Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[lioness99a]

Guys, look at the video my crush sent me the other day! It's the most adorable thing I think I've ever watched but now I can't help wondering if he meant anything by it... What do you guys think?

(for the benefit of those of you who haven't heard my story-it's fairly clear that we both like each other but neither of us has had the confidence to actually say anything to the other yet...)

[Ebby20]

Guys, look at the video my crush sent me the other day! It's the most adorable thing I think I've ever watched but now I can't help wondering if he meant anything by it... What do you guys think?

(for the benefit of those of you who haven't heard my story-it's fairly clear that we both like each other but neither of us has had the confidence to actually say anything to the other yet...)

That video was so cute! And I do think that it is possible that that meant something. But it also depends on the guy. Do you think he's the type to show his affection through something like this? Or do you think he simply liked the animation and wanted to share it with you? I think it also kind of depends on if you are friends or not, because if you aren't, I doubt he would share it with you because he enjoyed the animation. But if you do think that he would send a girl he liked this, then maybe he did mean something by it!

And as for you both being too shy, I fully understand that. I've been through that a lot. But if you really want to go forward in the relationship, you might need to be the one to take the first step, especially if it really doesn't seem like he'll say something first. I did it with my first real boyfriend when we were both really shy, and it made him so relieved and happy that I said something first. Don't be scared about what might happen. Be confident, and I'd recommend simply asking if he likes you. When I did it, I mentioned how my friends were getting the idea that he liked me, so you may take a similar approach. Good luck, if you choose to do so!

[thunderofthedrum]

Relationships are largely overrated, my friends, and not all of them are good for you. uvu

I souND LIKE A PESSIMIST NO MAN I'M NOT SAYING THEY'RE ALL AWFUL

But you really gotta just like

chill out i guess

yeah

and if you ARE in a relationship, please, please don't do what I did and base your entire crispin' life around 'em because wOW THAT ENDED BADLY AND LEFT ME A WRECK AHAHA.

Tends to be a lesson learned only through personal experience, I've observed. Teens are young and inexperienced. They are still growing and are full of hormones. They're at the age where they feel they can do anything, they are immortal, they know how to make all their own decisions yet have never actually MADE any big decisions and had to deal with the consequences. Love still seems so perfect and entirely possible. So yeah, you meet someone and they seem amazing. Things are going so well and you begin to date, so it makes sense that you begin to base a lot of your life off of them. They become your whole world. But no one is perfect. Things fizzle out, someone cheats, y'all fight - whatever the case, things end. That's just life!

The way I see my relationship with my boyfriend is that we are still individuals. We still lead our own lives. Yes our paths are now alongside each other and very much linked, but they are not joined into one life. We are TWO people. Also, I've always been a little too realistic for my own good and I am very much aware of the fact that we may not be together forever. Would I move with him to New Mexico? Not unless I found a way that it benefits us equally, like me getting a job or internship there and making sure we both have jobs there. I would not blindly follow him to another state, as much as it would hurt to see him go. Of course, this all may have to do with me being in my mid-twenties and I've never been boy crazy.

[bast,]

I have a problem I know I shouldn't really be sad about, since what happens happens.
I've liked this guy since September, lets call him Shrimp { Not that he's short, in fact he's 5' 10". He just finds it funny how I eat shrimp at lunch }. Sad, I know. Whats even more sad is that sometime around late October, he started dating this girl I hate. She's one of the athletic popular's, but her voice is all high pitched. And, she's an idiot. She's always asking stupid questions in class and drawing attention to herself. Lets call her stupid walrus { She's not fat, just to let everybody know }.

Shrimp sits at my table at lunch, along with his best friend, and my 4 other best friends. I'm the one who talks to him the most, other than his friend. We always are laughing and talking and joking around. It makes me really sad when I realize that he's dating Walrus. Whenever that happens, I look really sad or whatever. My friends always ask whats wrong, and I always tell them I'm cold or tired, but I'm just feeling so many mixed emotions about Shrimp.

