Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[vanilla kitten]

i dont know what i did but im sorry
i just wish youd talk to me.

im sorry

[eleven.]

i dont know what i did but im sorry
i just wish youd talk to me.

im sorry

That's how I feel to! D:
I don't understand.

[Keletheryl]

I'm curious if you guys on here have any opinions about dating people you meet online that live far away.
I know, I know, she could be an 80 man, etc., etc. I waited until we'd been messaging back and forth on tumblr for awhile before giving her her my phone number and then texted her for a while before friending her on facebook. Her account seems real. I promise I will skype her before I completely attempt to figure out my feelings, though.

ANYWAY...
So if she is real, we get a long very well and I like her quite a lot as person but starting a relationship long distance sort of worries me. Most of my friends think it is a terrible idea and I suppose I'm just not sure.
Can anyone with experience in this area give me advice? Please and Thank you very much! ^_^

Most of my friends told me that it doesn't last either.
My one friend has had three girlfriends over the internet, and a lot of drama happened, and most of them broke up. One wasn't even online for a lot of months or something so she figured that it was over between her and her girlfriend.

But I'm in one myself, and I'm rather new at it too so I might not be very helpful, but i'll try. ^^
From what I have seen from other people on this topic, they all seem to pretty much do the same thing; they talk, skype, etc over the internet for a long time. Then, when they think it is right, they meet in real life.
That's all you can really do, over an online relationship. Get to know the person as much you can over the internet, then meet! And hopefully all goes well from there. :3

[DraconisSumeris]

i really do think alex likes me X3so. i broke up with my boyfriend.(any who are new to my situation, search "oboe" and that should find all my posts before.)so thats over.And alex did the most sweet thing anyones ever done for me, earlier, when i was headed to my second class, during passing period, and he saw i was carrying my instrament case,seince i was too late this morning to school to put it away in the band room. nothing new for me X3 anyway because he is always one class ahead of me,he came out and spoted me and asked why i had my instrament.(he should have spotted me carrying it around before X3) and i told him i was a bit late this morning and he offerd to put it away for me. i started to refuse, but he wouldent let me X3 finally i gave it to him. in band, i found it on the shelf sitting next to his oboe case.i must say it was heart warming.another problem: one of my friends Eli,asked me out... XCi dont want to let him down, as he hasent had a girlfriend before. but i really dont want to go though what i did with my ex.because it started out the same way.

[.musical.dragon.]

Sorry for the double post...

Okay, so first off, if you don't want to hear anything about my relationships/want to help me, this isn't your topic. Just so you know.

Alright... So first off, I'm not aloud to date. I'm not sure when I'm aloud to, but I think it is next year, depending on the guy. There is this guy who is a grade older than me in one of my classes. One of my friends told me just the other day that he has a crush on me. I don't have a crush back on him, I don't think... That's because I'm not aloud to date, and don't really want to break my mom's rules... I think that I may have accidentally lead him on, but I don't really think that I did... I sure hope that I didn't... Anyways, I have no idea how my emotions are supposed to be, what I should say to him if when he asks me out, and all of that jazz... But there is also some other boys, and I'm not sure if I'm crushing on them or not...

1. The first guy is really nice to me, and is quite attractive. He was also my first real crush. He is in two of my classes and will talk quite freely with me, and it isn't at all awkward. He's friends with a lot of girls though, and has quite an amount of pimples... He is also in my grade, and is very smart.I guess he is sort of popular because of that, and I'm not popular.

2.The second guy is also really nice, and quite attractive. He rides my bus, but is a grade below me. I'm near his age though, because I'm young for my grade. He was dateing this girl in my grade though, and I'm not sure if he still is... Anyways, we would chat on the bus(sitting by each other, always), and laugh a lot. All of a sudden, when he got this girlfriend, it really upset me. I didn't let him sit with me once, and now he never sits by me any more. It's made me really depressed and sad lately...

So, in the end, I don't know if I like one of those two guys, or what I should do if when that guy who is older than me asks me out...

Thank you for reading this and your time!!!

So, I think that I figured out who I have a crush on!!!! I think... I don't really know, because I'm no good with emotions; I have some problems. If you PM me, I may be willing to talk... Anyways... The guy is a year older than me, and at the beginning of this school year, we were great friends. Then, this girl got in between us and we never really talked again... But then today, we talked again because we had this band thing... I'm not one hundred percent sure, but I'm pretty sure he's my crush... I just don't want to "finalize it" because I don't find him attractive... But he's so nice!!! It's just really confusing...

Okay, seriously. I NEED help!

[Bell.]

Ryan walks up to me and says "Jackson likes you." And then Jackson comes up to me and says "Ryan has a crush on you." and then later Ryan says " No. Actually Jackson hates you. And so do I." Wat. I'm confused.

