Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

For topics which don't fit anywhere else! Discuss the weather, your mood, hobbies and interests. Remember, keep it child-friendly :)

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby bast, » Mon Feb 04, 2013 12:29 pm

starry eyed; wrote:
I have a problem I know I shouldn't really be sad about, since what happens happens.
I've liked this guy since September, lets call him Shrimp { Not that he's short, in fact he's 5' 10". He just finds it funny how I eat shrimp at lunch }. Sad, I know. Whats even more sad is that sometime around late October, he started dating this girl I hate. She's one of the athletic popular's, but her voice is all high pitched. And, she's an idiot. She's always asking stupid questions in class and drawing attention to herself. Lets call her stupid walrus { She's not fat, just to let everybody know }.

Shrimp sits at my table at lunch, along with his best friend, and my 4 other best friends. I'm the one who talks to him the most, other than his friend. We always are laughing and talking and joking around. It makes me really sad when I realize that he's dating Walrus. Whenever that happens, I look really sad or whatever. My friends always ask whats wrong, and I always tell them I'm cold or tired, but I'm just feeling so many mixed emotions about Shrimp.

The other day he posted on facebook "rate/date". He "rated" me at an 8, and said he would probably date me.
I'm so confused as to whats going on. To add to it, although I couldn't be there, at one of my friends new years parties, which Shrimp also couldn't make, his best friend and all of the friends who sit at my lunch table decided that Walrus was only dating Shrimp to be popular. I noticed this too, since she always looks blank and unhappy when their talking.

I would like some help, if anybody would be so kind as to offer. Sorry. ^-^
bast,
 
Posts: 3626
Joined: Mon Aug 15, 2011 9:09 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby luxuriantluke » Mon Feb 04, 2013 12:36 pm

PerfectImperfection wrote:I am soo angry
these girls are such ***ches!
like they are trying to A look bad for flirting and calling guys attractive
and shes SINGLE
she is ALOUD to do that
shes not dating M
well i dont think they are gonna date again since of what happened
they are trying to influence M!
i was sitting on the bleechers, a row right below them and i could hear EVERYTHING
im not dumb
who cares if i eavesdropped, im trying to protect my friend here
and then i told her and she cried
and M looked so sad
its kinda his fault, he is kinda using her
then A told me that he wanted to try the new girl that was coming to the school
haha have fun!
she may act 'nice' but she is so rude.
A said she says hes not worth it and that shes moving on to J, who is much more
considerate
So i hope M doesnt crawl back and say "oh i still like you and i want you back"
IM SO ANGRY >_<
5 Seconds of Summer

Image
User avatar
luxuriantluke
 
Posts: 5490
Joined: Wed Feb 22, 2012 2:54 pm
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby ever after; » Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:17 pm

First off, I would like to say sorry for ignoring everyone's rants, I just can't take all the stress right now with what's going on. I promise I will give you all advice as soon as possible!

So yeah, I do have a boyfriend. But honestly, I don't know if he really likes me. He has a known reputation for just dating girls for no reason. He always says he does, but I just don't know if I can believe it anymore. Recently, I've been catching him in a bunch of lies. And a couple days ago he admitted he ignores me when I text him. When I see him in person, he ignores me and walks away. He also deletes all my comments on his pictures ... I don't know what to do. Everyone knows he lies too. Help?
Image
Image
Image
-------------------------------------
You thought by now
You'd have it figured out
You can't erase the way it pulls
When seasons change
It hurts sometimes
To find where you begin
But you are perfect porcelain

-------------------------------------
Image
User avatar
ever after;
 
Posts: 330
Joined: Mon Sep 10, 2012 1:47 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby kelly. » Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:19 pm

Kay wrote:
First off, I would like to say sorry for ignoring everyone's rants, I just can't take all the stress right now with what's going on. I promise I will give you all advice as soon as possible!

So yeah, I do have a boyfriend. But honestly, I don't know if he really likes me. He has a known reputation for just dating girls for no reason. He always says he does, but I just don't know if I can believe it anymore. Recently, I've been catching him in a bunch of lies. And a couple days ago he admitted he ignores me when I text him. When I see him in person, he ignores me and walks away. He also deletes all my comments on his pictures ... I don't know what to do. Everyone knows he lies too. Help?


You should try going up to him in real life and asking him why he isn't talking to you anymore, and if he truly does like you. If he doesn't, that wouldn't make sense since you guys are dating. Do you like him? If so, then just ask why he isn't answering your texts and isn't talking to you
Image
art by bear ♡
User avatar
kelly.
 
Posts: 3505
Joined: Thu Mar 15, 2012 12:51 pm
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby ever after; » Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:21 pm

DisabledDinosaur wrote:
Kay wrote:
First off, I would like to say sorry for ignoring everyone's rants, I just can't take all the stress right now with what's going on. I promise I will give you all advice as soon as possible!

So yeah, I do have a boyfriend. But honestly, I don't know if he really likes me. He has a known reputation for just dating girls for no reason. He always says he does, but I just don't know if I can believe it anymore. Recently, I've been catching him in a bunch of lies. And a couple days ago he admitted he ignores me when I text him. When I see him in person, he ignores me and walks away. He also deletes all my comments on his pictures ... I don't know what to do. Everyone knows he lies too. Help?


