Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

For topics which don't fit anywhere else! Discuss the weather, your mood, hobbies and interests. Remember, keep it child-friendly :)

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby Dill » Wed Feb 13, 2013 2:49 pm

I have a problem. So i've liked this guy for a bit, not a super long time, but a while. He's really smart and athelic and *squee*. I don't really like telling my friends who I have a crush on, and its not usually like a quick like-them-for-a-week thing.
So one of my friends announced she has a crush on him. She's the kind of person though that crushes hard, then hates them hard after they reject her. Like glares at them forever after.
I'm not really sure what to do! I want to support her, but it's really hard to when I like/liked for a longer time the same guy as her. I really need some advice!!!
Image
User avatar
Dill
 
Posts: 2558
Joined: Sun Aug 08, 2010 6:08 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby TheBeautifulDarkness » Wed Feb 13, 2013 2:59 pm

~♥ Rosie ♥~ wrote:Theres this creeper/stalker dude that has had a crush on me for like 5+ years and i just found out that on Valentines day hes gonna give me a necklace and ask me out! *Mentally pukes* Idk what to do! Im so embarrassed!


Tell him you dont like him dont sugar coat it, its best to just say it.
Image
User avatar
TheBeautifulDarkness
 
Posts: 2340
Joined: Sun Jun 17, 2012 7:56 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby TheBeautifulDarkness » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:01 pm

I really like this guy and my friends BF told him that I liked him,(they are friends) and now he keeps looking at me in class and its really weird between us now because we used to be sort of friends. I really wanna ask him out before valentines day but I don't know what to say! This is hard.
Image
User avatar
TheBeautifulDarkness
 
Posts: 2340
Joined: Sun Jun 17, 2012 7:56 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby samm. » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:06 pm

Could anyone help me out with Valentines day ideas??

I want to confess to my best friend, I know this could very easily go bad and make our friendship awkward and possibly end it all together, but I don't want to keep these feelings bottled up inside, I want to tell her, no matter the risks..So..How can I tell her? I was thinking of sending her a text or a message on facebook, saying something like "Happy Valentines Day! Oh, and btw, I like you!" Im known for my bluntness, but I think thats pushing it abit too far, don't cha think? I would love to tell her in person, but she goes to public school, while im homeschooled, so we don't meet up often, normally just the weekends..I also thought I could buy her these bracelets we seen and were talking about. She jokingly said we should get them, but maybe I should really get them? One said "I <3 my BF" and the other said "I <3 my GF" Maybe I could get them for us for real..? I would have to get two pairs though, you know, so we could both have one that says "I <3 my GF"..Oh, did I forget to mention, the fact that we're both girls..? Oopsie...









╔════════════════════════════╗
sam, bee, or bug | genderfluid | he/they/she
single | polyromantic demisexual | polyam
omnist | covenless witch | scorpio / ox
infp-t | chaotic good | poet | listo

╚════════════════════════════╝
Image








User avatar
samm.
 
Posts: 8842
Joined: Sun Jun 13, 2010 3:55 pm
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby TheBeautifulDarkness » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:13 pm

Scarlet-Love97 wrote:
Could anyone help me out with Valentines day ideas??

I want to confess to my best friend, I know this could very easily go bad and make our friendship awkward and possibly end it all together, but I don't want to keep these feelings bottled up inside, I want to tell her, no matter the risks..So..How can I tell her? I was thinking of sending her a text or a message on facebook, saying something like "Happy Valentines Day! Oh, and btw, I like you!" Im known for my bluntness, but I think thats pushing it abit too far, don't cha think? I would love to tell her in person, but she goes to public school, while im homeschooled, so we don't meet up often, normally just the weekends..I also thought I could buy her these bracelets we seen and were talking about. She jokingly said we should get them, but maybe I should really get them? One said "I <3 my BF" and the other said "I <3 my GF" Maybe I could get them for us for real..? I would have to get two pairs though, you know, so we could both have one that says "I <3 my GF"..Oh, did I forget to mention, the fact that we're both girls..? Oopsie...