The other day he posted on facebook "rate/date". He "rated" me at an 8, and said he would probably date me.
I'm so confused as to whats going on. To add to it, although I couldn't be there, at one of my friends new years parties, which Shrimp also couldn't make, his best friend and all of the friends who sit at my lunch table decided that Walrus was only dating Shrimp to be popular. I noticed this too, since she always looks blank and unhappy when their talking.

[lioness99a]

Guys, look at the video my crush sent me the other day! It's the most adorable thing I think I've ever watched but now I can't help wondering if he meant anything by it... What do you guys think?

(for the benefit of those of you who haven't heard my story-it's fairly clear that we both like each other but neither of us has had the confidence to actually say anything to the other yet...)

That video was so cute! And I do think that it is possible that that meant something. But it also depends on the guy. Do you think he's the type to show his affection through something like this? Or do you think he simply liked the animation and wanted to share it with you? I think it also kind of depends on if you are friends or not, because if you aren't, I doubt he would share it with you because he enjoyed the animation. But if you do think that he would send a girl he liked this, then maybe he did mean something by it!

And as for you both being too shy, I fully understand that. I've been through that a lot. But if you really want to go forward in the relationship, you might need to be the one to take the first step, especially if it really doesn't seem like he'll say something first. I did it with my first real boyfriend when we were both really shy, and it made him so relieved and happy that I said something first. Don't be scared about what might happen. Be confident, and I'd recommend simply asking if he likes you. When I did it, I mentioned how my friends were getting the idea that he liked me, so you may take a similar approach. Good luck, if you choose to do so!

Firstly, thanks for replying! We are extremely close friends and have kind of been 'couply' for several weeks but neither of us has actually said anything yet... I'm relatively certain that it's his way of trying to break the ice as such but now I don't know what to say to him. I emailed him back and said 'Awww... that was adorable! : )' but he hasn't replied to it yet (and I haven't seen him in person since he sent it).

I know he is capable of getting up enough confidence to say he likes someone because he dated my best friend for 10 days (long story...) and he asked her out not the other way around. At the moment our relationship seems to be going in the same kind of direction that their's went (him starting to break the touch barrier by sitting closer than before and us sharing jokes based on email conversations we've had) so hopefully he's going to say something soon but, if he doesn't, I'll have to take matters into my own hands...

Thanks for the advice

[Julia]

Hey, Everyone.

I have a huge problem.
Please, dont joke or judge..

Okay. So.. My boyfriend and I, lets call him C and me S, have been dating for about a year and six months now.

So we decided we could 'speed things up' in, like, August. So, yes, we did that 'thing'. And at first, I was terrified. Then I was more or less like, "Everythings okay. Shut up, mind.,". But now.. I think Im pregnant. Im only 12-14 years old.

I told my mom, she said we need a test, and to give it up for adoption. I said, "No. Mom.. I want an abortion." And she keeps trying to talk me out of it..
I am not having a child.
I'd rather have an abortion.
Why?
1 - You could die giving birth.
2 - I cant live knowing someone so close to me is alive and doesnt know of me.
3 - Having a baby could ruin my whole life. Whether I have him\her or not.

But, you see, my Dad thinks C and I only kiss. And C's parents are aware of the 'thing', they just dunno about me pissibly being Pregnant. Only my mom, C, and my besest friend knows.

I need to find a way to have an abortion thats cheap, private and I need to hide it from two Dads and a Mother..

Guys.. Please help..
Im seriously crying every night because of this..

You're 12-14 and you've done it? Wow.

My ex told me he loved me, but I don't love him. What do I dooooo,,,
and i have a crush on his best friend

First, tell me, how did that answer help her? You can't undo what's done, even if you really want to.
Imagine you would take your dog for a walk, remove the dog lead and he gets hit by a car.
Yes, you want to undo it, but can you? That was probably a terrible example, but yea.

Well, anyway. So, King for a day, you shouldn't make your decision lightly.
I don't know if you really know consequences of an abortion, do you?
It seems easy to just go and 'remove' the thing, and right now the money seems to be the main problem.
But it's for sure not the main problem. I don't believe in any god nor do I suggest you to keep or 'remove' your child.
But you shouldn't forget that it's, no matter what you do, a part of your life. And it will change it. No matter if you remove it, keep it, etc.