You should try going up to him in real life and asking him why he isn't talking to you anymore, and if he truly does like you. If he doesn't, that wouldn't make sense since you guys are dating. Do you like him? If so, then just ask why he isn't answering your texts and isn't talking to you


Yes I do like him. And he knows that too.
Image
Image
Image
-------------------------------------
You thought by now
You'd have it figured out
You can't erase the way it pulls
When seasons change
It hurts sometimes
To find where you begin
But you are perfect porcelain

-------------------------------------
Image
User avatar
ever after;
 
Posts: 330
Joined: Mon Sep 10, 2012 1:47 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby kelly. » Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:27 pm

Kay wrote:
DisabledDinosaur wrote:
Kay wrote:
First off, I would like to say sorry for ignoring everyone's rants, I just can't take all the stress right now with what's going on. I promise I will give you all advice as soon as possible!

So yeah, I do have a boyfriend. But honestly, I don't know if he really likes me. He has a known reputation for just dating girls for no reason. He always says he does, but I just don't know if I can believe it anymore. Recently, I've been catching him in a bunch of lies. And a couple days ago he admitted he ignores me when I text him. When I see him in person, he ignores me and walks away. He also deletes all my comments on his pictures ... I don't know what to do. Everyone knows he lies too. Help?


You should try going up to him in real life and asking him why he isn't talking to you anymore, and if he truly does like you. If he doesn't, that wouldn't make sense since you guys are dating. Do you like him? If so, then just ask why he isn't answering your texts and isn't talking to you


Yes I do like him. And he knows that too.


Then you should probably ask him if he likes you back, since you two are dating. Try to talk to him about the Super Bowl or something XD Im pretty sure it'll be easy to start a conversation with a guy about sports.
Image
art by bear ♡
User avatar
kelly.
 
Posts: 3505
Joined: Thu Mar 15, 2012 12:51 pm
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby Zeee » Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:51 pm

i don't even know if B and i are friends... i have no idea where i stand with him... it's like, one day he likes me, then the next he doesn't want anything to do with me. and it's a cycle. he calls me funny, then the next day he calls me a loser. i just want him to make up his mind...
feelsjoelman
User avatar
Zeee
 
Posts: 15044
Joined: Fri Jul 02, 2010 6:13 pm
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby greysilence » Mon Feb 04, 2013 2:20 pm

It has been a long time since I last posted. So, beware, this post is going to end up being obnoxiously long.

I realize now that I don't miss Jon (the person I liked for almost a year and a half), I miss the feelings that I got from him. But I'm pretty sure this new guy I've found will give me better feelings than that. He already does. :3
About, two weekends ago? I don't know, it was on the 20th of January, there was a lock-in. This kid, Coty, he's a year older than me. I've seen him before, and we've said a few words to each other before...I think. xD Anyways, we sorta like hit it off immediately. We started flirting and all kinds of stuff. Now, note, I'm extremely shy and awkward. And I wasn't. At all. ^-^
Me being as dumb as I am, didn't pick up the hint when he kept asking for my phone. Towards the end I gave it to him and he called his phone so he'd have my number and I'd have his. So the lock-in was Sunday night to Monday morning. We ended up texting the majority of Monday.
Then, stupid people can't mind their own business. -.- And people told him I like him, I wanted to date him, etc. I never said any of those things, to anyone. He ended up texting me "I don't want to date anyone right now. It's not that I don't like you." That was how I found out people were saying stuff. We would say hi or smile when we passed each other in the halls, but that was it after that. I didn't want to text him because I felt like I was annoying him. Then one day he texted me because there was a misunderstanding with something that happened. And we sorta started talking again. So maybe every other day or every couple days we'll text.
He already treats me better than Jon ever did. Plus, he's super sweet. He's not like a major player either, which makes me less wary about talking with him. I don't know, I just feel like he's different. But he makes me happy. :p

I couldn't contain myself any longer, I had to let it out. lol This ended up being a lot shorter than I expected because I left a lot of stuff out. xD Oh well. I'll try to keep you guys updated if anything new happens. c:
I'm an old member becoming active again.
User avatar
greysilence
 
Posts: 7974
Joined: Tue Jun 22, 2010 10:15 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby provolone » Mon Feb 04, 2013 2:35 pm

Kay wrote:
First off, I would like to say sorry for ignoring everyone's rants, I just can't take all the stress right now with what's going on. I promise I will give you all advice as soon as possible!

So yeah, I do have a boyfriend. But honestly, I don't know if he really likes me. He has a known reputation for just dating girls for no reason. He always says he does, but I just don't know if I can believe it anymore. Recently, I've been catching him in a bunch of lies. And a couple days ago he admitted he ignores me when I text him. When I see him in person, he ignores me and walks away. He also deletes all my comments on his pictures ... I don't know what to do. Everyone knows he lies too. Help?


Break up with him. If he's lying to you about things that really don't matter he's not going to tell the truth when it comes to something important. You may still like him, but I mean come on. He sounds like a player. He's ignoring your texts..And that's plain rude. My boyfriend doesn't have texting so be thankful you guys can even talk. Ignoring is seriously a turn-off. If everyone knows he lies, why date him in the first place?

Stay away from guys like him. They like to brag about how many girls they get. You might not have wanted to hear this..But I'm just giving you my advise, take it or leave it. I wish you luck with him
Image
User avatar
provolone
 
Posts: 554
Joined: Fri Jun 10, 2011 7:12 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby ever after; » Mon Feb 04, 2013 2:45 pm

Thanks for the advice everyone. I'm going to talk to him tomorrow. I can tell when he's lying, so if he is, then I guess I'll break up with him.
Image
Image
Image
-------------------------------------
You thought by now
You'd have it figured out
You can't erase the way it pulls
When seasons change
It hurts sometimes
To find where you begin
But you are perfect porcelain

-------------------------------------
Image
User avatar
ever after;
 
Posts: 330
Joined: Mon Sep 10, 2012 1:47 am
My pets
My items
My wishlist
My gallery
My scenes
My dressups
Trade with me

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: Cheyezzz, hellevi and 2 guests