Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[vanilla kitten]

I really just need someone to know this story, and I need some advice as to how I should go about this without gettig hurt. So, here's the story. I decided I'm just going to use their real names because it's easier ;n;


So, there's this boy named Thomas. We dated for about six months last year before everything just blew up and he took my heart and threw it down a hole. He was a complete jerk to me for the remaining month and a half of the school year, and finally I was sent off to my father's for the summer -- with no internet, phone, or anything worth using to communicate with my friends.

During these few weeks, I didn't do a lot to try and talk to my friends anyway. Most of them had betrayed me and went onto "Tom's side" anyway, because they liked him or didn't want to be the only person who would stand up for me.

Finally, at the end of the summer (two weeks before school started) my mom decided that she didn't want my sister and I to live with our father, and she let us come home. I ended up leaving to my friend Elizabeth's for a week -- who Thomas had been on-and-off dating all summer -- and we hung out with him a few times. He flirted with me the entire time and Elizabeth was mad beyond belief.

So, let's skip to just recently -- the night of Friday, January 25th. Thomas had admitted he liked me earlier in the week and he and our friend Keegan came to my house to hang out with me and my cousin, Crystal. We watched some movies and Keegan, my sister, and Crystal were all pretty much asleep. Everyone but Crystal was on my bed (a queen), and Thomas and I were all cuddled up to each other at the one end.

And he kissed me. (I mean we kind of made out, but I feel weird saying that ono") The next few weeks passed by rather quickly and it doesn't even seem like they happened. This is where my bestfriend, Robert (who's Thomas's cousin) comes in.

So, Robby lives with this kid, Carter. I babysit over at their house quite often, and Lyndsee (Carter's mom) had to go to Traverse and my mom wasn't answering her phone. Robby had to go to Tom's, so I ended up going over there with Rob.

We went to some kind of race-thing, and on the way their Thomas was holding my hand under the sweatshirt that was over our laps. We watched the race, and then we ended up walking around for a little bit on the lake. Robby fell in the ice and his feet got wet (just his feet fell in, lolol), so we went back to the car and Tom kept flirting with me and telling Robby, "Yeah, I'd kiss her," and stuff like that.

So that night, Rob got in the shower. I was laying on the opposite end of the couch as Thomas and he patted the spot next to him and said, "Come down on this end," so I did. In the end, we started kissing and I honestly don'g know how, but I ended up on top of him. Robby jumped out of the bathroom and yelled and saw us -- but he didn't see us kissing. He was like, "Woah.."

So then, he went back into the bathroom to get dressed and I moved off of Thomas and back to his side. He started kissing me (and not for the last time. :c) and the next thing I know is Thomas saying, "Oh, sh--." I look over and Robby is standing there. We both started blushing and Robby's like, "SEE I KNEW YOU TWO LIKED EACH OTHER."

For the rest of the night, Thomas kept flirting with me and telling me to sit by him and stuff. Then, we all decided we were tired and went downstairs and of course, Thomas had to lay in the middle and face me. He had to put his arms around me and pull me close to him, and then start kissing me again.

It was so cute uwu ;; The only problem is, I knew that everyone at school would be mad. Nobody wants us together. So I did try to push him away but every time I did, he would pull me back or tighten his arms around me.

Then his mom got home and they helped her carry in groceries. Finally, we went back to bed. Of course, Thomas was in the middle but this time I was trapped against the wall. So when he wrapped his arms around me again there was nothing I can do. Needless to say, he was kissing me again (like seriously get a piece of gum if your mouth needs something to do. I mean I like you but.. Idk haha <3) but this time, he ended up on top of me.

Finally, he moved away and we both fell asleep. Then, that morning at 4, we all randomly woke up at the same time and of course he had to start kissing me again. (In my head I was thinking, "It's four-in-the-f*****g-morning. You're lucky you're as attractive as you are.") Then later, when we actually got up, every time Robby wasn't looking he would like, sneak in little kisses with me. Robby would get sorta mad (COUGHjealousCOUGH) and tell us our lips were going to fall off. And then he kept tackling me on the bed and laying on top of me.

Finally, I was about to leave. But I couldn't find my iPod so Thomas came downstairs to help me find it. Eventually Robby cam down and we found it, but then Thomas and I were alone again because Robby went upstairs. So, I said, "Are you going to hug me, or what?" And laughed. But he did hug me. So he left the room for a second, and I sat down on the bed and was going to check something on my iPod, when he came around the corner, hugged me, gave me a kiss and left all non-chalantly. So we went back upstairs.

