Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Lioness626]

i don't even know if B and i are friends... i have no idea where i stand with him... it's like, one day he likes me, then the next he doesn't want anything to do with me. and it's a cycle. he calls me funny, then the next day he calls me a loser. i just want him to make up his mind...

I have the same problem, good luck, and dont let it get to you. Someone suggested to me maybe they get scared of being close and back off, could this fit?

[Lana1171]

I embarrassed myself in front of him today :'( *runs and cries in corner* well I was with my two friends walking to a class that he wouldn't of never ever picked! And we came late and he was sitting there and I went red I got a surprised and now I am nervous to act myself because its drama and we did a performance in the class I got into his group and when it was our turn to perform in front of the class I stuffed up all the words because of him , I can't talk in front of him and now my mum says if I don't get good grades in drama i am in trouble :'( lovely and all my friends could do is laugh at me

Any advice I have class with him tomorrow I don't want to embarrass myself anymore I can't even talk that pod around him thanks

[thunderofthedrum]

Okay I really need help...PLEASE!
SO today is my birthday, and my boyfriend of like 3 weeks hasnt even texted me or called me all he did was write "happy bday" on my facebook... He has been ignoring me all week at school, barely said 10 words to me, doesnt text me like at all anymore...but last sunday he told me loved me -.- I'm SOOOO confused!! Should I give him this week to step it up and if he doesnt should i breakup with him on friday?

Let's not kid ourselves - you guys have only been dating for three weeks. That's not even a month. Give him another week if you want, but if he really has been ignoring you then maybe he's lost interest in the relationship but doesn't know how to say so. Approach him, ask if he's okay, mention that you feel like he's ignoring you. If you guys break up - it's not the end of the world. And, to make sure - he knows it's your birthday, right? I don't know if my boyfriend of 10+ months even remembers the exact day of my birthday (even though we knew each other when my birthday came around last year) so what I will probably do is say something the day before so he can be sure.

{:: So, I have a question, so if anybody is able to give me advice on this I am super grateful!
So, there is this guy. And I feel like we were meant to be together. I feel like he likes me, and I know that I like him. I really want to ask him to be my boyfriend, but I am so worried. I mean, I have been rejected before, and I do not want to go through that whole thing again.
So I need advice on how I should ask him, casually, to be my boyfriend. Or at least how to know if he likes me. Thanks in advance for anybody who is able to respind to this!

The second thing- I need to figure this out once and for all- Is it wrong to date a guy that used to date a friend of yours (and had an ugly break up)? I don't want to be a bad friend, but if I really like this boy... idk. ;__;

~Squid! xx

Okay, about the second thing: honestly, I think the best thing to do would be to ask your friend. Let her know you feel really bad for putting her in that position but you really like this guy. That you value her friendship and don't want to make her uncomfortable, you don't want to let her find out about you and this boy from someone else instead of straight from you. Yes, you risk her saying she doesn't want you to do it, but you surely know your friend better than you know this boy, so generally I would think the friendship to be a higher priority.

First off, I would like to say sorry for ignoring everyone's rants, I just can't take all the stress right now with what's going on. I promise I will give you all advice as soon as possible!

So yeah, I do have a boyfriend. But honestly, I don't know if he really likes me. He has a known reputation for just dating girls for no reason. He always says he does, but I just don't know if I can believe it anymore. Recently, I've been catching him in a bunch of lies. And a couple days ago he admitted he ignores me when I text him. When I see him in person, he ignores me and walks away. He also deletes all my comments on his pictures ... I don't know what to do. Everyone knows he lies too. Help?

Break up with him. It sounds like he is a serial dater and hasn't even bothered to get to know you at all. To ignore your texts and then even ADMIT it - that is just ridiculous and incredibly mean. Walking away when you approach, I would read that as he has lost interest. Deleting your comments on his pictures - that's like he doesn't even want people to see. That is just MEAN. If you guys weren't friends and you were a weird stalker with a crush on him, then all of his actions would make more sense. But since you are his GIRLFRIEND, he really is not acting appropriately at all. Even if you are chatty and your boyfriend is not, he should still want to know how your day was. This guy doesn't want to know ANYTHING.

I don't comment a whole lot in here because it's hard to give advice without being in the situation myself, however I feel his actions are all very clear and impossible to ignore. Stop wasting your time with him. Don't wait for him to dump you, leaving you crushed and wondering what you did wrong. Break up with him now, before you get more invested in a guy who obviously doesn't give a crap.

[eleven.]

