Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[DraconisSumeris]

im VERY unhappy. i have a lot going for me. i like one of my
Best friends,though i do have a boyfriend(soon to become ex as of
tomarrow)and i feel used.cheap. lower then EARTHWORMS cheap.
i belive my boyfriendused me to gain credit with his friends. we
rarely see each other anymore, and when i do see him i cant get
within a ten foot radius because he runs from me! so tomarrow
im going to givehim a peice of mind from me.im really angey about
this, because he lied, he LIED to me saying he liked me.i belived
him at first but as time progressed i disbelived him. now, as
monday comes, he is going to get the full force of it. if he isent
handled to face a marine, oh well, his step dad is one.
(im a young marine.)im hopeing that ill get this over with
before i see my Bestfriend who is in band, like me. X3 he
plays oboe and i play trumpet :3

[Shima Longtail]

Okay, so my boyfriend and I are super close and he got dared to kiss me.. (not my first my 2nd) but I decided that I would take pressure off of him and make first move. I don't know how to start it off.... I'm clueless of how to make first move and pressuring myself... any ideas of how I should make first move to get this dare over with?
Thanks for your help!
--AllAtOnce

[Lighty]

I didnt tell my boyfriend but....Im actually getting emotional over this....

Today we met for the first time (were long distance). It was amazing, and we hugged alot but....no kiss.
I mean, i had so much fun. But the whole time i just really wanted to kiss him but i was too nervous....
We both want to kiss. We were both too scared.
But....i just wanted to kiss...

Our 1 year anniversary is tomorrow...maybe we will kiss then....just....I dont even know how to START the kisss, im seriously hoping he does.....

Even if i know it will just be a peck and stuff...

Advice please?

The thing about kissing is that if you just let it happen, it generally happens the right way. ^_^
Don't over-think it too much, and I know that's easier said then done but I promise...
Wait for the right moment, one where you're looking at each and smiling, moving a bit closer...
If you aim your mouth at theirs and close your eyes, odds are it will work.

That's my advice, I wish you the best of luck. <3

[Shima Longtail]

im VERY unhappy. i have a lot going for me. i like one of my
Best friends,though i do have a boyfriend(soon to become ex as of
tomarrow)and i feel used.cheap. lower then EARTHWORMS cheap.
i belive my boyfriendused me to gain credit with his friends. we
rarely see each other anymore, and when i do see him i cant get
within a ten foot radius because he runs from me! so tomarrow
im going to givehim a peice of mind from me.im really angey about
this, because he lied, he LIED to me saying he liked me.i belived
him at first but as time progressed i disbelived him. now, as
monday comes, he is going to get the full force of it. if he isent
handled to face a marine, oh well, his step dad is one.
(im a young marine.)im hopeing that ill get this over with
before i see my Bestfriend who is in band, like me. X3 he
plays oboe and i play trumpet :3

I think what your doing is a smart idea. I broke up with one of my past boyfriends because my friend told me there was no spark between us, and how we just weren't meant for each other so I didn't tell him directly because I got to be to much of a wimp but my good friend told him for me, and he totally understood.
Now, pertaining to you, if you feel used and stuff, don't be afraid to tell it to his face and break up. I'm sure you're older then me. If I were you I would go up to him and say, "You know, (so and so) I think you've just been using me." Start it off mellow and easy. If he says something like "Use you? know way!" what you could say is something like "Every time you see me nowadays you run from me! I can't even get in a ten foot radius of you!" then really think of something that will bring him down, but not to pick on him. Then maybe you can finally tell him you want to break up.
Hope this helped! Yes I'm young I know, I might be a therapist or something like that.
--AllAtOnce

[Fluffy:3]

I need some advice.

My crush now probably knows I like him, for sure. But I think he knew before The event. Anyway, lately he's been sending me mixed messages. Like, he'll laugh at me when I'm talking about something or try to start conversations with me. But then the funny thing is is that when he starts a conversation and I reply, he'll keep on that topic, even if it's close to impossible to keep on the subject. And then what really made me wonder if he may just like me back was on the Friday before spring break.

So I was absent the day the class had taken pictures for a project, so I took mine with the ancient Mac in the corner of the room. Turns out my crush had never printed his picture, so he went over there, too. So we stood there searching for his picture in the photo library to put it on my flash drive along with my pic to go print it. Well, the whole time we were looking for the pics, he stood like directly next to me. I've never had anyone stand that close to me and I knew it couldn't have been because he couldn't see 'cause he has contacts (new ones). And then the greatest part for me was that he reached over when I had the mouse and put his hand on top of mine to click the picture because he found it first. Now, wouldn't a normal guy just tell you to move your hand? Anyway, we put the pics on the flash drive and took it to the computer with the printer. Again, he sat in the chair right next to me and sat really close to me even though anyone could see that screen from half way across the room. Then he moved the mouse with my hand still on it for the second time to select something on the printer settings! So the printer was having problems and so he went over and messed with it while I'd send the pics to the printer from the computer. Twenty minutes we did that and each time I'd look over to ask if it printed, he'd pause, looking directly at my eyes, and then give an answer. That happened about three times and finally the printer decided to work and printed the pictures.

I'm not really sure if those could be possible signs of him liking me, but he was so friendly and acting very different from his usual self. Could he possibly, just maybe, like me back?

