Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[{Bitterblue}]

So, I just finished talking with Max about what to do, and he said he just wants to stay friends. Now, I'm totally cool with that, but now, new advice!

Now I need some help getting over him. Since we are going to stay friends, i'm not going to continue with this crush. Time to move on! Any tips?

Let me start out by warning you that getting over someone can be difficult, depending on how much you liked them. Don't expect it to all get better in an instant. It might take some time. But here are a few tips I like to use when I'm trying to get over a guy.

1. I usually start by getting out a piece of paper and writing down how I'm feeling. Just vent! You're never going to show this paper to anyone so don't be afraid to be vulernable. After you write all that down, try reading over it. You may find that it helps you sort a few things out. After that feel free to throw out your note, or keep it if you want. Whichever you'd prefer.

2. Another tip is trying thinking of all the things you dislike about your crush and focus on those. This may not be the best approach as it may make you a bit moody towards him for the next few days, but it does work.

3. Lastly, try focusing on the future instead of the past. Anticipate future crushes, and don't dwell on old ones. Maybe give yourself a day or two before hanging around Max again. Try viewing him as you would view any other friend, nothing more.

Hope this helps you!

[.: pop 101 :.]

Today was my one year anniversary with my boyfriend <3

We went out to the beach, went for dinner.... Oh it was amazing. And we snuggled!~ <3 ( Were long distance, he came here from another state )

I also had my first kiss. It was awesome. I counted how many times we kissed today. 13 XD

And we went for dinner. He bought me a ring with our names in it and pretty hearts!~ X3

It was all so perfect. Oh and they brought cake for our anniversary. Nom nom nom XD

Anyways. Amazing day <3

[garnet.]

Eek I need help! I'm bi, and I like this girl.
My friends are beginning to guess that I like her and its scaring me. However, now im really worried. Someone who really hates me (but is friends with my friends) figured it out. I've denied it but not overdramatically but she won't believe me. I really don't know what to do, she really hates me so what if she tells my crushes friends and what if my crush finds out. It's possible that she likes me the same but I doubt it personally so I'm really panicking.
Any help is welcomed :3

[DraconisSumeris]

i really do think alex likes me X3so. i broke up with my boyfriend.(any who are new to my situation, search "oboe" and that should find all my posts before.)so thats over.And alex did the most sweet thing anyones ever done for me, earlier, when i was headed to my second class, during passing period, and he saw i was carrying my instrament case,seince i was too late this morning to school to put it away in the band room. nothing new for me X3 anyway because he is always one class ahead of me,he came out and spoted me and asked why i had my instrament.(he should have spotted me carrying it around before X3) and i told him i was a bit late this morning and he offerd to put it away for me. i started to refuse, but he wouldent let me X3 finally i gave it to him. in band, i found it on the shelf sitting next to his oboe case.i must say it was heart warming.another problem: one of my friends Eli,asked me out... XCi dont want to let him down, as he hasent had a girlfriend before. but i really dont want to go though what i did with my ex.because it started out the same way.

found the perfect solution to my Eli problem X# seince hes going in the young marines, and m dad is currently C.O. ... bad mix X3

[.musical.dragon.]

Alright... So first off, I'm not aloud to date. I'm not sure when I'm aloud to, but I think it is next year, depending on the guy. There is this guy who is a grade older than me in one of my classes. One of my friends told me just the other day that he has a crush on me. I don't have a crush back on him, I don't think... That's because I'm not aloud to date, and don't really want to break my mom's rules... I think that I may have accidentally lead him on, but I don't really think that I did... I sure hope that I didn't... Anyways, I have no idea how my emotions are supposed to be, what I should say to him if when he asks me out, and all of that jazz... But there is also some other boys, and I'm not sure if I'm crushing on them or not...

1. The first guy is really nice to me, and is quite attractive. He was also my first real crush. He is in two of my classes and will talk quite freely with me, and it isn't at all awkward. He's friends with a lot of girls though, and has quite an amount of pimples... He is also in my grade, and is very smart.I guess he is sort of popular because of that, and I'm not popular.