First thing, does she like girls to? I think the bracelet idea would be cute and perfect. I know I would like it and I would feel special.
Image
User avatar
TheBeautifulDarkness
 
Posts: 2340
Joined: Sun Jun 17, 2012 7:56 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby Dill » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:17 pm

Dill wrote:I have a problem. So i've liked this guy for a bit, not a super long time, but a while. He's really smart and athelic and *squee*. I don't really like telling my friends who I have a crush on, and its not usually like a quick like-them-for-a-week thing.
So one of my friends announced she has a crush on him. She's the kind of person though that crushes hard, then hates them hard after they reject her. Like glares at them forever after.
I'm not really sure what to do! I want to support her, but it's really hard to when I like/liked for a longer time the same guy as her. I really need some advice!!!
Image
User avatar
Dill
 
Posts: 2558
Joined: Sun Aug 08, 2010 6:08 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby ~NoeyyIzzaBeast » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:24 pm

Bobby hugged me for the first time today! n.n
Is that a good thing!? :o
And he said my domo is our fake baby.
-dies- curse this huge crush.
Used to be noe9999 dun steal! >:O!
Image
My Birthday Is 03/24/13 So Excited!! ^-^ Happy Birthday To Me!!! :D
"We will never sleep, cause sleep is for the weak."- Bring Me The Horizon

Image
User avatar
~NoeyyIzzaBeast
 
Posts: 1613
Joined: Sat Nov 19, 2011 2:34 pm
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby samm. » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:26 pm

colen7776 wrote:
Scarlet-Love97 wrote:
Could anyone help me out with Valentines day ideas??

I want to confess to my best friend, I know this could very easily go bad and make our friendship awkward and possibly end it all together, but I don't want to keep these feelings bottled up inside, I want to tell her, no matter the risks..So..How can I tell her? I was thinking of sending her a text or a message on facebook, saying something like "Happy Valentines Day! Oh, and btw, I like you!" Im known for my bluntness, but I think thats pushing it abit too far, don't cha think? I would love to tell her in person, but she goes to public school, while im homeschooled, so we don't meet up often, normally just the weekends..I also thought I could buy her these bracelets we seen and were talking about. She jokingly said we should get them, but maybe I should really get them? One said "I <3 my BF" and the other said "I <3 my GF" Maybe I could get them for us for real..? I would have to get two pairs though, you know, so we could both have one that says "I <3 my GF"..Oh, did I forget to mention, the fact that we're both girls..? Oopsie...



First thing, does she like girls to? I think the bracelet idea would be cute and perfect. I know I would like it and I would feel special.


Shes told me before that she is Bi, so yes. And yeah, I thought so too. Though there is one..slight..little..problem..My parents are completly againest gays, bi's, and les people...And I would have to get one of them to take me out to the store to buy them..Meaning when I came back out with the bag, I would either have to hide it from them, or show them it but not tell them whats inside..Which I don't think would sit well with them and they might begin to wonder if im hiding things from them..I could get one of my other friends to go with me, but that would mean i'd have to tell them..I do have one good friend who I can tell and 100% trust him, but im still afraid something will go wrong..I guess I could ask him if hes free any time soon..Never hurts to try, right? And if all else fails, I guess I could tell my parents about it, I mean the whole me being Bi thing..I guess im really stuck on this girl if im willing to tell my parents about it..Hehe <3









╔════════════════════════════╗
sam, bee, or bug | genderfluid | he/they/she
single | polyromantic demisexual | polyam
omnist | covenless witch | scorpio / ox
infp-t | chaotic good | poet | listo

╚════════════════════════════╝
Image








User avatar
samm.
 
Posts: 8842
Joined: Sun Jun 13, 2010 3:55 pm
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby TheBeautifulDarkness » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:30 pm

Scarlet-Love97 wrote:
colen7776 wrote:
Scarlet-Love97 wrote:
Could anyone help me out with Valentines day ideas??