Please, please, think wisely about your decision. A child is not the end of the world, not the end of your world.
You're welcome to pm me.

I like this guy, lets call him B. We've been friends for a few months, and he's my only actual friend that's a guy. I'm not sure, but I think he may like me too, he's been specially nice to me and always cares about how I'm doing, but around other friends of his he usually drops it. A few days ago he and I were alone in the hall because I was helping him with something, and one of his friend walked by and smirked. He immediately yelled "SHUT UP D:<" to his friend and they laughed and walked away. I really like this guy, we have every class except 5th period together. He also has another really close female friend who have been friends for a long time, it seems. I'm just not sure what to dooooo

I wouldn't take the smirking friend and all to seriously. He could like you more, but he could also just want to be friends. I would ask him to do something like watching a movie, playing sports etc. together. Good luck!

[provolone]

Just a happy rant here^^

So last nigh was homecoming dance. And Dylan had to convince me for a whole week to go..But I'm so glad I did! So if you haven't been to a high school dance you probably haven't heard of grinding. I pretty much just slow danced and swing danced! It was sooo cute(x The last song of the night was a slow dance and Dylan was talking to his bro and his girlfriend, and she was telling us how cute we both were together and how I made the right choice with him. Then Dylan just said "Nahh, she's just the bomb" and it was seriously the cutest thing ever(x Sorry, I'm still floating on a cloud of happiness!

He also met my parents..And they don't know about us..I think it went pretty well considering the odds. And they don't suspect a thing!

[kelly.]

-Le story-

The only thing that I'm scared about is that what if he doesn't like me? My friend HL asked 16 if he liked me and he asked as a friend or GF, and she said GF and he said No. I think HL's going to ask him again though.

I'm not sure

Me and 16 are putting like notes into eachothers lockers and when we were texting he made the kissy face with emojis a couple times, but I don't know if he meant it.

We're actually video chatting a lot as well as texting c: We chatted for like 2 hours yesterday and 2 hours the day before that :3 Yesterday we were singing and he said he can't sing but I tried to make him hehe. And I sang too, which I usually don't do in front of people

Well we were talking over video chat and he said he didn't have any friends or anything, but we were talking about it and he said me and my friends were like popular and stuff and when he was in elementary school he wasn't that popular. I don't think he's a flirt though XD

What do you think I should do to see if he likes me again? Should I tell him or get my friend to tell him that I like him?

Okay, so 16 asked out this girl a couple days earlier and she said yes :c But I barely see 16 and his gf talk. He posted this pic saying tonight at exactly midnight, you must text me a paragraph stating how you honestly feel about me. The rules were you have to be completely honest, you have to send it exactly at midnight or before, the text will be a secret, and a reply back is guaranteed. Oh and I think 16 and his gf broke up since she isn't in his bio anymore but he is in her bio. Anyways, should I tell him how I really feel? It'll be really awkward if he doesn't like me back though.

Okay so last night I asked 16 to go first before I tell him that I liked him, but he didn't reply. This morning I said Hey twice at different times and he still didn't reply. He posted a pic though, a bit later after I sent the text. He must've gotten it or something :c And tomorrow we have class together and I don't want it to be awkward because of what I said last night

[Nyixa]

Okay I really need help...PLEASE!
SO today is my birthday, and my boyfriend of like 3 weeks hasnt even texted me or called me all he did was write "happy bday" on my facebook... He has been ignoring me all week at school, barely said 10 words to me, doesnt text me like at all anymore...but last sunday he told me loved me -.- I'm SOOOO confused!! Should I give him this week to step it up and if he doesnt should i breakup with him on friday?

[StreamWolf]

Just be honest with him! If he really loves you, he'll be honest back. Ask him why he's been ignoring you. Maybe its because he's nervous when talking to you because he doesn't think anything he says is good enough to say to you. Ask him why he isn't talking to you Hope this helps!