Thomas was sitting in the chair and Rob was on the couch. So I went over to Robby and sat down next to him. Thomas got up out of his chair, and squeezed in between the two of us. ;n;

Then I left. uwu
//long story is long.

So, my problem is.. We aren't dating or anything. But we obviously like each other; so I need some advice on what I could do to bring up that conversation without making him feel pressured or awkward. I've got a few ideas, but I want some input from other people.
Also -- should I do something for him for Valentine's Day? .n. Nothing to big; and, preferably something I don't have to do publicly. And I don't want it to be like a card or a pack of candy hearts. I want it to be something small.
And guys.. I love this boy. I didn't really ever stop but, these past few weeks reminded me of it. So, what should I do?

Thanks to anyone who read this <3

[Rexodus]

Long time since I posted on this topic... but hey ho, here it goes.

WARNING: This post is extreamly long... apologies.

So back in September I started to have a crush for this guy in my Graphics class, his name is Harry. I kept it to myself for a few weeks, then my friends kinda caught on that I liked him - which I was fine with, because I trust my friends and I knew they wouldn't tell anyone about it so yeah, I was cool with it. So everything was alright... untill a month later.

So now we are in November, fireworks night is far aproaching and I was hoping my crush would have died out by then. Unfortunatly for me it wasn't, and seeing your crush everyday at school wasn't the greatest thing atal, esspecially when you are like me when you tend to stare at them googly eyes. I kid, but I would see him every day, at lunch time or during graphics class or even between those times (such as on the way to health and social class whilst he went to his since we both go through a long corridor to get to those classes... obsessed much, Lawlie?) and it makes me die a little inside. So in november, we have a holiday called fireworks night, and it is basicaly a night where we set off alot of fireworks and don't care about polution for a night - if you want to know the real reason, google it. So our school each year does a fireworks display for this little celebration, and so for me it was the one day I could actually rid myself of Harry and just enjoy myself. So I go to this fireworks display and I meet my friend Hayley there. I was happy, having a laugh, brought a cold burger and I was having a good time. Untill I noticed him.
I thought ''well, it is a school gathering, it wasn't that uncommon that he would be there. But then when I saw him kiss a person's mask - mind you he is straight and the person's mask he kissed was a dudes so I knew it wasn't serious - I felt extreamly jelous. Now if you know me, I don't get jelous that easy, esspecialy when it comes to guys and the fact I got jelous about this one made me think ''Yupp... This isn't going to go away any time soon...''

Now if that wasn't bad enough that he was there.. it was the fact my mother and sister were there too. Now I must say, love them both but truth be told - they can be a tad bit embarrasing... So I tried to distance myself. so all went well untill the end of the fireworks display. Everyone began to go home, and I wasn't with my friends - no I was with my mother and sister. I being the person I am decided to walk infront of my family at about 50 miles per hour. Now I'm someone who is ''allergic'' to exercise and half of the time I am like a sloth, so doing my cheetah impression made my mother and sister curious. They kept on asking so I just said plainly ''I'll tell you when we get to the car'' considdering Harry was on the other side of the road. So we get back home and the questions were asked again.. so I told them about my crush - and they took it more mature than what I thought they would.

So everything went well, christmas went past, but then in January I didn't have the best month... My friend Karl shares a class with Harry, and it seems that I must have been googly-eyeing him as he had asked Karl if I had a crush on him. Karl replied with a no, which probably killed and buried all hope of even going out with the guy - although there was none in the first place. So then I tell Karl to ask him why he asked, so my buddy went over to the kind sir and did as he was told and asked him. His simple reply was ''ohh, because she keeps on looking at me.''. This told me straight away that he was looking at me too otherwise how on earth would he know. So that happened.
Then if that wasn't the bad thing, this is. Since my mother and sister knew about it, they would pick me up from school. And it just so happened Harry and his friends walked down the hill we drove down... So were driving down the hill, Thrift shop blasting in the car, when my sister and my mother see him. Next thing I see is the window slowly roll down, my mother is looking at me in the mirror above her head, my sister starring at me in the mirror next to her. I saw their plan, and my only words were like a brit would say ''don't you bloody dare..'' Then within a split second I duck in order for Harry to not see me as they both yell out the window ''HARRY!''... this has happened twice now.