I want to confess to my best friend, I know this could very easily go bad and make our friendship awkward and possibly end it all together, but I don't want to keep these feelings bottled up inside, I want to tell her, no matter the risks..So..How can I tell her? I was thinking of sending her a text or a message on facebook, saying something like "Happy Valentines Day! Oh, and btw, I like you!" Im known for my bluntness, but I think thats pushing it abit too far, don't cha think? I would love to tell her in person, but she goes to public school, while im homeschooled, so we don't meet up often, normally just the weekends..I also thought I could buy her these bracelets we seen and were talking about. She jokingly said we should get them, but maybe I should really get them? One said "I <3 my BF" and the other said "I <3 my GF" Maybe I could get them for us for real..? I would have to get two pairs though, you know, so we could both have one that says "I <3 my GF"..Oh, did I forget to mention, the fact that we're both girls..? Oopsie...



First thing, does she like girls to? I think the bracelet idea would be cute and perfect. I know I would like it and I would feel special.


Shes told me before that she is Bi, so yes. And yeah, I thought so too. Though there is one..slight..little..problem..My parents are completly againest gays, bi's, and les people...And I would have to get one of them to take me out to the store to buy them..Meaning when I came back out with the bag, I would either have to hide it from them, or show them it but not tell them whats inside..Which I don't think would sit well with them and they might begin to wonder if im hiding things from them..I could get one of my other friends to go with me, but that would mean i'd have to tell them..I do have one good friend who I can tell and 100% trust him, but im still afraid something will go wrong..I guess I could ask him if hes free any time soon..Never hurts to try, right? And if all else fails, I guess I could tell my parents about it, I mean the whole me being Bi thing..I guess im really stuck on this girl if im willing to tell my parents about it..Hehe <3


The bracelet idea sound so cute and it would be a great way to introduce you feelings for your friend. I think your parents will support you through who you are and how you feel, they are your parents and should love you no matter what! At the store you could say you were getting a pack for you friend if you don't wanna tell them quite yet. You could also drop hints about it and see if they figure it out. Best of luck to you and your friend, I hope this helps!
Last edited by TheBeautifulDarkness on Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:33 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Image
User avatar
TheBeautifulDarkness
 
Posts: 2340
Joined: Sun Jun 17, 2012 7:56 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby Roonil Wazlib » Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:31 pm

Scarlet-Love97 wrote:
Could anyone help me out with Valentines day ideas??

I want to confess to my best friend, I know this could very easily go bad and make our friendship awkward and possibly end it all together, but I don't want to keep these feelings bottled up inside, I want to tell her, no matter the risks..So..How can I tell her? I was thinking of sending her a text or a message on facebook, saying something like "Happy Valentines Day! Oh, and btw, I like you!" Im known for my bluntness, but I think thats pushing it abit too far, don't cha think? I would love to tell her in person, but she goes to public school, while im homeschooled, so we don't meet up often, normally just the weekends..I also thought I could buy her these bracelets we seen and were talking about. She jokingly said we should get them, but maybe I should really get them? One said "I <3 my BF" and the other said "I <3 my GF" Maybe I could get them for us for real..? I would have to get two pairs though, you know, so we could both have one that says "I <3 my GF"..Oh, did I forget to mention, the fact that we're both girls..? Oopsie...


I think the bracelets would be adorable :) If you maybe bought two 'I Love My GF' ones. I'm sure if you ask the front desk at the store they'd let you get two of just the GF ones
To tell her... I agree, you should tell her face to face. Just say something like "I've had a crush on this person for a while and they're (describe her here)." If you describe her exactly, then she'll take the hint and figure it out.
About your parents...well, if you sit them down and talk to them, they might be mad at you/not understand, but they can never hate you. They're your parents!
Image
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Image
Image Image Image
User avatar
Roonil Wazlib
 
Posts: 5087
Joined: Sat Sep 24, 2011 12:07 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: NixPR, Pandacat101, tok1wartooth and 0 guests