Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Cirque]

today, my boyfriend & I walked around town & ended up getting matching shirts at the Goodwill. c:
We've been together for about three & a half months & have never had a fight, people are always surprised when I tell them that.

[dooze]

gahh I'm in a messy situation. If you could please help me message me? :3

[TyperCloneNr1]

SO am I.
I have this question,
How do you tell a girl you like her if you're a girl?

[dooze]

SO am I.
I have this question,
How do you tell a girl you like her if you're a girl?

Does she like girls too or are you not sure?

[vanilla kitten]

I NEED MAJOR HELP PLEASE.

So, my crush, T, and I have been spending a lot of time together out of school. [Admittedly, I felt whipped for a little while there. I didn't feel like hanging out with him ;~;] We always chill with my bestfriend and his cousin, R, who's a ninth grader. T and I, though, spend a lot of our time kissing. It's cute, sure, but I feel bad because R's always left out and when I hang out with R, T gets mad. Anyway;
Last Monday, I spent the night [which is nothing new. I spend the night there all the time], like normal. Everything was fine, until we were all going to bed. As always, T kissed me and had his arms around me. Except.. Some stuff happened and let's just say, I'm not proud of it. [Yes, it has to do with virginity. But no, I didn't have sex with him.] And today, and I don't know how, but it started going around my school---with major editing. So, right now, I don't know what to do about this.
Advice??

If you want more information/details, Pm me.

[classi]

Oh gosh, he's so cute. xD
I saw him in class and he said hi, and then he said, "how was your... uh... uh..."
He said uh ten times before saying spring break. It's like he forgot what to say. I was trying not to laugh, and I did pretty well, haha. He was so nervous, it was funny/adorable/good feeling because I have no self confidence and the fact that he likes me makes my day a lot better. xD

[kavv]

I'm so broken..
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So of course, there is this guy. And let me remind you, he is no average guy; he is not someone I fell in " love " with at school, you know, the jock, that is " popular " ( or whatever that is suppose to mean ) and has blonde hair and all that carp. No. He is someone utterly.. different. And beautiful in that. He is homeschooled; so none of that peer pressure crap. So he is who he is. But he isn't ' sheltered ' -- he gets out alot with activities, and knows his stuff.
anyways, he is so polite, and such a gentleman, but funny, and just perfect. He is christian too, which is rather important to me, 'cuz well, I am too... ( his father is the pasture. ) I just met him, like, say a month or two ago with my friend ( lets call her Delilah. )
So you see. Delilah is not the one who gets the guy. She is in fact, never the one to get the guy. She's never had a guy ( but she is cool with that. She rides solo. ) She is weird to ( but I love that about her ) as in making weird sounds at random times while spacing off, and wearing weird clothes with stains on them somewhere or other. She is also my bestfriend.
I should also add that this guy wears really sharp clothing; as in all the name brands ( aeropostle and that sort of stuff ) with nice shoes and a wickedd beanie. )
But anyways, we first meet and I have an instant crush on him. I mean, what can I say? He is like. The perfect gentleman. As in prince charming. Like nothing I've ever seen. I can almost look at him like a role model. And he is so funny ( him, me, and delilah played stupid yet hilarious prank on this guy, and he always finds a way to make me giggle.) So, again, we first meet, and like, I have him down. I mean, everything I said he stifled a laugh ( in a good way;; like all my jokes and whatnot. ) And I always caught him staring at me across the room.
But time goes by, and I notice, he's constantly staring at Delilah. I brush this off, thinking Delilah won't really go anywhere with this anyways, but it still bugged me. And now, this past time I see him, it's like, their inseperable. He gives up his seat with the guys to sit next to her, he is always joking around with her, they have this whole stupid inside joke that i'm not part of even though I was part of it when it first happened, and the worst part, that soul shattering part of my whole stupid drama, is that when he left the church that last morning, he came in and waved to her goodbye. He went out of his way for her.
I went home sunday and cried.
And I'm still crying.
Hug anyone? I'm dying inside.

[Bluebird22]

I have been debating posting on here or not, but after today, I just had to get my feelings out there.

So at my youth group there is this guy J who I really, really like. Back in September I went to this retreat thing with a couple of my friends and J was there also. We sat together, hung out, played jokes on each other, and a whole lot of other stuff. At that retreat is when I got a crush on J. It never went away. At youth group there is a a un-said rule that everyone just hugs, and doesn't shake hands-which means I get to hug J mutable times during yg >:D For awhile it seemed like J liked me too. he would always come up to me and talk, got "mad" at me when I didn't hug him goodbye, etc. it was great. Recently this girl E started to come, and she is really nice, pretty, and funny. A great person in general. But I noticed tonight that J started to flirt with her a lot and it seemed like he felt awkward giving me a hug in front of her. J was also throwing paper airplanes at her pretty often (I don't know what the hell that means). After he walked away a little while later I told E that J was flirting with her pretty much. She didn't believe me, but her friend backed me up saying he defiantly way. To tell you all the truth, I was a little jealous of E. In yg tonight we played this game where you had a few minutes and you had mini Q&As with certain people you picked out. In J and I's session we had a great conversation talking about what were our fears, places we want to visit, and other things. I love spending time with J he is so sweet, funny, nice, and smells /great/. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do concerning J? Should I see how it plays out with him and E? I'm really confused about how I should go about things with him. Please help!

[Golden Sun]

SO am I.
I have this question,
How do you tell a girl you like her if you're a girl?

Does she like girls too or are you not sure?

Yeah, it depends on what poetree said. If not, I would be careful, depending on the kind of person she is. You don't want your heart to be broken if you find out that she doesn't feel the same way.

Though I don't mean to sound negative.

[G.L'S]

^ Sometimes a good way to find out if a girl returns your sentiments is to drop subtle cues. If she doesn't think of you the same way or she's really socially unreceptive she won't respond or respond positively to your cues which will allow you to walk away without divulging anything.