So that happened, and then it was last friday when I was at school at lunch... now being the investigator/stalker I am, I know that Harry dosn't have lunch in the dinner hall on Fridays, so I was alright with that and so I was happy, eating my lunch with my friends, just having a good old laugh. Now Harry's class gets let out 20 minutes after we due (we have a house system - a bit like harry potter exept he's in the equivelent of hufflepuff -which is called Phoenix- and I'm in the equivelent of gryffindor -which is called aquilla-) and so I had finished my lunch, and was talking to my other fellow aquillians and pegasi's (the equivelent of ravenclaws) and everything was ok. So I saw harry's friends, they got lunch and went to the table directly infront of me and I was okay with that. But then like some karate master, Harry had appeared. So my friends looked at me and started to laugh as harry and his three friends eyebrows, turnip, and sonic (as I like to call them) sat down infront of me, and as my friend priya kinda headbutted harrys buttox, and I was just sitting there blushing. The thing that embarressed me though was that turnip, sonic, and eyebrows kept on looking at me...

So I was curious, anyone got any tips on getting over a crush.. it's driving me crazy...

[bbgiby]

I really need some help. please, Inbox me.

[kelly.]

-Le story-

The only thing that I'm scared about is that what if he doesn't like me? My friend HL asked 16 if he liked me and he asked as a friend or GF, and she said GF and he said No. I think HL's going to ask him again though.

I'm not sure

Me and 16 are putting like notes into eachothers lockers and when we were texting he made the kissy face with emojis a couple times, but I don't know if he meant it.

We're actually video chatting a lot as well as texting c: We chatted for like 2 hours yesterday and 2 hours the day before that :3 Yesterday we were singing and he said he can't sing but I tried to make him hehe. And I sang too, which I usually don't do in front of people

Well we were talking over video chat and he said he didn't have any friends or anything, but we were talking about it and he said me and my friends were like popular and stuff and when he was in elementary school he wasn't that popular. I don't think he's a flirt though XD

What do you think I should do to see if he likes me again? Should I tell him or get my friend to tell him that I like him?

Okay, so I'm starting to think 16 doesn't like me....his bio on instagram has a besties list and a bffls list, and like people I barely see him talk to are on there and I'm not :c I know I shouldn't be upset about this and it's really silly but still..lol X3

Last week me and 16 were writing on eachother's lockers with expo markers and I wrote some stuff on his c: Then while 16 was opening his locker his friend C comes over and says 'You guys should get close' and i was going to draw on C's face with an expo marker ^^'

[Rated R]

asdfghjkl;
now it's FOR SURE that my crush of idunno
SEVEN YEARS
will be attending the debate meet next weekend.
asdfghjkl
now if he's in my committee, I swear I am going to flip!
This a more a rant than anything. Or a sharing of fabulous news.

Now, how can a shy, nerdy girl with no experience with boys like myself get a shy, nerdy guy with no experience in girls to figure out [without actually telling him] that I like him?
Or bring up the topic of 'who do you like' ?

[Zeee]

okay, today, i totally chickened out when my best friend called B over. i left to put my phone in my locker and she offered to tell him for me, and all i said was i don't care. she did it, and then in class, my other friend said to me, 'do you wanna know what he said?' and i said 'i honestly don't know if i want to or not' and she didn't tell me. then, a while later, i went up to her and i'm all, 'okay, now i'm curious. what did he say?' and she said this: 'he said no thanks' and i literally felt like dying when she told me that. it's pathetic, i know. but apparently he also asked her if he would've hurt my feelings and he didn't mean/want to. i guess at least he was nice about it, instead of saying something like 'omg no why would i like her she's so ugly'. and my best friend finds it really sweet that he was genuinely worried about my feels. but something doesn't line up - why would he care so much about if i liked him or not if he didn't like me back? i dunno, tomorrow i think i'm gonna thank him for being so nice about it. and i guess we're still friends, because he doesn't seem phased by it or anything, and we're still joking around like we did before today. but i guess telling him didn't really matter, because he already knew, but... yea. i told everyone i was fine with it a stuff, just telling 2 of my best friends i was upset. honestly, though... i'm super upset. him saying no completely ruined my day. i'm bawling my eyes out.

i'm. so. pathetic.
xx ✈ airplane.

