out what YOU want. if you don't think it possible for you to stay friends, then perhaps steer clear of the situation and politely decline. alternatively, consider the fact that you could pursue a secret relationship.