(Sorry it's kinda long >.<)

Any last opinions? I did get two on the previous page, thank you very much!

[.musical.dragon.]

I need some advice.

My crush now probably knows I like him, for sure. But I think he knew before The event. Anyway, lately he's been sending me mixed messages. Like, he'll laugh at me when I'm talking about something or try to start conversations with me. But then the funny thing is is that when he starts a conversation and I reply, he'll keep on that topic, even if it's close to impossible to keep on the subject. And then what really made me wonder if he may just like me back was on the Friday before spring break.

So I was absent the day the class had taken pictures for a project, so I took mine with the ancient Mac in the corner of the room. Turns out my crush had never printed his picture, so he went over there, too. So we stood there searching for his picture in the photo library to put it on my flash drive along with my pic to go print it. Well, the whole time we were looking for the pics, he stood like directly next to me. I've never had anyone stand that close to me and I knew it couldn't have been because he couldn't see 'cause he has contacts (new ones). And then the greatest part for me was that he reached over when I had the mouse and put his hand on top of mine to click the picture because he found it first. Now, wouldn't a normal guy just tell you to move your hand? Anyway, we put the pics on the flash drive and took it to the computer with the printer. Again, he sat in the chair right next to me and sat really close to me even though anyone could see that screen from half way across the room. Then he moved the mouse with my hand still on it for the second time to select something on the printer settings! So the printer was having problems and so he went over and messed with it while I'd send the pics to the printer from the computer. Twenty minutes we did that and each time I'd look over to ask if it printed, he'd pause, looking directly at my eyes, and then give an answer. That happened about three times and finally the printer decided to work and printed the pictures.

I'm not really sure if those could be possible signs of him liking me, but he was so friendly and acting very different from his usual self. Could he possibly, just maybe, like me back?

(Sorry it's kinda long >.<)

Any last opinions? I did get two on the previous page, thank you very much!

It awfully sounds like he likes you back, Fluffy!!! When one of my past crushes found out that I liked him, he acted really awkward for a few days, and then treated me like normal. Now, we're actually pretty good friends. That guy that you like totally is crushing on you. But don't go jumping over the moon, because guys can be kind of(actually, really) stupid sometimes. That's my advice!!!

[.musical.dragon.]

Sorry for the double post...

Okay, so first off, if you don't want to hear anything about my relationships/want to help me, this isn't your topic. Just so you know.

Alright... So first off, I'm not aloud to date. I'm not sure when I'm aloud to, but I think it is next year, depending on the guy. There is this guy who is a grade older than me in one of my classes. One of my friends told me just the other day that he has a crush on me. I don't have a crush back on him, I don't think... That's because I'm not aloud to date, and don't really want to break my mom's rules... I think that I may have accidentally lead him on, but I don't really think that I did... I sure hope that I didn't... Anyways, I have no idea how my emotions are supposed to be, what I should say to him if when he asks me out, and all of that jazz... But there is also some other boys, and I'm not sure if I'm crushing on them or not...

1. The first guy is really nice to me, and is quite attractive. He was also my first real crush. He is in two of my classes and will talk quite freely with me, and it isn't at all awkward. He's friends with a lot of girls though, and has quite an amount of pimples... He is also in my grade, and is very smart.I guess he is sort of popular because of that, and I'm not popular.

2.The second guy is also really nice, and quite attractive. He rides my bus, but is a grade below me. I'm near his age though, because I'm young for my grade. He was dateing this girl in my grade though, and I'm not sure if he still is... Anyways, we would chat on the bus(sitting by each other, always), and laugh a lot. All of a sudden, when he got this girlfriend, it really upset me. I didn't let him sit with me once, and now he never sits by me any more. It's made me really depressed and sad lately...

So, in the end, I don't know if I like one of those two guys, or what I should do if when that guy who is older than me asks me out...

Thank you for reading this and your time!!!

So, I think that I figured out who I have a crush on!!!! I think... I don't really know, because I'm no good with emotions; I have some problems. If you PM me, I may be willing to talk... Anyways... The guy is a year older than me, and at the beginning of this school year, we were great friends. Then, this girl got in between us and we never really talked again... But then today, we talked again because we had this band thing... I'm not one hundred percent sure, but I'm pretty sure he's my crush... I just don't want to "finalize it" because I don't find him attractive... But he's so nice!!! It's just really confusing...

[Mako.]

So, I just finished talking with Max about what to do, and he said he just wants to stay friends. Now, I'm totally cool with that, but now, new advice!

Now I need some help getting over him. Since we are going to stay friends, i'm not going to continue with this crush. Time to move on! Any tips?

[garnet.]

Eek I need help! I'm bi, and I like this girl.
My friends are beginning to guess that I like her and its scaring me. However, now im really worried. Someone who really hates me (but is friends with my friends) figured it out. I've denied it but not overdramatically but she won't believe me. I really don't know what to do, she really hates me so what if she tells my crushes friends and what if my crush finds out. It's possible that she likes me the same but I doubt it personally so I'm really panicking.
Any help is welcomed :3

[Mako.]

So, I just finished talking with Max about what to do, and he said he just wants to stay friends. Now, I'm totally cool with that, but now, new advice!

Now I need some help getting over him. Since we are going to stay friends, i'm not going to continue with this crush. Time to move on! Any tips?