[vanilla kitten]

I really just need someone to know this story, and I need some advice as to how I should go about this without gettig hurt. So, here's the story. I decided I'm just going to use their real names because it's easier ;n;


So, there's this boy named Thomas. We dated for about six months last year before everything just blew up and he took my heart and threw it down a hole. He was a complete jerk to me for the remaining month and a half of the school year, and finally I was sent off to my father's for the summer -- with no internet, phone, or anything worth using to communicate with my friends.

During these few weeks, I didn't do a lot to try and talk to my friends anyway. Most of them had betrayed me and went onto "Tom's side" anyway, because they liked him or didn't want to be the only person who would stand up for me.

Finally, at the end of the summer (two weeks before school started) my mom decided that she didn't want my sister and I to live with our father, and she let us come home. I ended up leaving to my friend Elizabeth's for a week -- who Thomas had been on-and-off dating all summer -- and we hung out with him a few times. He flirted with me the entire time and Elizabeth was mad beyond belief.

So, let's skip to just recently -- the night of Friday, January 25th. Thomas had admitted he liked me earlier in the week and he and our friend Keegan came to my house to hang out with me and my cousin, Crystal. We watched some movies and Keegan, my sister, and Crystal were all pretty much asleep. Everyone but Crystal was on my bed (a queen), and Thomas and I were all cuddled up to each other at the one end.

And he kissed me. (I mean we kind of made out, but I feel weird saying that ono") The next few weeks passed by rather quickly and it doesn't even seem like they happened. This is where my bestfriend, Robert (who's Thomas's cousin) comes in.

So, Robby lives with this kid, Carter. I babysit over at their house quite often, and Lyndsee (Carter's mom) had to go to Traverse and my mom wasn't answering her phone. Robby had to go to Tom's, so I ended up going over there with Rob.

We went to some kind of race-thing, and on the way their Thomas was holding my hand under the sweatshirt that was over our laps. We watched the race, and then we ended up walking around for a little bit on the lake. Robby fell in the ice and his feet got wet (just his feet fell in, lolol), so we went back to the car and Tom kept flirting with me and telling Robby, "Yeah, I'd kiss her," and stuff like that.

So that night, Rob got in the shower. I was laying on the opposite end of the couch as Thomas and he patted the spot next to him and said, "Come down on this end," so I did. In the end, we started kissing and I honestly don'g know how, but I ended up on top of him. Robby jumped out of the bathroom and yelled and saw us -- but he didn't see us kissing. He was like, "Woah.."

So then, he went back into the bathroom to get dressed and I moved off of Thomas and back to his side. He started kissing me (and not for the last time. :c) and the next thing I know is Thomas saying, "Oh, sh--." I look over and Robby is standing there. We both started blushing and Robby's like, "SEE I KNEW YOU TWO LIKED EACH OTHER."

For the rest of the night, Thomas kept flirting with me and telling me to sit by him and stuff. Then, we all decided we were tired and went downstairs and of course, Thomas had to lay in the middle and face me. He had to put his arms around me and pull me close to him, and then start kissing me again.

It was so cute uwu ;; The only problem is, I knew that everyone at school would be mad. Nobody wants us together. So I did try to push him away but every time I did, he would pull me back or tighten his arms around me.

Then his mom got home and they helped her carry in groceries. Finally, we went back to bed. Of course, Thomas was in the middle but this time I was trapped against the wall. So when he wrapped his arms around me again there was nothing I can do. Needless to say, he was kissing me again (like seriously get a piece of gum if your mouth needs something to do. I mean I like you but.. Idk haha <3) but this time, he ended up on top of me.

Finally, he moved away and we both fell asleep. Then, that morning at 4, we all randomly woke up at the same time and of course he had to start kissing me again. (In my head I was thinking, "It's four-in-the-f*****g-morning. You're lucky you're as attractive as you are.") Then later, when we actually got up, every time Robby wasn't looking he would like, sneak in little kisses with me. Robby would get sorta mad (COUGHjealousCOUGH) and tell us our lips were going to fall off. And then he kept tackling me on the bed and laying on top of me.

Finally, I was about to leave. But I couldn't find my iPod so Thomas came downstairs to help me find it. Eventually Robby cam down and we found it, but then Thomas and I were alone again because Robby went upstairs. So, I said, "Are you going to hug me, or what?" And laughed. But he did hug me. So he left the room for a second, and I sat down on the bed and was going to check something on my iPod, when he came around the corner, hugged me, gave me a kiss and left all non-chalantly. So we went back upstairs.