[provolone]

My boyfriends birthday is in two weeks, and I kinda wanted to get started on a present[: Only problem is I'm not sure what I should do. Here's what I thought of so far:

Well he's turning 15, so I thought about putting 15 gifts in a box that have some meaning to him. For example, we have an inside joke about snickers, his favorite candy is peanut M&M's, so putting random stuff in there (Hopefully not all candy...I need some ideas)

He LOVES the brownies that I make, so maybe I could make him a whole pan xD It isn't all that expensive and I know he'd love it[:

I thought about doing this for Valentines Day, but I totally chickened out. I mean I could do it if I get the guts[x I was thinking (in addition to another gift) pull out a chocolate kiss with a little note that says "First kiss?" I had the same general idea for Valentines day..But I ended up changing the note to say "I love you!"

Anyone have any other ideas? Or maybe some comments on what I already have? I would really appreciate it[:

[thunderofthedrum]

My boyfriends birthday is in two weeks, and I kinda wanted to get started on a present[: Only problem is I'm not sure what I should do. Here's what I thought of so far:

Well he's turning 15, so I thought about putting 15 gifts in a box that have some meaning to him. For example, we have an inside joke about snickers, his favorite candy is peanut M&M's, so putting random stuff in there (Hopefully not all candy...I need some ideas)

He LOVES the brownies that I make, so maybe I could make him a whole pan xD It isn't all that expensive and I know he'd love it[:

I thought about doing this for Valentines Day, but I totally chickened out. I mean I could do it if I get the guts[x I was thinking (in addition to another gift) pull out a chocolate kiss with a little note that says "First kiss?" I had the same general idea for Valentines day..But I ended up changing the note to say "I love you!"

Anyone have any other ideas? Or maybe some comments on what I already have? I would really appreciate it[:

Aw, I remember the Valentine's Day idea and thought it was super sweet!!

On a side note, I find it interesting that you think changing it from kiss to "I love you" is a step down - but different people say 'love' at different points of the relationship. My boyfriend didn't say it to me until we'd been together about six months, and I couldn't even get myself to say it for a while after that. And we kissed the first weekend I saw him. :3

I don't know how long you guys have been together, and to me that dictates how much effort should be put into it. If you've been together only a few weeks, I wouldn't do too much. If it's been several months or more, then a bit of effort sounds reasonable.

[dαєnєrчѕ tαrgαrчєn]

My boyfriends birthday is in two weeks, and I kinda wanted to get started on a present[: Only problem is I'm not sure what I should do. Here's what I thought of so far:

Well he's turning 15, so I thought about putting 15 gifts in a box that have some meaning to him. For example, we have an inside joke about snickers, his favorite candy is peanut M&M's, so putting random stuff in there (Hopefully not all candy...I need some ideas)

He LOVES the brownies that I make, so maybe I could make him a whole pan xD It isn't all that expensive and I know he'd love it[:

I thought about doing this for Valentines Day, but I totally chickened out. I mean I could do it if I get the guts[x I was thinking (in addition to another gift) pull out a chocolate kiss with a little note that says "First kiss?" I had the same general idea for Valentines day..But I ended up changing the note to say "I love you!"

Anyone have any other ideas? Or maybe some comments on what I already have? I would really appreciate it[:

Aw, I remember the Valentine's Day idea and thought it was super sweet!!

On a side note, I find it interesting that you think changing it from kiss to "I love you" is a step down - but different people say 'love' at different points of the relationship. My boyfriend didn't say it to me until we'd been together about six months, and I couldn't even get myself to say it for a while after that. And we kissed the first weekend I saw him. :3

I don't know how long you guys have been together, and to me that dictates how much effort should be put into it. If you've been together only a few weeks, I wouldn't do too much. If it's been several months or more, then a bit of effort sounds reasonable.

I guess I could say the same thing. My bf said that he didn't want anything for his birthday and I was helpless and all my friends kept on asking me what I got him. I would still like to give him one, I just don't know what. i want it to be special too. Not a lollipop that the sub let me sneak...

Also, kinda long story.
As I said I have a bf. ^^ But I went on a cruise a week ago and met this really nice guy and I kinda like him, and yet he really likes me. While I was coming back and at the airport. I had a lot of time to think things over on the plane and came down to a decision. I made likes a pros and cons list. 0.o But they like evened out. Which made it harder. I told him if we could be just friends and he was a little bummed but I'm happy I did. I just feel like I did something wrong. (Kinda) Cause when I came back to school today I saw my bf and we hugged. <3 I may feel a little distant maybe? I dunno...

[Outlander]

Something really exciting happened last Saturday. However, like many of these stories, I won't post it without Ninja's consent.