2.The second guy is also really nice, and quite attractive. He rides my bus, but is a grade below me. I'm near his age though, because I'm young for my grade. He was dateing this girl in my grade though, and I'm not sure if he still is... Anyways, we would chat on the bus(sitting by each other, always), and laugh a lot. All of a sudden, when he got this girlfriend, it really upset me. I didn't let him sit with me once, and now he never sits by me any more. It's made me really depressed and sad lately...

So, in the end, I don't know if I like one of those two guys, or what I should do if when that guy who is older than me asks me out...

Thank you for reading this and your time!!!

So, I think that I figured out who I have a crush on!!!! I think... I don't really know, because I'm no good with emotions; I have some problems. If you PM me, I may be willing to talk... Anyways... The guy is a year older than me, and at the beginning of this school year, we were great friends. Then, this girl got in between us and we never really talked again... But then today, we talked again because we had this band thing... I'm not one hundred percent sure, but I'm pretty sure he's my crush... I just don't want to "finalize it" because I don't find him attractive... But he's so nice!!! It's just really confusing...

Okay people on here, I SERIOUSLY need some help...

[.musical.dragon.]

Sorry for double posting, but this is of HIGH IMPROTANCE!!!

If you look above at the pervious post of mine, you will see that I'm not aloud to date and there is a guy who wants to ask me out. If you read on, you will see how I may have accidentally led him on, and my friend things that we'd be cute and such. You will also see how this guy is a grade above me, yet I am young for my grade. I really don't want to hurt his feelings or anything, but now he sent me this exact message on Facebook:

Hey (my name here) i was wonderin if you would wanna hang out over break

And if you didn't figure it out, I'm on a break right now. I have no idea what to say back, or how my emotions should be... HELP!!!

As a side note, I have trouble with my emotions due to the fact that my parents are divorced...

[Lighty]

I'm curious if you guys on here have any opinions about dating people you meet online that live far away.
I know, I know, she could be an 80 man, etc., etc. I waited until we'd been messaging back and forth on tumblr for awhile before giving her her my phone number and then texted her for a while before friending her on facebook. Her account seems real. I promise I will skype her before I completely attempt to figure out my feelings, though.

ANYWAY...
So if she is real, we get a long very well and I like her quite a lot as person but starting a relationship long distance sort of worries me. Most of my friends think it is a terrible idea and I suppose I'm just not sure.
Can anyone with experience in this area give me advice? Please and Thank you very much! ^_^

Also she may be able to come here this summer, if you believe that changes anything.

[.musical.dragon.]

This is of HIGH IMPROTANCE!!! to me, and I'm really worried... I have no idea what to do!!!

You see, I'm not aloud to date and there is a guy who wants to ask me out. I may have accidentally led him on, and my friend things that we'd be cute and such. This guy is a grade above me, yet I am young for my grade. I really don't want to hurt his feelings or anything, but now he sent me this exact message on Facebook:

Hey (my name here) i was wonderin if you would wanna hang out over break

And if you didn't figure it out, I'm on a break right now. I have no idea what to say back, or how my emotions should be... HELP me please?!?!?!?!

As a side note, I have trouble with my emotions due to the fact that my parents are divorced...

[vanilla kitten]

Sorry for double posting, but this is of HIGH IMPROTANCE!!!

If you look above at the pervious post of mine, you will see that I'm not aloud to date and there is a guy who wants to ask me out. If you read on, you will see how I may have accidentally led him on, and my friend things that we'd be cute and such. You will also see how this guy is a grade above me, yet I am young for my grade. I really don't want to hurt his feelings or anything, but now he sent me this exact message on Facebook:

Hey (my name here) i was wonderin if you would wanna hang out over break

And if you didn't figure it out, I'm on a break right now. I have no idea what to say back, or how my emotions should be... HELP!!!

As a side note, I have trouble with my emotions due to the fact that my parents are divorced...

look, my parrents are divorced too. the only memory of i have of them together was the fights that caused them to split up in the first place. yeah, i have trouble expressing my emotions and sorting them out, but it's not that hard to figure out if you like someone. it's not that hard to know if you want to hang out with someone or not.

[.musical.dragon.]

I know the general basics of my emotions, I'm confused and flattered, but I don't want to hang out with him. I just don't know how to say no to him nicely...