Thomas was sitting in the chair and Rob was on the couch. So I went over to Robby and sat down next to him. Thomas got up out of his chair, and squeezed in between the two of us. ;n;

Then I left. uwu
//long story is long.

So, my problem is.. We aren't dating or anything. But we obviously like each other; so I need some advice on what I could do to bring up that conversation without making him feel pressured or awkward. I've got a few ideas, but I want some input from other people.
Also -- should I do something for him for Valentine's Day? .n. Nothing to big; and, preferably something I don't have to do publicly. And I don't want it to be like a card or a pack of candy hearts. I want it to be something small.
And guys.. I love this boy. I didn't really ever stop but, these past few weeks reminded me of it. So, what should I do?

Thanks to anyone who read this <3

[kelly.]

okay, today, i totally chickened out when my best friend called B over. i left to put my phone in my locker and she offered to tell him for me, and all i said was i don't care. she did it, and then in class, my other friend said to me, 'do you wanna know what he said?' and i said 'i honestly don't know if i want to or not' and she didn't tell me. then, a while later, i went up to her and i'm all, 'okay, now i'm curious. what did he say?' and she said this: 'he said no thanks' and i literally felt like dying when she told me that. it's pathetic, i know. but apparently he also asked her if he would've hurt my feelings and he didn't mean/want to. i guess at least he was nice about it, instead of saying something like 'omg no why would i like her she's so ugly'. and my best friend finds it really sweet that he was genuinely worried about my feels. but something doesn't line up - why would he care so much about if i liked him or not if he didn't like me back? i dunno, tomorrow i think i'm gonna thank him for being so nice about it. and i guess we're still friends, because he doesn't seem phased by it or anything, and we're still joking around like we did before today. but i guess telling him didn't really matter, because he already knew, but... yea. i told everyone i was fine with it a stuff, just telling 2 of my best friends i was upset. honestly, though... i'm super upset. him saying no completely ruined my day. i'm bawling my eyes out.

i'm. so. pathetic.
xx ✈ airplane.

Awww, it's okay c: At least he knows, so if he every changes his mind then he could ask you out. Do you know the exact words your friend told B? And maybe he said no thanks because you weren't the one telling him that you liked him.

[P o m]

So it was my crush's birthday today.

I work the school's canteen, so I bought him a frozen yogurt. I gave it to him and then realized I was blushing so I walked away really fast. I was about to go do something in class when he ran up to me and hugged me to thank me.

I swear I was smiling like an idiot.

[Zeee]

okay, today, i totally chickened out when my best friend called B over. i left to put my phone in my locker and she offered to tell him for me, and all i said was i don't care. she did it, and then in class, my other friend said to me, 'do you wanna know what he said?' and i said 'i honestly don't know if i want to or not' and she didn't tell me. then, a while later, i went up to her and i'm all, 'okay, now i'm curious. what did he say?' and she said this: 'he said no thanks' and i literally felt like dying when she told me that. it's pathetic, i know. but apparently he also asked her if he would've hurt my feelings and he didn't mean/want to. i guess at least he was nice about it, instead of saying something like 'omg no why would i like her she's so ugly'. and my best friend finds it really sweet that he was genuinely worried about my feels. but something doesn't line up - why would he care so much about if i liked him or not if he didn't like me back? i dunno, tomorrow i think i'm gonna thank him for being so nice about it. and i guess we're still friends, because he doesn't seem phased by it or anything, and we're still joking around like we did before today. but i guess telling him didn't really matter, because he already knew, but... yea. i told everyone i was fine with it a stuff, just telling 2 of my best friends i was upset. honestly, though... i'm super upset. him saying no completely ruined my day. i'm bawling my eyes out.

i'm. so. pathetic.
xx ✈ airplane.

Awww, it's okay c: At least he knows, so if he every changes his mind then he could ask you out. Do you know the exact words your friend told B? And maybe he said no thanks because you weren't the one telling him that you liked him.

no, i don't know exactly what she said, but i'll ask her when she gets back from wherever she had to go today. that could be the reason, but i find it unlikely... i didn't think he liked me anyways, so i guess i didn't really expect him to say yes...
xx ✈ airplane.