Hi. ok, so this is the delio. I like this guy, and he likes me. But, he is 4 years older than me. He is going into college this fall. I am a little worried, because I think he is planning on asking my dad if he can date me. Would it be weird if he did? Thank you so much!
honey;

[pizzas and scream]

still haven't seen any good faces on the dopey dating sites. I really would perfer someone I find pretty, than give "the guy who sent me a heart who looks like a living real world version of Homer Simpson"

I also do not get all the guys from India wanning to smooze with me. I won't do a LD like that. and I am skeptical that it's not "Indian men find me irristable" I think it's more like "Indian marraige scam, just want to marry an American"

Hi. ok, so this is the delio. I like this guy, and he likes me. But, he is 4 years older than me. He is going into college this fall. I am a little worried, because I think he is planning on asking my dad if he can date me. Would it be weird if he did? Thank you so much!
honey;

I think it would make it legal then.

[K9.]

still haven't seen any good faces on the dopey dating sites. I really would perfer someone I find pretty, than give "the guy who sent me a heart who looks like a living real world version of Homer Simpson"

I also do not get all the guys from India wanning to smooze with me. I won't do a LD like that. and I am skeptical that it's not "Indian men find me irristable" I think it's more like "Indian marraige scam, just want to marry an American"

Hi. ok, so this is the delio. I like this guy, and he likes me. But, he is 4 years older than me. He is going into college this fall. I am a little worried, because I think he is planning on asking my dad if he can date me. Would it be weird if he did? Thank you so much!
honey;

I think it would make it legal then.

Dating sites are a pain in the bum, I joined a site though that was not even a dating site and ended up dating a amazing guy who I love dearly so don't give up!

[kelly.]

-Le story-

The only thing that I'm scared about is that what if he doesn't like me? My friend HL asked 16 if he liked me and he asked as a friend or GF, and she said GF and he said No. I think HL's going to ask him again though.

I'm not sure

Me and 16 are putting like notes into eachothers lockers and when we were texting he made the kissy face with emojis a couple times, but I don't know if he meant it.

We're actually video chatting a lot as well as texting c: We chatted for like 2 hours yesterday and 2 hours the day before that :3 Yesterday we were singing and he said he can't sing but I tried to make him hehe. And I sang too, which I usually don't do in front of people

Well we were talking over video chat and he said he didn't have any friends or anything, but we were talking about it and he said me and my friends were like popular and stuff and when he was in elementary school he wasn't that popular. I don't think he's a flirt though XD

What do you think I should do to see if he likes me again? Should I tell him or get my friend to tell him that I like him?

Okay, so I'm starting to think 16 doesn't like me....his bio on instagram has a besties list and a bffls list, and like people I barely see him talk to are on there and I'm not :c I know I shouldn't be upset about this and it's really silly but still..lol X3

Last week me and 16 were writing on eachother's lockers with expo markers and I wrote some stuff on his c: Then while 16 was opening his locker his friend C comes over and says 'You guys should get close' and i was going to draw on C's face with an expo marker ^^'

[bast,]

I have a problem I know I shouldn't really be sad about, since what happens happens.
I've liked this guy since September, lets call him Shrimp { Not that he's short, in fact he's 5' 10". He just finds it funny how I eat shrimp at lunch }. Sad, I know. Whats even more sad is that sometime around late October, he started dating this girl I hate. She's one of the athletic popular's, but her voice is all high pitched. And, she's an idiot. She's always asking stupid questions in class and drawing attention to herself. Lets call her stupid walrus { She's not fat, just to let everybody know }.

Shrimp sits at my table at lunch, along with his best friend, and my 4 other best friends. I'm the one who talks to him the most, other than his friend. We always are laughing and talking and joking around. It makes me really sad when I realize that he's dating Walrus. Whenever that happens, I look really sad or whatever. My friends always ask whats wrong, and I always tell them I'm cold or tired, but I'm just feeling so many mixed emotions about Shrimp.

The other day he posted on facebook "rate/date". He "rated" me at an 8, and said he would probably date me.
I'm so confused as to whats going on. To add to it, although I couldn't be there, at one of my friends new years parties, which Shrimp also couldn't make, his best friend and all of the friends who sit at my lunch table decided that Walrus was only dating Shrimp to be popular. I noticed this too, since she always looks blank and unhappy when their talking.

[classi]

He said hi! :3
And, when he and is friend were walking by my locker (his locker is near mine and he has a loud/distinctive voice... his friend has a distinctive voice too) and his friend said, "D, look who it is-" when he was right behind me. D only really talks to me if I notice him... maybe he's afraid that if he just comes up to me I'll reject him? It's cute how shy he is around me when he's a pretty outgoing guy. (:
And, he got a new haircut. OHMYGOSH. It's so cute. It's quite honestly my most favorite haircut for a guy in the world. xD

[-Cora-]

Hey guys this is a matter of life and death here... I can't think of anything to get my guy for V day. XD no but seriously I could use some Ideas. PM me please!